I realized that I haven't flirted with a guy in 2 years? Is something wrong with me? I'm 19.?
I've never dated nor have I ever been kissed. I no longer interested in flirting. I've lost the skill. I hate the feeling of embarrassment after the guy rejects me.
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Guys do try to initiate the flirting, but it doesn't come naturally to me anymore. I'm not interested. I just get horny from time to time. That's all. I use to flirt during my ugly duckling stages. Now that I am datable, attractive looking, I don't pay attention to those things. I'm just not into it anymore. I don't think guys like me flirting with them. In the past, they didn't mind. I was fat and had great confidence. Now I'm just quiet.
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3 minutes ago
I'm straight.
2007-09-03 04:23:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There must have surely been an incident or a case where u just thought "Man, its not worth it!!! " Believe me ur normal, im 17 n a half but I am not interested in a guy...
Yeah another reason is that u could be a big-time achiever in some field which makes u think "I dont need a partner!!!"
So dont worry, ur ok... and the fact that u get horny proves that its natural to be wanting sex n not love... Love just happens... Why do ppl date??? Not always coz they want to fall in love??? some for just fun sake and perhaps some for sex!!!! :)
2007-09-03 04:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just focused on other things right now. I was never a flirty type, but when the right guy came along my freshman year in college, I was a flirting machine! Now we've been happily married for 8 years. So I wouldn't sweat it. I think it's great that you haven't gone to the other extreme too young. When you meet the right guy it will click. Good luck!
2007-09-03 04:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have better things to do than waste time on "hooking up". Don't worry about it - you will be able to "flirt" when the right guy comes along - heck I wasn't even wanting to date when I met my Husband and we have been together 15years. Just keep focused on your goals and relax - see some good movies with friends and don't let not dating be a focus. Once you are in a good place other things will follow. Good Luck!
2007-09-03 04:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen to this
Im a guy and lasr year i was a bench model in the philippines,
i used to flirt with girls but must of them where players so i defend my self and play along.
All of that was just a waste of time,i was still a student with a **** small amount of money in my wallet.Now i have a good job a the call center and i even enjoy my life without girls more than before.im 24 and i think that i should continue enjoying monthly income for the next 4 years.if you dont have work then try looking for one.Trust me shopping is best for you now,dating comes later.
2007-09-03 04:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by thenurrse d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been out of the dating system for so long. My last relationship was 10 years ago. I didn't accept suitors during that time. And I didn't have any crush, nor was I attracted to opposite sex. You see, we all go thru that period where you feel you're not feeling at all. But don't fret, coz it's just a phase. It will pass.
2007-09-03 04:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kaye Bennette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... U might just have been so busy. Or maybe u haven't found a good guy to flirt with. Just go with the flow. Whatever happens is what works for you.
2007-09-03 04:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by nagrom9319 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you get older, you look for much more in a guy than just his look. Take your time, and look carefully for the right guy. Don't settle for the first guy that comes along just because you haven't been intimate or physical with a someone. Take your time and have fun the right one will come along!!!
2007-09-03 04:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sahara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there are more important things in life to you right now. Like school or work and you are just not interested in guys right now. It will come when you are ready.
2007-09-03 04:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Alison S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you just have other priorities and goals in mind. Don't stress about it. It'll come back or happen when you don't expect it too. Good luck to you.
2007-09-03 04:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Micheyski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i understand. I hate the feeling of rejection also. It just gets pissed me of. Now u maybe more arrogant 'cause maybe be prettier.
"If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we are not really living. Growth demands a temporary surrender of security. "-Gail Sheehy
2007-09-03 04:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋