2007-09-03 07:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whoever or whatever broke your trust
that badly might possibly have lost
your trust for good, but it's possible
to learn to retrust again.
When you get hurt or betrayed there
is a tendency to block oneself off from
everything and every one else while
still maintaining a level of friendship.
If you want to learn to trust again,
just don't give too much of your heart
and self out so easily to others. Little
by little let people know things about
you that you don't mind them knowing.
And let people trust you the same way
you want to trust them.
Know your boundaries and know who
you really truly believe is trustworthy
in your life. Trust is something that comes
easy if you've never been betrayed but
to people who've been hurt...they've been
around the block and gain a piece of wisdom
on the personality traits of people who
aren't trust worthy.
I hope that helped a bit.
2007-09-03 07:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderland Extremity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you relearning because of a bad relationship or family matters? If you trusted someone and they broke that trust and you aren't sure you can trust them again? Trust takes time and sometimes you have to jump into it with both feet and take a chance. Don't let an experience keep you from trusting. Think it out, decide if it's worth trusting. Trust comes from the heart.
2007-09-03 07:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Steffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard. Depending on what happened to 'break your trust'...it could, honestly, take a lifetime. The only way to 'relearn trust' is to take the chance and trust again. There is always the possibility of being hurt again...that's life, but to not take that chance...life can be a lonely place.
I wish you the best. Good Luck!
2007-09-03 07:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by CajunAsian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never attempted to relearn trust, case trust like a Glass when its broken we can’t reuse it.
2007-09-03 08:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't relearn trust. you learn how to read people. everyone had body language that they are not aware of. the change in tone of voice, dilating of the pupils, biting nails.... you learn how to "listen" to things people don't normally hear. you learn how not to be a victim anymore.
2007-09-03 08:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by sukebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the only way, it is very hard to regain someones trust once you've broken it. Sometimes u never regain it. Honesty 24-7 is all u can give and time will do the rest.
2007-09-03 08:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Nora G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how bad it was broken, time and testing. But not suspension and laying on guilt.
2007-09-03 08:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by doug g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋