Okay, today I was walking around the Air Force Base swimming pool in my bikini. It's orange with white polka dots. Hot, but 3 guys came up behind me and my best friend Sierra and they squeezed out asses. I took it as a compliment. Say what you want I don't care. But would you take it as a compliment or an insult?
2007-09-03 08:28:20 · 12 answers · asked by ..jennyluvz.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if they were random guys i would probably freak out at first, but after a while i probably wouldn't care, well i probably wouldn't like it but i wouldn't care as in i wouldn't take it as either an insult or a compliment
2007-09-03 08:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A compliment would be, "Hey, what a great @$$" or "Boy, I do love polka-dotted bikinis" said w/in your earshot.
An unsolicited grope by a random guy, to me, is NOT a compliment. As a matter of fact, it's bad manners for any man to put his hands in a familiar way on someone he does not know.
All in all, I'd say it was insulting. For him to come up and disrespect you like that.....psh. He would have heard an ear full from me!
2007-09-03 15:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy who used do something similar but better.
Believe me, when they squeeze, they want sex, and it could be an insult or a compliment. But when men simply touch your butt gently, that's true interest, true sign of liking a lady, true flirtation. And really, a compliment, too. It's also better.
2007-09-03 15:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that situation, an insult. If it was a private pool, and it was just me and my man, and he did the squeezing, i'd take it as a compliment.
2007-09-03 15:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well you can consider it as a compliment ...but in the true sense it is sexual molestation or assault...but it all depends on how you feel...it is typically that u r giving the green signal that you can have sex with me i dnt mind...because u did not consider it insulting...
I am a guy so I know what those folks thought when they did that to you...
2007-09-03 15:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rony Das 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Definitely an insult..... how can you find it "flattering" to have complete strangers touch your private parts???? If it were my partner of course it'd be a compliment........... but not from a bunch of jerks who feel they have the right to disrespect women...... of course in order for them to do this there must be women who allow them to do so............. so as someone else said, please make sure to clarify that YOU do not represent ALL women, becuz most of us DO NOT like men to do this kind of things to us.....
2007-09-03 19:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , you think that having three strangers groping you is complementing then yup its OK ,for it to happen to you, but when this kind of thing happens please find a way to tell that kind of guys that only the kind of girl you are likes it ,, but other women will be dialing 911 if it was to happen .
2007-09-03 15:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take that as an insult because if a guy looks at you and all he can see is your butt that ain't no compliment. Eventually you would get tired of guys smacking and grabbing on your butt, who knows they might reach and grab for something else.
2007-09-03 15:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by MeLicia T 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
an insult because if they can get away with that, how would you feel if one of them tries to rape you? If you give them the impression it's ok to touch you then they will go even further be careful the attention you allow.
2007-09-03 15:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Survivor 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well you have to realized that squeezed out asses mean saggy asses. One thing is that you never listen to air force dude. they don't have big enough ball to be even call part of the military.
2007-09-03 15:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋