Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a half in a long distance relationship we use to talk all day and all nite but lately she starts not to answer my calls at nite and has a attitude sometimes when we do talk i dont know if shes cheating or not but i do know she gets high everynite but we just dont really talk like we use to cand lately ive been holding this relationship together and i wanna ask her to marry me but i dont know what to do im tired of crying and worrying why she doesnt pick up my phone calls like she normally does iis really hurting me inside but i love her to death what should i do

2007-09-03 17:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just wondering what to do about this

2007-09-03 17:54:08 · 15 answers · asked by evonne i 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and i want to live with my dad ...
but will they NOT let me live with him because of what hes 'done'.. like not take my bros and sis.. some of the time when hes suppose too.. and not switiching his job time so he can be with me in the evening if i do go to school there

can they stop me from living with him.. even for what hes done... i AM DESPERATE too live with him because i CANT stand it anymore with my mom??

my brothers and sisters dont mind where they live.. and if i leave.. they are ok with it

2007-09-03 17:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by USER 3 in Marriage & Divorce

or do they like it

or are they only happy as long as they get a free feel lol

please explain why

2007-09-03 17:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am confused. Why does a guy who lives out of state who you once dated continue to play you? I mean why does he ignore me for days, then call to tell me how much he misses me etc and wants me to visit him and move to him then ignore me again for days? What does the guy get out of this? I am done dealing with it but wonder what is going thru his head. Is he keeping me in the wings in case things don't work out with the other girl? He tells me there is no other girl but I am almost sure he is playing me by how he is acting.

2007-09-03 17:50:35 · 9 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have a friend that I've been friends with for about 5 years. We were pretty cool and were good friends the first 2 years. Then she started hanging out with a bunch of people who turned out to be total dirtbags. We were in high school and I became friends with these people for a short time until I learned that they were talking behind my back and made up a rumour that I am a lesbian even tho I'm not. They made my senior year hell. Meanwhile they would talk **** both in front of me and behind my back with my "friend" sitting there unwilling to do anything about it. She "says" she talked to them but she has turned out to be a pathological liar.

She lies about almost everything, and most of it is stupid stuff not worth lying about. Not to mention she still talks to me, but only when she is not with her bf or these dirtbag friends she claimed she dumped. I am finding out more and more of her lies. Plus she makes no effort to keep in touch with me. I have always been a good friend

2007-09-03 17:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Friends

2007-09-03 17:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by needhelp 1 in Singles & Dating

child. He at first lied to me about this, though later told me. He seems to be too involved with his ex......they talk on the phone, he welcomes her into his house when dropping off the child, etc. There action seem to not be appropriate for a divorced couple. They called it quite because they couldnt get along and were too different. She is not suing him for custody, etc. You would think that this would upset him though it doesnt? I recently found out that people are still email him and his exwife messages. I think there relationship is too enmeshed. Am I over reacting or is it completely normal for divorced people to still be freinds and hang out with eachothers family and know everything about eachothers life? For example, when his ex was promoted at work, he was the first to know. I can understand that they need to talk and be cordial for the childs sake though do they need to know everything about eachother?

2007-09-03 17:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-03 17:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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jaye3rd89
S What is up with my girlfriend? (PLEAE READ) Need Help?
Ok I’ very concerned about me and my gf. I haven’t talked to her a lot for the past 3 days.Now i'm not counting saturday because she was out of town. But yesterday and today was wierd. I only talked for like 10 mintues each day. Almost everytime I asked her something whether it was just asking what she do today or something like that, it would seem like she have an attitude about it. This has been happening for a lil while.Then when I asked her about today, then she says she is irritated that she can’t talk to me on the phone. ( Her phones at home are messed up)

Please Help Me

2007-09-03 17:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by jaye3rd89 1 in Singles & Dating

i just dont get it.. i have always wondered but i dont think they are that amazing..
help!

2007-09-03 17:40:18 · 24 answers · asked by anne b 1 in Singles & Dating

i am not married, but just curious. if a husband had a job transfer and left his wife alone for a long period of time. do you think his wife may fantasize of sleeping with other men while her husband isn't near?

2007-09-03 17:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last Fri night I went out with a couple of my friends. This group of guys approached us and started talking to us. One guy from the group named "ryan" kept making eye contact w/me and he finally got up and sat next to me. We had a great conversation and found that we had a lot in common including being in the same field of work. He asked for my number jokingly saying "for business purposes only" and then he bought me a drink. His friends decided to leave and he even stayed behind to talk to me longer. He didn't seem to be overly intoxicated or anything and I didn't drink too much that night either. When we left he said goodbye to my other friends and then pulled me aside and gave me a hug. He then said that we should hang out tomorrow night after his friend's graduation party. I said sure and then he kissed my hand and said goodnight. I haven't heard from him since. Do you think he will still call? I really thought he was into me.........

2007-09-03 17:37:09 · 11 answers · asked by Candance K 1 in Singles & Dating

It feels like gender roles are set in stone, especially when you are a guy. If a person is a guy, therefore they do this, this and this and NEVER DO that, that and that. However, for me, it has never felt natural to take the initiative or be the dominant one in a relationship. I always assumed it was an extreme form of shyness but even when I break from the shyness; it still doesn’t feel natural to take the lead. I don’t know whether I am secretly sub and would rather be the submissive one in a relationship.

Are there any other guys affected by this problem? How have you been able to deal with it?

2007-09-03 17:35:59 · 1 answers · asked by Sirius70 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive gained weight
ive dated and lived with the wrong man
ive started a drinking problem
my family has fallen apart
i dont want to live like this anymore


all im asking for is some words of support... i know that no one on here is going to have the perfect solution to my problem... but i need a friend... i need ANYONE right now... im at the end of my rope

2007-09-03 17:35:22 · 27 answers · asked by MRose 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Right now I have long hair that is not too long or short. My hair is a split or parted with a line showing in the middle. I see a lot of guys having short hair these days and having short hair is too original nowadays aka spikey style.

2007-09-03 17:34:19 · 29 answers · asked by ForeverLove 1 in Singles & Dating

hi,mmmm im not sure if my dad loves me...he doesn't come and visit,and you hear other fathers trying to visit their kids but the kids don't even even care.my dad and me (his son) have so much in common you can't imagine.I try to go to his house but he just comes up with some lame excuse,or else he just gets drunk...which i don't do.I try to tell him how i feel but he says hes always busy...(watching t.v).I would just like to spend some good quality time with him,but he just plays with his other family.Theres so much to say. and he keeps making me depressed and i dont even know what to think now

2007-09-03 17:33:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My good heart have been ripped out by men! All the harmony, good will, kindness HAVE to be directed to another aim! No more men from now on, and I'll just focuss on my career, friends, and all the good causes I'm living for..

2007-09-03 17:33:47 · 36 answers · asked by Zoupana 1 in Singles & Dating

What sets you off about the "C" word? But you can handle others?

2007-09-03 17:31:31 · 19 answers · asked by M.D. 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating him for over 5 months now and I know about his ex, heck I've even seen her too. She was his first love and he mutilated himself after she cheated on him. After her, he really considered suicide. Its been a couple years since then and just when I think I can get over her something brings her up and I feel like I'll never measure up to her. She's pretty and they even thought of they're future together. He and I have been getting our future set as well. I hear so many things and I've seen his old love notes for her. I can't take it. I can't bring this up to him for he would think it was all his fault. I just don't want to be another one of his girlfriends. I truly love him. Please, help me get over or just forget about his previous-love.

2007-09-03 17:27:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you go crazy for a 6 pack?
Do you like a guy with little love handles?
Big arms? Big smile? Let me know what your thinking, please...

2007-09-03 17:26:37 · 28 answers · asked by Jacob S 2 in Singles & Dating

Well.. I was thinking. I've heard/seen what girls do, think, and feel when they're in love. Heck, I am one. But I'm wondering, what about guys? It's a bit of a random question.

I guess I'm wanting a better understanding. Curious to know if it's the same or different in anyway as a girl. Guys, what do you do, think, and or feel when you're in love?

2007-09-03 17:23:13 · 3 answers · asked by Blood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My grandfather is the most stubborn man alive. He's not a strong man as he used to be. He has had many operations and hospitalizations in the past five years which makes him evry weak physically. So, my aunts and my family took him from our province and housed him with between the families alternately. I wouldn't consider this an ideal solution since its not really permanent. Nursing home isn't really a solution since its very rare to find a good nursing home here in our country. And our culture prides itself of being family centered.

But my grandfather got into his head to walk back to his province. So in the Metro Manila. He walked the service road, aided by his old memories that if he walks to the service road he can hitch a bus ride back home. He didn't realize that things have changed since 1990's. Provincial bound buses are not allowed inside the service road and my aunts had a hard time tracking a 78 year-old man walking by himself around the metro manila! HELP!

2007-09-03 17:22:27 · 7 answers · asked by Marya Laya E 4 in Family

could this relation last if the two are serious about it? or would it have low chances of success?

2007-09-03 17:22:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how come guys can hook up with a different girl every night or get laid with a girl he just met and be considered "the man", but if a girl goes out and randomly hooks up with a guy or even a different guy every night or sleeps with him the first night, she is considered "a slut" or "ho"?

i have slept with guys the first night i've met them before, and when others heard about my sex history and that i've had one night stands, they considered me a slut. but i have a really good guy friend and he gets to sleep with pretty much any girl and all his other guy friends consider him like a fricken god!!! wtf??? if guys can do that, why can't us girls??? We have our physical and sexual urges too!!!

i'm sure you've heard this question before, but i was just wondering what other people think...

2007-09-03 17:20:33 · 18 answers · asked by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3 in Singles & Dating

my "best friend" and the guy that i like like eachother.....what do i do???? i like this guys a lot but he likes my best friend and my best friend likes him...and she doesnt talk to me as much anymore!!! im having 2nd thoughts abou tour friendship but weve been friends since we were babies!!! what do i do??

2007-09-03 17:19:19 · 2 answers · asked by God is <33 2 in Friends

I masturbate a certain way , its weird i dont know if other girls do the same. i have to lie face down and i have to rub/grind my pelvic into something . thats the only way i can have orgasm. i cant do it any other way! when a man asks me to masturbate and have orgasm in front of him i cant do it because i am embarrsed i cant do it any other way. girls do u have suggestions? is anyone like that too?

2007-09-03 17:16:05 · 2 answers · asked by confusedz1 1 in Singles & Dating

That you have herpes?

2007-09-03 17:13:18 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to call him names,hit andkick him. I used to tell him to playin the street so he would get smushed by a car. I used to punch him in the stomach and he'd cry to my mom. I always got in serious trouble.
When I was 9 yrs old and my bro was 6 I kicked him between his legs hard. I remember my mom taking him to the hospital later that night. I didnt mean to kick him it was a reflex.
Now that my brother is 14 and my older brothers make fun and joke about it, they say its my fault (because of what happened when he was 6) and he might never have kids. They think this is funny!
Now Im not sure and it drives me crazy, esp since my little brother is so intelligent and responsible acting and sweet natured. Last year on Christmas he wrote everyone of us letters telling us how much he loves us, and my oldest brother went to his room and cried.
On top of it I think my little bro is gay, because of me. Or maybe he isn't. But Im afraid if he cant have kids, its my fault!
What should I do?

2007-09-03 17:13:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alright.
Issue Issue Issue.
My mom is being super- over protective.
I mean to the point where she has to know where im going, why its taking so long, "you weren't suppose to stop there", you cant do that, let me talk to the parents, cant go etc.

Just makes me infuriated! if thats even a word.
Sometimes i feel like punching a hole in the wall, but i hold all my anger back. And dont ever show it.

She took my phone tonight for "going to walgreens, to get rubbing alcohol which i needed for my face"
she was like you were suppose to go home!

2007-09-03 17:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family