Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

im looking for a boyfriend (im not asking online. im not trying to find a bf over the internet.) and idk where to find one. i go to a REALLY small school (12 ppl in the entire grade and 9 of them are girls, the other 3 are just weird and i would never go out w/ em). any ideas?

2007-09-03 17:12:48 · 21 answers · asked by sarah =] 1 in Singles & Dating

He has 3 children, divorced 1st wife from young marriage and lost 2nd wife to cancer. I've met the kids, his mother and lots of friends. They all say that he is a great guy and dad. He called me 4 times in one week to chat and I called him a couple of times. We met last weekend and seemed to hit it off. The children knew about me before I met them. He's very attracted to me and asked what my intentions were with having children and being married. He was worried that I would run when I met him b/c he has so much against him. Should I have any concerns with this one? I've never dated anyone with kids.

I do love kids and hope to have them and he's wants more with the right person. He works offshore 7 and 7 and his mother moves in when he's gone. From what I hear he's very open and responsible. It doesn't bother me that he's been married 2x. He's already told me that when he's home his time is spent with

2007-09-03 17:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by manhunt_kk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband goes out with friends to enjoy a night out at least three times a month. We have two children...I would like to get out too! It never happens!! I have expressed that it is not fair and now he lies to me and sneaks around to drink beer and have a good time. I love my family, I would much rather be home than out. I do not need to go to the bar and get wasted. Why do men??

2007-09-03 17:11:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think he might have serious bedroom issues - he can only come(it wont let me say the other spelling) if we do it a certain way and he says he cant feel it when I orgasm which is totally weird because I can come so hard that I push him out of me. I have to ask for sex and last time he laughed at me, but we did have sex. you can read more at http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkvnbjGRtsNT2R7S9x4.I8zsy6IX?qid=20070903203011AARmGl5 if you want - im really trying to figure out if its me or a problem with him and if I should bail now. . .

2007-09-03 17:10:45 · 17 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I have gotten my heart broken AGAIN by a guy. It seems that I'm never going to find the guy for me. All my girlfriends are in great relationships....so its hard to talk to them about it. I feel kind of lonely in the Heart broken world. Does anybody have any heartbreaking stories out there....

2007-09-03 17:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jay Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

im married living in korea until dec. my wife teaches here i have to kids in the usa i love and support my oldest lives outta the state and has since he was like 3 hes gonna be 13 my youngest lives with his mom in the state my wife and i are from but she might get married and move to texas,we were gonna go home to st. louis to be by my oungest hes 6,but if hes gonna live 15 hrs away my wife and i have the oppurtunity to move to thialand or taiwan or really anywhere in the world and make a better living and see the world at the same time,if we go back to usa we have to start from scratch when with my wifes job we have paid housing and insurance and good pay what would you do?

2007-09-03 17:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by jd 3 in Family

OK, Today I went to McDonald's and saw a girl in the back working. I went inside because my order was messed up, and she asked me what was wrong. Well all in all I got a refund, but the thing is, I thought she was the cutest thing I have ever seen. I asked her was she from around here and if she went to school. She is from Florida and she is going to school in the spring. So I asked for her number and she gave it back to me on the refund recite that she gave me. NOW MY QUESTION IS THIS, WHEN SHOULD I CALL AND WHAT DO I SAY? This seems so weird because I never have this problem but she has me thinking so hard. Help Yahoo! LOL

2007-09-03 17:08:18 · 17 answers · asked by T.Cool 2 in Singles & Dating

She abruptly ended it after 2.5 years. In fact, she just announced she was going on vacation with another guy. Part of me says to move on, that I should not be with her, but another part wants to keep sending 'please reconsider' emails. How do I move on?

2007-09-03 17:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by hottotrot1_usa 7 in Singles & Dating

My parents want to move because some people decided they want to put town homes down on the field beside our house. As you can imagine with time it would lower our house value. Anyhow, there's a VERY good chance i'll be changing schools. I'm a sophmore. Someone has offered me transpertation back to my regular schools if i move to a place where i'm suppose to change schools. The school i might have to switch to is the fullest of all 3 high schools i have a potential of attending. I understand this is my parents home, but shouldn't where we live be a little about what everyone wants? My parents still have 10 years of children in their house. My sisters don't want to change schools either. They said were we move is all about location, they *think* living in a more expensive resident will mean everyone there is great and perfect, but even in a high classed neighborhood doesn't mean people can't still do bad things.. right?

2007-09-03 17:06:28 · 2 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Family

I need your input!

My girlfriend of 6 years and I are planning to marry. Last year my grandfather died. He and I were very close. Being the only grandchild I was given the family business, tons of property and his estate. I sold the property and business and became a multi millionaire in just days. Before dying my grandfather said to invest the money and property to which I would recieve.

My girlfriend since this time has quit her job and is trying to convience me to sell off the estate and cash out most of my investments. She keeps saying "our" money. I did what my grandfather wanted me to do and live off the intrest of $5,000 a month. The wedding went from $10,000 to almost $50,000 and its still going up. I want to go back to school and live on this budget, but my g/f says I'm being stingy and not to worry because I have enough money.

This is getting old fast! Should I dump her (which I really don't want to do) or get over it and have her sign a pre-nup??

2007-09-03 17:05:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it does the 2nd parent have to take it? My BF took the class over a month ago and his ex refuses - and she is the one that filed for the divorce.... is there any way the judge can make her?

2007-09-03 17:03:57 · 8 answers · asked by mustanglette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

gap isnt it?

2007-09-03 17:03:47 · 31 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I really don't want too,but i don't want to seem cheap(cuz we are tring to cut back on expenses).The place we are going is already $10/per person. What is a good gift for her?she's my cousin. Is giving her a spa basket a good idea? or any other suggustions...

2007-09-03 17:03:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we have been friends since we were in diapers he even moved across the street from me i love him with all my heart hes the brother i dont have but sometimes i wonder if maybe i want to be more than friends i mean i think about it but i dont want to ruin the best friendship i have ever had just any help or advice should i make a move and see if we should take the risk and try to be together

2007-09-03 17:01:15 · 8 answers · asked by Peachez 1 in Friends

My husband has cheated before one girl he kissed one he had sex with and one he let her give him oral sex YES 3 times he has cheated and I stayed with him each time I forgave him all this within 2 and a half years but it has been almost a year and i think he did it again I moved to go to school because he's about to get deployed and I found pictures of him with a girl he had his hands around he waist he says that nothing happened that the pictures were a bad idea but he also didn't have his wedding ring on and didnt even tell me he was hanging out with this girl he says because he knew i would get mad. I'm so confused? I love him so much but I dont want to let him go whats wrong with me?

2007-09-03 17:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by pinkdummy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I look like a stupid, worthless woman to jerks because I sound desperate, etc. I always get my heart broken by them and they get turned off... I try so hard to pleasure them and make them happy even though I know they dont like me. I text them like crazy trying to get their attention and they think im psycho. Why am I attracted to them?

When nice men try to date me, i dont go. When theyre nice i get annoyed. When they listen to me , i get annoyed. I never text back and I always flake.
What aren't I attracted to them?

What can I do? Since I like the men that doesn tlike me, does it mean that I'll never find Mr Right?

2007-09-03 16:57:07 · 8 answers · asked by confusedz1 1 in Singles & Dating

He comes back within 30 minutes no makeup or perfume i dont think he is cheating its just that we got into an argument a while ago because he had his phone on silent and he thought i was nagging for telling him about that. well we spend all our time together so i dont think he is cheating but i just didnt like how he had his phone on hush...soooo??? *sigh*

2007-09-03 16:56:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 yrs old,I have lived with my mom all my life. I am attending school and I have been in a relationship for a year with someone I really love alot. He has asked me to move in with him,once my lease is up here. I would really love to move in with him,but the problem is my mother who feels I won't be able to take care of myself. She will be against it,I am the youngest of my siblings and the last to leave home. I don't know how to bring this up to her,I have tried so many times and before I can get out the whole scenerio she shoots it down by saying I could never survive on my own. The thing is,I'm grown,I will move out,I don't want to live under moms roof forever.But I don't know how to bring this up to her and work it out with her,so that she and I don't have bad blood. I'm very eager to get my life rolling in the right direction,I would like to keep this relationship going as well,and moving foward. Please mature answers only,I really need the adivce.

2007-09-03 16:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by Himynameis 3 in Family

He said I don't want to lose our friendship but once you stop the extra benifits he stops calling, and stops hanging out with you.

2007-09-03 16:53:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i posted a question about my friend who is aveage looking, soild build, bad teeth nothing fancy. and said i thnk i like him. we have been friends for years & years. we have together laughing, jokeing, blah blah and so on. we see/ talk aleast 1st or twice a week. our famlies are really good friends so we see each other all the time. he seems 2 show's interest in what i have to say and we have a good time when we are talking together and all stuff like that....
soo when i asked everybody my question u all said to try for sumthing more with him, and said that he had a thing for me.....
but im am not sure how to take the next step forward... without looking like a big fool...
i really like our friendship and dont want anything strange/ weird to happen to it. but i also would like sumthing more...
could you plz help me!!!!!
How Do I Get his Extra Attention with out looking like fool???
What is the best way to take the next step with him????
Plzzzzzzzzz HHHHeeeelllllppp ME!

2007-09-03 16:51:23 · 2 answers · asked by music loved by sheba 2 in Singles & Dating

I am now a Junior in college and I'm realizing that I am tired of my friends, well most of them. I have been friends with most of them since high school and I think we have finally grown apart. My roommate last year and friend for 6 years is driving me crazy. I had to deal with a lot of issues with her boyfriend and I was fed up with her at the end of the school year. I saw her tonight for the first time since may and I felt like I had nothing to say to her. I am worried because these are the only close friends that I have and if I give up on the friendships, I have no one. It is very hard for me to get to know people. I am very guarded and dont trust people, not even my friends. Should I try to make new ones or finish college with no one?

2007-09-03 16:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by that one girl 2 in Friends

I was wondering who wears their wedding rings and why you do/ or don't wear one???

2007-09-03 16:46:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Have you ever seen the show "Sister Sister" on disney?
You know how they were adopted into 2 seperate families.
Then they met eachother later in life.
Well thats kinda what happened to me and my sister.
We lived with eachother up until we were about 5, then our parents died in a car accedent.
We were put into two seperate foster homes and adopted by 2 different families.
We ended up meeting eachother our freshman year of high schhol.
The thing is her & I look nothing a like now. We did when we were little but not anymore.
We found out we were related becuase me & her just happened to have a picture of our parents on our binders.
So we went further into it and found out by our parents that we are realy sisters. (We got to see our adoption papers and plice reports of our parents death)
Well me & her became bestfriends.
Well I was adopted into a high class rich family and she lived in a trailer (now in a small appt) well shes poor.

2007-09-03 16:43:15 · 4 answers · asked by Brittney B 1 in Family

well heres the deal my dad died when i was 9 i am now 14 n i never cryed about it tell 2 days ago its like it just hit me that i dont have a father yet i knew it the whole time can u plz help me i feel like crap n i miss my dad.

2007-09-03 16:42:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he really nice and funny and sweet, but not my type at all.
i think he likes me.. but if he asked me out idn what i would say.. its really weird... should i just suck it up and try it out of not...

thanks

2007-09-03 16:39:59 · 3 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Singles & Dating

I thought theese emotions of pure happiness and warmth all over were just in fairy tails. Never felt like this before for my honey! Now I can't get my babe off of my mind...constantly thinking about my sweetie.

2007-09-03 16:39:05 · 4 answers · asked by Daydreamin' 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a black woman that wouldn't mind daing a white guy. I was wondering if white men find black women intimidating. I notice white guys looking at me but they never approach me.

2007-09-03 16:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dating a girl who seems to be playing by the book "The Rules" where you ignore a guy and act standoffish. The theory is that by doing so, you will attract an "Alpha Male."

I think this is lame and don't want to play games. I also don't want to be with someone I get by playing a game.

Does this make me less than the Alpha Male? Does this mean I am relegated to dating inferior women? What should I do?

(When we are actually together, we have a wonderful time otherwise I would just blow her off)

2007-09-03 16:35:42 · 5 answers · asked by extraordinareality 3 in Singles & Dating

1. What does it mean when someone calls you a "homeslice"?
2. What's a safe, cheap, and good way to loose belly fat?

2007-09-03 16:31:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I never seem to find the right guy. They always abuse me, hurt me or leave me. What should I do?

2007-09-03 16:29:21 · 12 answers · asked by gcfansara26 3 in Singles & Dating