i was just bored and browsing ebay... i saw bridal (and baby) shower raffle invites/raffle tickets.
it said "funds for the bride and groom and a prize for the winner"
i think it's a cute idea. and i got to thinking it's not so bad... you have dollar dances and things like that... a raffle if you have a realllly cool prize (or prizes) is cool.
would you think it's tacky or would you buy in at a shower or reception?
2007-09-03 04:07:30 · 19 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ps let's note here i said i was bored and browing ebay not getting these for myself!!!!
2007-09-03 10:42:15 · update #1
I'd buy it. It is just another fun thing to add to the occasion and if you walk away with a cool prize....why not???
It is a fun way to collect some cash for the bride and groom without asking people. Nobody has to buy the raffle tickets if they dont want to.
I think it would be viewed as a little tacky by some people if you had it at the reception but for showers and such, go for it.
2007-09-03 10:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bridal Shower Raffle Tickets
2016-10-15 04:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selling raffle tickets at a bridal shower turns the occasion into a business. In my community, most guests bring gifts from a registry such as "Bed Bath and Beyond". These gifts usually are more appreciated than cash, and for those brides who would rather have the cash, can simply return those gifts.
If you are giving one raffle ticket to each guest for free and raffling something sentimental (such as a coupon at the restaurant where the groom proposed or an item displayed at the bridal shower), it will enhance the occasion.
2007-09-03 04:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by PrinceCharming 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahahahahahaha! I just love these joke questions! Ha! Selling raffle tickets at a wedding reception! That's a good one!
2007-09-03 09:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely tacky on every single level! Its one thing to play a game that guests don't have to "buy in" on or if you were doing the raffle where everybody gets a ticket for free maybe for sending their RSVPs back on time....but to charge guests for it?! Why not just hire a doorman and have a cover charge too.
Honestly...
2007-09-03 04:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An invitation is not a summons, and a registry not an impetus to give a gift. While a gift is never required, those who gave gifts for the earlier marriages certainly are under no obligation to give one for a later marriage. Just send a nice card to their home and attend the wedding to raise a glass to the bride and her new groom. The registry could have been more for the groom's family who has never had the chance to participate in wedding things related to him, nor gift him on his marriage. Decline the shower and attend the wedding for the fun and frivolity.
2016-03-13 01:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Regenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe for a hens party or bridal shower but yes it is tacky for a wedding
2007-09-04 00:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a shower... maybe. At the reception... absolutely not!
BTW, as a guest, I NEVER buy raffle tickets at showers, weddings, graduation parties, etc. I ONLY buy stuff like this at charity fundraisers. I've already given my gift at the door, don't beg me for more.
2007-09-03 04:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you give prizes and
not have guests pay
for tickets yes, but
DON"T ever beg for
money, and that's what
you would be doing if
you charged $ for
tickets TACKY TACKY
2007-09-03 06:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your not like this, but I have a friend who's always has those parties with the candles, makeup, shoes and after so many people buy several items she gets something free. It's the tackiest party and I never liked attending because I felt used... Don't use your guests for selfish reasons...
2007-09-03 04:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lyla 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋