I went out with this guy I have flirted with for over a year and we are really attracted to eachother. Well we went out because he lost his job, so I said to him at the end of the date, "It was nice going out with you and hope we can do it again soon", he said "Yes he would I love to go out with you again", but once I start working I wont be able to see you as much because I need to work," he said. Do you think that was a rude comment?
2007-09-03 14:06:53 · 38 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. It sounds like he is stressed about not having a job/reliable income, etc. Guys tend to wear their heart on their sleeve, and it sounds like this is really bothering him. Just be supportive.
2007-09-03 14:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - are you serious? It appears to be an honest response.
Did you think that he was turning you down so he can get and keep a job?
Do really want a man to set aside a paying job to spend time with you?
You ask a question to set the guy up to set up another date - and he's truthful with you. And you think HE'S rude???
2007-09-03 14:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just want to concentrate on finding work right now its pretty tough and if he is a gentileman he will want to have money to take you out... it's a man thing you prolly wouldn't understand but it's nothing rude at all.. because he wants to go out again.... think about it, he'll have to get the newspaper and make resumes, go to inteviews and find the right pay of job.. i hate looking for a new job! there is nothing wrong with keeping in touch tho!
2007-09-03 14:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bronco Santa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he wasn't being rude he was letting you know in advance
he's starting a new job and he wouldn't be able to go out as much.
2007-09-03 14:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by rckrjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-09-03 14:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, more like ignorant and inconsiderate. He may be just being honest and nothing more. IF you waited a year to go out this should not be anything to frett over at this time. You saw another side of him and keep that on file.
2007-09-03 14:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was an honest remark, try not to 'read too much in-between- the-lines' by telling you this he's mentally preparing you that he's not available on 5 minutes notice, but he's got to check his schedule when he can goes out with you!!, you should be relieve that he gives you the reason in the same breathe when he replies, if he wants to be rude he'll tells you he'll goes out with you when he wins the lottery or when he made his first million!!
2007-09-03 14:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not rude but I think he may be telling you that he's not that into you. If he were, he'd find a way to be with you no matter what. Don't expect anything long term to come out of this.
2007-09-03 14:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see that as rude at all, he was merely stating a fact.
It's not as though he told you he never wanted to see you again, or that he couldn't see you anymore if he got a new job...
just not as much... :-)
2007-09-03 14:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really a rude comment, but pretty stupid to say if he was really interested in you. It sounds like he is just trying to let you down easy.
2007-09-03 14:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋