I started dating a married man when I was 16 and ended the releationship a few months ago after over a year together.The realtionship produced two pregnancies.I honestly wish i had never happened. I thought I was really "cool" to date a married man. He was older then me but really sexy and I wanted him.Maybe because he was married I don't know.I was a virgin before I met him.I felt I was special to him and I think he did love me but at the end of the day if a man can cheat on his wife then he WILL cheat on you when you re middle aged!
2007-09-03 08:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The worst part of all is he told me I HAD to have the two abortions when I got pregnant.I so badly regret having the abortions. I killed my babies and it makes me sick to think of it
2007-09-03 08:27:28 · update #1
Bravo you for finally figuring out that someone who will cheat, isn't worth being with...sorry it took a year, your virginity, and 2 pregnancies before you wised up, but then you started it when you were a foolish starry eyed kid not thinking of how the situation might affect his family.
You've got some karma to work off for that situation but hopefully it'll balance out soon due to what you went through during the situation and the fact that you've learned a valuable lesson.
Good luck...
2007-09-03 08:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have
the naughtyness of it makes it all so exciting but still you no it is so wrong,
im vsorry to say it but you were used, you can just imagine him bragging to his mates how he was sleepin with a 16yr old and while you thought it was the real thing he was laughin at you behind your back,
you need to find a nice boy your own age and youll see that there are a few good men out there, but dont be so quick to tell him your past as it may put him off
good luck pet
x
2007-09-04 02:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~BluEeyE$~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. But, young as you were, you knew that you would bring hurt to his wife and almost certainly to yourself (which was the case) I guess all that was 'special' to him was that he had easy sex from 'a young bit on the side'
Do not fall for that line so easily again.
2007-09-03 09:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a VICTOM!! If he is old enough, your family should jail his worthless butt, not only 4 u, but 4 the others he will seduce in the same manner!!!!
2007-09-03 08:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never loved you. sorry to say but that is what you get for being with a married man. how would you like it if your husband went for something else other than you? maybe that will happen to you one day.
2007-09-03 08:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor you. Worst thing about viriginity is you can't get it back. All I can say is there are more fish in the sea and not all men are sex-diven manics like that guy or even me for that matter !
2007-09-03 08:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Moonbeam 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No but my sister has... twice... it is a bit wrong though if you've known from the beginning that he's been married.
2007-09-03 08:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I havent. I have more self respect for myself to get involved with someone who is already married. He has no respect for you.
2007-09-03 09:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make me feel for you when i read your story,there is trully love out there dont let this bad experience hinder you,learn from your mistakes and get stronger and keep your head up.
2007-09-03 09:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by GMONEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no and after hearing your story i dont want to!!! i'm sry that it turned out that way and thanks for the advice!! best of luck in your life :)
2007-09-03 08:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by SMILE! :D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋