Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

my husband is fine with me till i mention a certain womens name he works with then im every nme in the book the only way i can get him to do anything for me is if i go through her but when she is away oin the weekend he treats me fine unless i say her name hell say im leaving you and her i think hes cheating we got three kids what do i do

2007-09-03 19:16:15 · 12 answers · asked by thomas f 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...i dont have any experience reading girls and getting signs,cuz i always spent my time studying but im not a geek...i always care about my look , clothes but anyways i work in a clothing store and one day i was folding some shirts and i saw a girl coming by but i didnt greet or anything but she was standing beside me but i didnt even look at her...then all of a sudden she said , how long have you been working here ? and i was like ( to myself what the hell is this one cuz im kinda new there) and i said " umm 3 weeks " and she was like how do u like it ?" and i said " well, it's good " and then she started introducing herself and shook hand with me and she said i work here but i got in an accident a while ago and i coming back soon...and she explained a bit about it and the conversation ended after like 3 mins...Why did she do this ? did she really mean something ? cuz none of the employees treated me like this , i mean shaking hands and the introducing thing? it was very formal...

2007-09-03 19:15:45 · 13 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theirs this ex friend of mine who made this fake profile..When she was my friend she was on my friend list but awhile back I confronted her cause I found out she slept with my now ex bf so we got into a argument and yea we ended our friendship so apparently she saved some pics of me from my profile photoshopped it and pasted them to naked porn chicks body and after another friend of mine came across it and sent me the link to the page I confronted her and reported the images but now she put it on private does anyone know how to get around the private settings ??

2007-09-03 19:15:37 · 3 answers · asked by Ri 1 in Friends

bloody hell im 27 with a 3 yr old and have been with my man for 6mths. but how do you know, you love 'em is it because i feel strained around him, almost irritated, annoyed when he comes over for tea for a visit in the evenings every night. Tell me what's that all about?
I see him every day! we have very different perspectives on things which do clash. i find it hard to verbalise what i feel even in a fight i do not talk, i just shut down and shut up!! He constantly loves me, i dont even know where i am. I want to see him tonight but another side of me wants alone time. normal or not?

2007-09-03 19:12:39 · 10 answers · asked by dot 4 in Singles & Dating

My cousin met this real beautiful girl, I don't know how but after talking to her & spending time wit her & my cousin I started to have feelings for her. She is really smart, nice and gorgegous. I'm real jealous of my cousin. Would it be wrong to get her to go out with me?

2007-09-03 19:12:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance is well educated but broke, divorced, co-parenting a 14 year old princess (oh, I mean daughter) every other week. His daughter is VERY rude to my son who's also 14, (his dad passed away 3 years ago, so obviously he's with me full-time). My fiance is hounding and hounding me to buy big, expensive home for us all to live in because "dating" (the going back and forth) just isn't working. We have opposite money habits, different parenting styles and we're both 57 years old. (Might I add, his dog is untrained, too.) Other than that, everything is peachy!

I need you to help me tell him that I DID buy a big fancy house (I've been "lying" because I haven't told him) but I don't want them to move in! (I'll be moving there after the 18th of Sept.) And, I don't want to get married. He has a bad temper, and he's going to be very disappointed, so: WHAT DO I TELL HIM? (Thank you!)

2007-09-03 19:09:34 · 18 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ON S.S. FOR HEALTH REASONS IS THERE A LIST OF APARTMENTS FOR THOSE ON S.S. THAT DO NOT MAKE 2 AND 3 TIMES THE RENT. THANKS.

2007-09-03 19:08:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

effection,attraction

2007-09-03 19:06:53 · 15 answers · asked by ady 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm like Ariel the Mermaid. Except that while he says he likes being just my friend...I'd like to date him. I know I can't exactly change his mind...but...I've tried everything to get this guy to like me. No guy has ever liked me and said so actually. I really like this guy, how can I get him to see me as more than just his friend?

I have tried to get over this guy, so please, don't say to ignore him and get over him. No matter what, my mind keeps going back to him.

2007-09-03 19:05:26 · 11 answers · asked by alicia 4 in Singles & Dating

i always say i wood love to find a friend that likes some of the things i do (music, clothes, tv, hobbies) but wen someone i know gets interested in something i already liked, i seem to get all mad. not at them, it just sort of annoys me and i dont know why. anyone care to explain?? :(

2007-09-03 19:03:04 · 10 answers · asked by shutupnathan 2 in Friends

Since we always start arguing after he comes back his school,and it often lasts until he gets back home at weekend.This is exactly the same his last love.He feels tired and bored since he 's out of things to talk to me.

2007-09-03 19:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by jollygilgi 2 in Singles & Dating

plzz help
dont suggest moving out cuz got nowhere else

2007-09-03 19:01:30 · 3 answers · asked by JiJi 2 in Family

I pay child support,but mother will not let me see here, because i do not wish to have anything to do with her.

2007-09-03 18:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What's a secret that you would keep all to yourself....like you wouldn't tell anyone? It doesn't have to be a secret you have.....
just one that you can think of......also none of that I like her/I like him.....but anyways Thanks! =]

2007-09-03 18:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so about three weeks ago I moved from Kansas to Texas. I had a good life there, everything was going good for me. I had a perfect boyfriend and friends that were always there for me...blah blah you get the point. So anyway. Now I'm here. By myself. And it really sucks. It seems like I am stuck on my old life because I am not really making any new friends and I only talk to my old friends. I only think about my old life..basically I am not living in the present, I'm living in the past. My boyfriend has pretty much replaced me with another girl and I am having a hard time dealing with it. Any suggestions on this whole issue..as in how to make friends..how to move on..personal experiences..etc.

2007-09-03 18:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend and I are having a debate on wether there is a certain "glow" to a virgin i believe there is ... how do you all feel ?

2007-09-03 18:54:05 · 6 answers · asked by Christopher 2 in Friends

2007-09-03 18:53:29 · 8 answers · asked by timtamgal 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife cheated on me while on deployment and she has settled in with her new man already. So i am actually feeling bad about going out with other women. She has clearly moved on even though we are only separated and not divorced yet. should that matter? i find it hard to move on. any advice, suggestions, comments, questions, etc...

2007-09-03 18:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by shyboy84 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a 23 year old muslim male living in usa, and this girl who is almost 22 living in bangladesh, we r deeply in love with each other. we really want each other but unforetunetly she got nikah (married) not willingly with someone else, and now after 2 weeks she has to leave her house officially. and stay at her the new place. she is going crazy, she wants to be with me and i am going crazy as well, but we dont know what to do now, if we elope that would hurt our families, and its bound with family respects and all, but we cant live without each other thats for sure, now what can we do, what can i do. i have no idea, so plzz guys help me out give me ur best thoughts to overcome this nightmare.

2007-09-03 18:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by tanvir s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

love
marriage
punishment

2007-09-03 18:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by JAYAMEGA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

stating among other things that they had had an affair, and cited specific dates, location, and with whom, and you knew your wife to be the kind of person for whom this wouldn't be unthinkable, what would your reaction be? what would your reaction be if you were a naturally jealous, somewhat controlling person? i'm not going to be sending such an e-mail, and i didn't have the affair, just to be straightforward, but i know of a similar "situation". this e-mail would've had a name and additional unflattering info as well, so it wouldn't be anonymous either.

2007-09-03 18:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister totally neglects her daughter. she has no job, yet has no time to bathe her daughter or wash her daughters clothes. we watch her EVERY weekend, as well as buy all of her clothes. when she goes back with her mother during the week, she wears the same outfit every day! she also hangs out with teenagers, and has a 17 year old boyfriend. she is 23! she doesn't make her sit in a carseat or have her seatbelted in the car. she keeps her up all hours of the night. she doesn't brush her teeth. she is 3 and has caps, cavities, and has had teeth pulled. her friends are more important than her daughter. she uses her food stamps to trade for clothes, cigarettes, car parts. if this isn't neglect i don't know what is. we want to call child services, but want to make sure we would at least get temporary custody of her while this is resolved. or full custody if she doesn't change. is this possible?

2007-09-03 18:47:05 · 6 answers · asked by GLgirl 2 in Family

Has anyone ever said you were the most difficult person to get along with?

2007-09-03 18:46:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my guy buds asked my crush what was going on with the 2 of us & why he hadnt asked me out yet and he said we were pretty much already dating cuz he asked me to the homecoming dance. He told my friend that he would talk to me tomorrow cuz he liked me. Then he texted me & asked if we were going to the dance as friends or more. I told him as friends if he didnt like me that way & he said that he didnt wanna hurt me but he didnt feel the same way that i felt about him. He kept going on about how bad he felt about it but i dont want his pity. I was so disappointed cuz he's the sweetest guy i've ever met & he tells me that i'm beautiful & he just tells me all these sweet things so i thought he really liked me. I've never liked anyone this much & now i'm so embarassed for telling him how i feel cuz he doesnt feel the same way. Why would he tell my friend that he liked me & we were dating & then he told me he didnt like me? Why are guys so confusing?? JEEZE!

2007-09-03 18:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

Could this guy be interested in my wife. She says he stays voluntarily past his shift to talk to her.

2007-09-03 18:43:02 · 23 answers · asked by Lenworth E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and My wife are both dual Military with three girls. One together and the other two from previous Marriage with ex and old boyfriend on gef behalf. Anyhow she is deployed to Kuwait and ahs filed for divorce from there because I told her that I bought a motorcycle a week after she left for deployment and wrecked it not even a month later. Is that a legitimate reason for divorce? And then she adds to it that I'm not there for her emotionally whaen she feels she needs me most. I Love My wife and I dont want the divorce but she's determined and like I mentioned, she filed from Kuwait and I recieved the papers in the mail and filed my response. On top of that she willfully accepted orders to Hawaii without considering me or the effect it's going to have on the kids. I dont know what to think. Everytime we talk via email or on the phone, she ask me if I'm taking care of buisness as far as being gone by the time she returns in November. I staying in California. How will Custody work also?

2007-09-03 18:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by nortondo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one day my mom was picking me up from school and she saw my friend and her cousin talking to a bunch of guys and my mom took it the wrong way like flirting and stuff shes become more over protected ever since my sister got pregnant and as soon as i got on the car my mom told me not to talk to my friend anymore because she thinks shes "bolada" in spanish bolada means like idk like a dater, flirter, stuff like that and my mom dosent want to become like her and now that im going back to school my mom has told me not to talk her i love her shes my bestfriend whos been there for me just because that day my mom dosent want me to talk to her what should i do to make her understand that shes not a bad person or a a bad influence thank you

2007-09-03 18:36:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. I always know what I want. It doesn't take me forever to realize it. I have talked to him about marriage and he says "in the future, you need to finish school.... " and so on. I'm kind of old fashioned. Don't get me wrong, I partied in HS until I got sick of parties, party friends, drugs...... etc. I know I love him and I want to do things the right way. We're doing things backwards. We live together (beautifull apartment), have sex and we're not married. I want to get married but I don't want to make him feel forced. One more downside........ahhhh....... I'm 18 and he's 27.
I don't believe age has anything to do with anything. And please don't be like " OH.... you're so young, live your life". I don't want to date a lot of people. I want to be with one person. I don't want to try on guys like frickin jeans. If you can give me some good advice I apreciate it, but if you don't.........ahhh... don't waste your & my time.

2007-09-03 18:35:50 · 17 answers · asked by Girlie Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf has a mole on the outside of her v@gin@, about 1cm from the centre. I can tell shes a bit self conscious about it, and I'm not too sure if it grosses me out or not.
WOuld you be freaked out by it?

2007-09-03 18:35:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend has had a bad day (he found out he has an s.t.d.) and he made me promise not to cut myself (and i broke it) and i have never lied to him and it worries him when i cut myself should i tell him

2007-09-03 18:34:59 · 6 answers · asked by toatalgeek99 1 in Friends