Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

are no commitments of staying to gether between us.Now a days I am obsessed as i frequently call him up knowing he is at his workplace or at home.He doesnt reply always but just once a while.We often had physical relations and he comes to see me often at my place.Though physically i dont expect much from him i feel like seeing him often which he fears as he knows ill be leaving to settle in US within few years .He says its painful to part so with this reason he wants to avoid getting close to me.I love him a lot and i want to help him without any expectations as he works with the bank and he hails from a middle class family.I am confused as i am too attached to him and i dont want t him to avoid seeing me or talking to me.I have two kids a daughter who is 22 and a son who is 15 and i am a divorcee

2007-09-03 08:33:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

weather it be computer or any game systems? I was just wondering me and my husband were having this conversion today and it pops in my head i wonder how many others have this going on? and does it bother u that he plays and about how many hrs a day does he play?

2007-09-03 08:33:33 · 29 answers · asked by she finally here and all mine! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I go to a computer centre to learn hardware.I have a boyfriend.We both go to class together.Our faculty and my boyfriend are of same age ,26. Sometimes the faculty scolds me before my boyfriend in the class. My teacher actually is a very nice boy with no bad intentions toward girls and he respects girls most.To girl students he is like their brother.I often go to his house when he is alone (his parents are not in the house) to learn computer., too.My problem is my boyfriend is very angry and he is jealous of my faculty. He thinks sir loves me and is trying to take me away.Once he argued with sir over a petty matter.I feel very shy as I do not want to reveal that we love each other.I fear someday my boyfriend may hurt sir's sentiments or may use slang. How to control him?

2007-09-03 08:31:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boy friend of 18 months is not really fond of children, he has two adult children, whom he rarely has any contact with, my grandaughter starts school tomorrow and today we spent a few hours with her,however my boyfriend has virtually ignored her, this has hurt me a great deal, i am spending tonight in my own home alone. i am beginning to wonder if he has just tolerated her to please me ? i am beginning to wonder if the relation ship has any future?

2007-09-03 08:29:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, today I was walking around the Air Force Base swimming pool in my bikini. It's orange with white polka dots. Hot, but 3 guys came up behind me and my best friend Sierra and they squeezed out asses. I took it as a compliment. Say what you want I don't care. But would you take it as a compliment or an insult?

2007-09-03 08:28:20 · 12 answers · asked by ..jennyluvz.. 2 in Singles & Dating

If I make a webpage on www.theknot.com for our wedding, can I put something in the invitation to let the guests know about our page, or would that be tacky or rude?

2007-09-03 08:27:54 · 15 answers · asked by BlackDahlia 5 in Weddings

Me and my fiance live in Alaska and it costs $500-$800 to get to Texas where our wedding is. My fiance's supervisor bought our tickets w/ his airline miles and we were wondering how to show him and his wife how grateful we are and how much we appreciate it since we were low on funds. Any ideas?

2007-09-03 08:27:42 · 10 answers · asked by torrid_love07 1 in Weddings

2007-09-03 08:27:21 · 19 answers · asked by anglemoma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband was 16 he got his first love pregnant. it was his first time having adult relations. She got pregnant his daughter was born when he was just 2 weeks into his 17th birthday. his ex was 19. her own family said htat she just wanted to have a baby. then a year later she broke it off with him. He had to visit his daughter at the mothers house who lived with her parents. he asked to take his daughter but his ex refused. so he just continued to visit at the mothers untill his daughter was 5 then we were finally able to bring her to our house. every thing was good for a while untill I had a baby we have been married for 4 years and together about 7 his daughter is now 8. Now she doesnt even call him dad she calls her step dad dad and is afraid to make him mad. they dont want her coming to our house but we think that it is important to be consistant this past summer we took her to court and have all the state guided visitation. her mom doesnt want him to be in the picture. help

2007-09-03 08:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Amie 2 in Family

well, i think that it is just an excitement...most young people dont know how cruel the world is and what is the reality...they think that everythin is wonderfull .they cant...

2007-09-03 08:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by y m 2 in Singles & Dating

goodlooking but dumb or smart but average-looking?

2007-09-03 08:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by TwentyGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it better to state no children, or just no children under 13? I need help and my invites need to go out asap! Thank you!

2007-09-03 08:21:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

a lot of dark, really curly hair? it's long, but really thick. female.

2007-09-03 08:20:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother and i are constantly fighting. He is younger than i am, will it get better when we are older??

2007-09-03 08:19:28 · 16 answers · asked by qteepatutee08 3 in Family

I started dating a married man when I was 16 and ended the releationship a few months ago after over a year together.The realtionship produced two pregnancies.I honestly wish i had never happened. I thought I was really "cool" to date a married man. He was older then me but really sexy and I wanted him.Maybe because he was married I don't know.I was a virgin before I met him.I felt I was special to him and I think he did love me but at the end of the day if a man can cheat on his wife then he WILL cheat on you when you re middle aged!

2007-09-03 08:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi my boyfriend of 3 months is 19 and I'm 17. I'm about to visit him at college in a few weeks with my sister, and I know we're going to have alone time and make out like we usually do but I know he's had sex before. He knows I'm waiting to have sex with HIM but I don't think he knows I'm very much a virgin. Like I've never even touched one lol. He finds me really attractive and I think he's in for a surprise. I'm freaked out I'll freak him out. What do I tell him? Will it turn him off?

2007-09-03 08:15:23 · 27 answers · asked by caliblonde100 1 in Singles & Dating

if I guy could sit with you and play "hey there Delilah" on his guitar and sing it looking into your eyes

2007-09-03 08:12:30 · 31 answers · asked by T 2 in Singles & Dating

like she goes on for hours if one thing is on the floor--not even a mess--and she does it constantly and its getting on my nerves, like she yells at my dad for everything that goes wrong like everything is his fault.

2007-09-03 08:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by me,myselfand,i 1 in Family

I hate that my husband is into porn and i feel helpless about it. He says it's a guy thing. Is it? Do all women feel this way? Do all women dislike porn?

2007-09-03 08:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by bengalchick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so me and my ex were seriously together for over two years. When we first met everything seemed to be going okay. I admit sometimes I acted like a child and gave in too much. I gave everything I had into this relationship, and so did she. But after over a year things seemed to change for my ex-gf. (Broke up with me once, shame on me) She started telling me how to run things, what to do (like I was a child), pressuring me to get her a promise/committment ring. I gave everything she wanted all the love and support, but at the same time, she didn't know what she wanted in life and didnt seem to return all the feelings. (Broke up with me twice, shame on her) During that last year she had denied me as a bf, while she was on a solo trip to Vegas, always begged for me to come over to her place when she knew I was working, tried to change who I was as a person. She is the type of person that argues a lot, and is afraid to get criticized when someone criticizes her. So I got tired one day, about 4 weeks ago, chewed her out a little bit for telling me how to run my life, left my car in tears. Before that I give her the option of breaking up w/ me. So then, two weeks later, she calls me up twice in one week, one for something different another day she needed help with something, in which I think she was setting me up for something and she says shes just checking on me. But I told her I couldnt help her since I was busy with a friend that day. So then a week later, my best friend tells me she has a new boyfriend, which we and our neighbors know this is a rebound bf. I have told her that I don't want any contact from her til she grows up. Sometimes, I feel this is my fault completely, and that I gave in too much throughout the last year, and for standing up to her like that on that very last day. And again, last night she called to check up on me and asked me if I was ready to be friends w/ her. This is the third time in four weeks that she has called to check up on me, and she kept saying to me she thought I was going to call her. I dont wanna be rude but I believe in not contacting her, but I'm the one that waits for her to call and like a DAMN FOOL I always pick up just to see what she wants, nothing more. And everytime I pick up the phone, I always keep it brief. First time she called after our breakup it was for something different. Second time that she called, I mentioned to her that I was in class and that I had a 'date' to prepare for. And she gave me a SURPRISED "Oh.....I'm sorry, I didn't mean to disturb you. I was just checking on you". Was that childish of me to do that, tell her what I'm doing? I realize it was, but I think I did it out of anger, even though I did have a date. Any opinions? Third time, she called called me in the afternoon while I was at work. And again, she said "Hey, what are you doing" (very softly). So I responded, "I'm busy right now, what do you want?". She says "I'm just checking on you, are you ready to be friends?". I didn't give her a straight yes or no answer. I may never give her a straight answer. Tell me if I'm wrong to do that. But anyways, if she does call again, I will just simply say "Listen, I'm busy" or "I've got company over, right now. MAYBE I'll talk to you l8r". That third time, she had asked if I'm ever going to call her, because she said "I thought YOU were going to call me when you are ready?" And this was only 4 weeks after she broke up with me. I'm not ready, but I feel that she is rushing me when she says that. Yes, I did tell her I may call her. Now when I said that and she may have waited, am I playing mind games with her or not? Because it seems like she may be expecting my call at anytime. Now my friend says that he saw on her myspace profile that she feels loved. I am assuming and know this is from her rebound boyfriend. Is that possible to feel love from a rebound boyfriend after only 4 weeks of her breaking up with me? And why would she be trying to call me three times within the last four weeks, just to simply check up on me while she had the nerve to ask if she wanted to be friends w/ me?

2007-09-03 07:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by dem5pinoy 3 in Singles & Dating

I do. Look at my profile pic. That's the face that Jello pudding is afraid of because I eat so much of it.

Fear me, pudding.

Kids these days with their rap music don't seem to have time for the Jello pudding and the jazz.

2007-09-03 07:58:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am happily married 13 years and my husband and I are going to be married 14 years.

When we got engaged there was no element of suprise and it was very causal and not terribly romantic.

We had a lot of people on our case to hold off on being married as long as possible until we had jobs.

Being that we were going to have a long time to wait I wanted to at least be enagaged to have SOME sort of a commitment,
I love my ring it is understated yet beatuiful and symboloises purity in our lives. We went by the water he asked me and put the ring on my finger and I of course said yes.

My question is for my 14 wedding anniveresery we will be going to the mountains to celebrate what is a way to renew our vows and be spontaneous? I also asked if my husband could propose to me again with a ring of his choosing.

What is a great way to re takes our vows and make our weekend very memeorable and speical. Do you dress up when you renew your vows?

2007-09-03 07:56:11 · 5 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Weddings

my boyfriend dumped me at the beginning of august and i still can't get over him. I miss him so much. he was so good to me and he treated me so great. i just cant get over him. everytime i hear his name or hear his voice or see him, it just breaks my heart. him and i are still good friends but how can i get over him and move on? i really liked him. thanks in advance.

2007-09-03 07:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister says that she likes to date guys who are "okay" looking because she wont have to worry about other girls trying to steal him away from her. I dont want to ask her why, but can anyone relate?

2007-09-03 07:51:31 · 35 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

My spouse has a friendship with a coworker, which I was aware of. I was not aware of how frequently they talked and how secretive this friendship was. The friends spouse found out the extent of it and threatened to call me so my spouse had no option but to tell me. My spouse maintains they are just friends and has said that as I am so upset the friendship will end. What else don't I know and where do I go from here? I thought we were a happily married couple soon to celebrate our 25th anniversary.

2007-09-03 07:48:48 · 14 answers · asked by Alan W 1 in Friends

like to every one i dont try to be shy i just never talk to anyone . i have little friends and last year i had the worst year because i would never talk to anyone and all my friends were in all different classes. i dont want to be this way and want this year to be great so how can i change. no rude comments pleeze

2007-09-03 07:47:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just to please him because i like him very much.Do you think that he really appreciates or does he thinks that it is normal to give him presents because in Europe we have money? Do you think that he gives a value ?

2007-09-03 07:46:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im not used to having a male mate in work. Anyways as my male friend in work asked me to lunch i returned the favour and asked him two weeks later. Is it ok to ask him to lunch again as i dont think hes the type to keep asking or is used to having someone to go lunch with. I do think he likes my company as he did ask if i wanted to go and look at his new flat when he moves in) . Im sorry i just dont know how to play these things and dont want him to think its a one off thing.

2007-09-03 07:44:42 · 3 answers · asked by jesabel1234 1 in Friends

2007-09-03 07:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-03 07:42:41 · 9 answers · asked by bernadette g 1 in Marriage & Divorce