okay so i was bestfriends with this girl for 5 years then in the 9th grade she was talking bad about one of my good friends who she was also best friends with her then my bf tought that i was the the one that told my other good friend that she was talking bad about her wich wasnt true we were cool with each other for a little while after that but then my bf cousin called me and told me that my bf and along with one of my other friends were talking bad about me calling me a 2face, kiss up, and they said i was really boguz. my bf cousin told me that they said that casue they though i had taken my other friends side wich was not true and that my bf felt like i was ignoring her so what i first though about was il talk to her more but then i started to get mad & i stoped talking to her & now i have a new best friend and alot of bad things have happend since me and my ex bf dont talk any more but the thing is that i really do miss her id like to call her and talk things over w/her shouls i
2007-09-03 09:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honestly i have been thru a similar situation..but if she was talking about you behind ur back then u need to confront her,and if she was then she really isnt a good friend b/c who knows what else she has said about u.. u dont need people in ur life that are going to bring u down. and maybe its best for both of u to move on , if everything it true
2007-09-03 09:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many people involved in this. first of all, stop discussing all your personal business with everyone. try to treat all people the same, such as being cool and light hearted and not talking about others to anyone. If you can run into your friend, tell her you'll call her and then do it. Be casual because you don't know how she feels. If she has moved on, then you do the same. If there is some one you trust, tell them to tell her that you are wondering how she is and to give you a call. That is all you can do.
2007-09-03 16:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by smileytexas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss her and want to fix the problems, and let her know that some of the stuff said was not true, then go for it. Remember she might not feel the same way, so don't get your feelings hurt, if she rejects you. But try and make amends, you'll be the better person.
2007-09-03 16:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your story made me dizzy. blah blah yada yada. life is too short- be friends- be happy. in ten years you will probably not even no these chicks phone numbers. that's the way life is. what you re going thru now is called a life lesson. you will need these survival skills for the real world. not meaning to sound harsh---good luck to ya!
2007-09-03 16:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to make up with ex bf ,she was your bf (even if she did talk trash) .you will be surprised what an apology and a bag of chocolates will do.
2007-09-03 16:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by moonlilley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋