like she goes on for hours if one thing is on the floor--not even a mess--and she does it constantly and its getting on my nerves, like she yells at my dad for everything that goes wrong like everything is his fault.
2007-09-03 08:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by me,myselfand,i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-09-03 12:30:09 · update #1
Did you ever think that Mom is feeling over worked and under apprieciated? Did you ever think that if you picked up after yourself and made life a little easier on her that she wouldn't yell so much? Try helping out around the house more and I guarentee that Mom will stop yelling.
2007-09-03 08:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think she is unhappy. Plus hormones enter into it. Go to your father and tell him what you wrote here. He probably does not know what to do to solve it but at least he will know you care. Then go to your mother and say ' Mom , I feel so sad all the time because you are yelling and i try my best to pick up my things but can you think of any way to solve this because when I am old enough to move out, I want to have some happy memories to reflect on" Well that is just my suggestion and I cannot put words into your mouth but I know that lots of houses are that way. One thing is certain, when you are old enough to marry you will think long and hard about the kind of life you are in the midst of right now and whether you want that. I watched an old movie called 'The effect of gamma rays on man-in-the-moon marigolds. It was about how a child grew up inspite of her moms problems. You will be stronger for it, but I hope you can realize it is NOT your fault. I am sure you are a wonderful son.
2007-09-03 08:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is stressed out. She may have other problems and stresses that you don't know about. When us moms are burdened, that 'one thing on the floor' makes us go bazerkko, so we yell to air our frustrations, but it usually doesn't work.
Dad gets yelled at because he should share the responsibilities and moms feel like everything on their shoulder's.
Do something nice for her....clean up something without being asked, run her a bubble bath.
Let her have some alone time.
2007-09-03 08:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by A G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She really wants more than her life is giving her right now, and she's acting out which is something she can control, but makes the whole situation worse. People have wants and needs, some are things that make them happy and fulfilled. Then reality rears it's head and these wants and needs become like an open wound. They slip away, not fulfilling these very deep needs becomes a piece of them that they had pass them by. Some people stay quiet and they become sad brooding people Others are not living in quiet desperation, they are angry and they can blame the people around them. In their mind they make their family responsible for the unfulfilled life they live. You live in a difficult family situation, your Mom is driving you apart from her. She needs some help that you can't provide. Stay very close to you father, and try to avoid make your mom mad(probably impossible now). She needs counseling, and you can't make her happy right now.
2007-09-03 08:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!? you have an argument, mothers yell each and all the time! It does not be a common day for me and my mom if we did not get into a minimum of one argument. end being a sissy, next time, yell decrease back!
2016-11-14 02:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom probably could take a chill pill. but on the other hand she probably has a lot of stress in her life it is not easy to raise a family. but if it is extreems like abusive then she might need counseling. my dad was that way I would get grounded like a month if my room was just a little messy and now I know that year he was alittle nuts to think that a month was fair but he also was raising 6 kids that is hard.
2007-09-03 08:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is unhappy.
Or maybe she enjoys yelling.
Most likely she is unhappy.
Make a checklist on why she is unhappy.
Is she unhappy because
1. your dad makes her unhappy?
2.nobody bothers when she is unhappy?
3.she is a perfectionist and nobody can meet her expectation?
4.something you don't know is disturbing her?
If it is 1 then your dad must do something to make her happy.
If 2 you and your dad must try to make her happy.
If 3 she needs someone to counsel her.
If 4 you and your dad must pray for her and ask God who knows to help her.
2007-09-03 08:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by a2zgoblog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your mom is overwhelmed and feels like she has to do everything for everybody, maybe if you and your dad picthed in and helped with things without even being asked you will see a whole new person!! Good Luck
2007-09-03 08:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by stormy m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs everyone to help out. Sounds like she is fluttered with the whole thing.
2007-09-03 08:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by jj 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all mothers do this, it's their job just try not to make a mess. she probably pends allot of time cleaning.
2007-09-03 08:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋