its 4 months now, we have realised that we are attracted to each other. we are very close each ones family, dont know how to overcome this feeling we have for each other. any ideas?
2007-09-03 09:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're having an emotional affair. You may not have done anything physically, but it sounds like your sights are set on this guy and not your husband. You're in a tough situation.
Take some time apart from your friend and don't talk to each other for a few days. Give yourself time and get your priorities lined up. If you want to pursue something with your new friend, don't do so unless you're prepared to face the consequences. And out of respect for the person you've known for years - not months - don't cheat on your husband. You'll suffer more than you think. Good luck.
2007-09-03 09:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was so embarrassed to say this, but I actually wanted to know really what a person should do in this sort of situation. I thought I was some horrible person for being attracted to a friend or someone other than my husband. Are we allowed to? I mean, there are other attractive people we will connect with in our life, but what do we do when we enjoy spending time with someone of the opposite sex or find them very attractive. Do we run the other way or test out the waters. I'm gonna have to check back on what answers you get to this. I wish you could let us know what you decide to do in this situation. Good luck.
2007-09-03 16:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are flirting with disaster! Try to imagine the consequences when your spouses find out, and they always do. If neither one of you can be true to your present husband/wife, what makes you think you can be true to each other? Best advice is to break off this relationship/friendship before it goes any farther and ruins both yours and your families' lives. Be Good!
2007-09-03 16:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cecil n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a very weak person who don't have strong boundaries. You don't know the difference between feelings and fantasies.... You are in a Trio relationship with a friend of your family? Just a question...How can someone detect people like you before marrying them? I guess family drama is on...what else I can say?
2007-09-03 16:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by MC Kwek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ask yourself do you still love your husband ? Does than man that your attracted to love his wife ? --ask him if the both of you are still attracted to one another then just do the right thing and tell your husband dont hide it give him that much respect and for your family too if you want to be together then just go for it but just make sure you are sure and he wants the same thing good luck
2007-09-03 16:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by miimmii_llynnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if y ou guys are happily married, there is no problem but if not i think you need to follow your heart.
2007-09-03 16:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋