2007-09-03 08:51:20 · 12 answers · asked by no name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because what you went through and what you are going through is fresh in your mind. You got hurt, and you need time to heal. The mind has a strange way of thinking that if you stay away from all men forever, you will never get hurt. Well, this maybe true to some extent, but that is sure no way to live you life.
Its tough going through something like that. But hang in there. Get through it - I know you can - and then enjoy being alone. Give yourself time to heal - enjoy everything there is to enjoy being single. In due time, you will automatically feel comfortable falling in love again ;)
2007-09-03 08:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my decree absolute is due to come through this week, and i know exactly how you feel. You don't just feel like you'll never love again, you don't even know if you want to. It's taken me 18 months to start going out on dates again, and only now do I feel even slightly ready for a new relationship. I know everything feels a bit helpless, but honestly, there's nothing to worry about, it'll just take a bit of time.
2007-09-03 15:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by sazzie79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All that means is that you loved your partner. At first, you're going to feel this way. It's called being broken hearted. It's really not all that bad. You don't need to jump into another relationship right now anyway. Time heals old wounds and time wounds old heels. You're going to be ok. Tell yourself that every day. Eventually, you'll start to believe it.
2007-09-03 16:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by B. Nowlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperation, divorce, and death can bring about the same lost feelings. You need to deal with what is going on. Nothing is so bad that you can't start a new life. I have been through all of the above, and learned that there is a life but only you can make it a better one.
2007-09-03 15:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because your feelings are against the very thought of ever loving because of the negative results that came from it. Love is positive but situations that involve loving someone can have a negative affect on that person if they end up hurt. You will love again, but you have to first overcome this heartache in order to make room for anyone else.
2007-09-03 15:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Survivor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have a fresh wound and it needs time to heal.
Do not give up on caring and loving people around you.
It will be the best medicine to heal your wounds.
Commit all your sorrows and hurt to Jesus.
He can turn all your sorrows to joy.
2007-09-03 16:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by a2zgoblog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't feel that way...I was very happy to sign my separation papers and more happy when I got my final decree of divorce...Separation and divorce aren't always "bad" things.
2007-09-03 18:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
broken heart is a hard thing to deal with i know you hear it all the time. but only time heals a broken heart .
good luck.
P.S. go out and have fun.
2007-09-03 15:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by guero75220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your heart is broken, you've been burned, and it's just one of those, false feelings that can't be explained.
2007-09-03 15:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have a broken
heart. you'll get through it.
2007-09-03 15:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by azn_girly_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋