I think I still love him and I've never felt that way about anyone else. Is that normal or am I going insane?
2007-09-03 09:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all your answers. I think I'll let the best answer choice go to the voters.
2007-09-04 12:40:43 · update #1
its normal.
2007-09-03 09:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be normal to still love your ex.
When you have had a close relationship with someone it can be hard to 'let go'.
Whatever happened to break up your relationship doesn't matter. The fact is that you have parted from your ex. You need to get on with your own life & meet other people by getting out & enjoying life. Go out with your friends & have fun. Start to enjoy yourself & move on.
The worst thing you can do to yourself is to 'dwell' on thoughts about your ex. These thoughts will become out of balance - not a good thing. Get busy with things that interest you & try to clear your mind of your ex when they pop into your head.
This way you will clear the path to a new relationship. Never know WHO might be around the corner. Could be the love of your life & then the current ex will be truely in the past.
Good luck.
2007-09-03 09:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal
2007-09-03 09:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal, but it doesn't mean you have to act on it. It will fade gradually with time. It may never fade completely until you're in a new, better relationship. And yes, you will have a new and better relationship, if you want to!
Sometimes it's hard to remember why things didn't work out. Only thing is, both parties have to be willing to make it work. Most of the time, it's better for people to move on. You will find your new and better you!
2007-09-03 09:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kim K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! You are not crazy!! Lifes stress can destroy many beautiful, living things into nasty dead monsters! I was in love with my ex husband until the day he died. That was in 1995. Today I still carry feeling for him. Ihave not remarried, though I have been in and am currently in a relationship. If you have children between the 2 of you and there is any way you can make it work out, please try. You never know how many tommarows there will be.
2007-09-03 09:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by mman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah, its normal. You spent the better half of your relationship with him. You've invested some of your heart and soul into him and his well-being. Naturally you will still have a certain amount of feelings for him...especially if you have a child or children together. It unfortunate that things went the way they did for him to now be your ex. Who knows, maybe with time you and he can mend past hurts and get back together. Does he feel the same about you?
2007-09-03 09:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by SoAZ Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal, especially if you didn't break it off or broke up on good terms.. Sometimes you love someone, but you're not in love with them, and end up breaking up. It's entirely normal and I loved my ex for a few months before we got back together, so just because a relationship is "over" doesn't mean your feelings are.
2007-09-03 09:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by SG22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I feel the same. Its been almost a year, she doesnt talk to me any more, neither do I, but I think every day, every hour about her, is like imposible to forget, sometimes I worry thinking that I'll never be able to get over. But what can u do, and to be honest, I wanna call her, every day, and say all this f....things I feel.....but I believe its worthless, we spoke once, she knows what I feel, and silence and distance are her answer.
So, try meditation, yoga, sports, alcohol, drugs, date.....and tell me what work for u.
x
2007-09-03 09:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jagermeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you once loved someone I think you will always love them somewhat. It's just about what kinda love you feel. If you are still madly, deeply in love with him, your probably not over, but if you care for him and want the best for him kinda love, you are normal and just a caring nice person.
2007-09-03 09:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its completely normal. People cant help the way they feel so dont try to fight it because it either is or isnt going to go away. You need to move on with your life but you DONT need to forget him or be over him.
2007-09-03 09:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way thats totally normal, it takes time to get over it but just be strong. Good luck! :]
2007-09-03 09:08:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋