i am a chick older late 20's early 30's for ever no other females like me. my husbands mom talks crap about me makes me cry, my sisters are rotten to me and only call me when they need something they treat me like crap and other girls like friends are just mean to me. the invite me to go places and they echnore me. they get together and talk abotu me why me you know why me. my husbands aunt lives alone shes gay and we go to visit her and she is so nasty to me. everyone is so mean to me but men are so nice to me i dont get it i dont. chicks think they can say what ever they want to me. some try to sleep with me and i tell them no and they dont bother me again. men are great.. even my mothe in law why why why
2007-09-03 08:44:30 · 32 answers · asked by christina b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Women are usually catty like this because they are jealous for one reason or another. Maybe you're more attractive or more successful than them.
If you have family treating you this way, it may be coming from an old argument of something you said that they took the wrong way and are still holding on to.
You know how us females can be.
2007-09-03 08:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by what's the point 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the last part of ur question speaks volumes when u say women try to sleep with u-n when u-rebuke there advances they talk about u,for some reason they must think u-r- gay now only u-would no what u would give them that impression.
Listen I cannot answer this for u none of us who respond to ur question I feel bad this is happening to u but only u really know the reason to all of this.
And as u say the men r great to you they r not a problem well what does that tell u to me either u -r-a threat to other women because u-r-probably attractive and they do not like it or they think u-r- gay and that is the reason some want to sleep with u and as for ur own siblings u-sure u do not know my family lol,well who's fault is that is u let women talk n treat u like crap including ur own family I know I wouldn't n trust me I do not stand up for ur self girl what is wrong with u-n-what does ur husband say about all of this or do u even tell him about the rest not his mom n-ur siblings I know he should be aware of that isn't he.
And if u-r- that passive than u need to show them another side of u that they have never seen before that u-r- not going to put up with this crap anymore ok u -r- not someones door mat to walk all over so stop it now n that includes all of ur relatives as well stand up for ur dignity n self respect ok u do remember that right.
2007-09-03 09:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people treat you so bad, then get new friends. Just because people are family, doesn't mean you have to go around them. You need to be more positive, and not let people mistreat you. When your family calls and they need something, #1 don't answer the phone. #2 Tell they "sorry I've made other plans and can't do it. #3 Maybe you need to change the way you come off to people, so they don't think you are sleazy. # 4 Quit feeling sorry for yourself, people can only walk on you if you are a rug.
2007-09-03 08:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 17:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just jealous of you for some reason. Don't let them make you feel bad. Stay strong, because if you show them they hurt you, they'll love every minute of it. Convince them that you are a strong person. Better yet, don't bother with them because your time is more important to sit around and listen their rude behavior. They don't have to like you or be nice, it's their choice. It's also your choice to say, "whatever, you won't and can't hurt me." then just walk away.
I'm female, 28. I'll talk with ya if you'd like. I'll be here for ya. lemme know.
Take care and good luck.
2007-09-03 08:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. If you are beautiful or a super bombshell, maybe they are threatened by you. You should not let it get to you, even though I know how that feels. Talk to your husband about it and maybe he can back his family down with all the trashy talk. Maybe you should ask them what it is about you that is so wrong. Be confident and strong. Do not show them that it bothers you. You should find one or two close friends and stick with them.
2007-09-03 08:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by kelso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop calling us "chicks." You have to show respect to receive it. I can not believe someone your age still talks like that.
People show respect to people that demand it. If you are being a doormat to your sisters, they will treat you like one. Have you talked to them about it?
You say that people invite you places, then ignore you. Why would they invite you if they didn't want you there? Are you sure you are not demanding constant attention? That would make me ignore you.
Also, I'm concerned with the whole "chicks want to sleep with me" comment. I seriously doubt you are only wanted by other women. Men and women are basically the same. Treat each other with respect, and you'll be respected. Treat each other with kindness, and you'll be treated with kindness. Stop putting yourself above all others, and looking for all the bad in others. If you start looking for the good, you'll see it.
2007-09-03 08:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by justanotherone 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The answer is obvious, your straight, good-looking and intelligent. Just tell the rest of those dykes to butt out. Who'd want girlfriends like that anyway?Go and find some real girl buddies.Don't take crap from relations. Stand up and spit back.
2007-09-03 08:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg ino! i get it ALL THE TIME! i have 1 really good mate whos a female, and loads of guy mates but sometimes id like girly chats i mean i cant talk to my guy mates about how i should do my hair?
maybe females are intimidated by me my sister says because im pretty? but i dont no what it is! they may be jelous of you because guys love you! same thing with me! =[[ awell
2007-09-03 08:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Parrtty =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ther jealouse because they no men like u or maybe u had an attitude problem earlier and uve changed but they just dont trust u or maybe someone u think likes u is telling ppl lies about u u never no so do a little check -up on ur friends
2007-09-03 08:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋