That you have herpes?
2007-09-03 17:13:18 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget the "when" word, that was a mess up. Thank you and have a wonderful day. :)
2007-09-03 17:14:13 · update #1
46 answers already, wow! I wonder how many of you have herpes? i can bet someone answering has it.
2007-09-03 17:23:28 · update #2
Just don't complain when she replies.....
"That's ok, you have HIV now too".
2007-09-03 17:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should tell her BEFORE you have sex. It's wrong to willingly withold information that is so crucial to her decision to have sex with you in the first place. You might have knowingly given her an STD - that's so not cool.
I hope you know that not telling someone that before having sex is actually against the law. You could seriously get in a ton of trouble.
I do have to give you credit though - at least you're aware that you may have done the wrong thing (and this is assuming that you actually did do this. If you haven't, then you really have to tell her before).
2007-09-03 17:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by bezi_cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pray that this is a joke, because that is against the law, if they say that you told them that you have herpes after sex you can go to jail, for indangering some one,s life. And that,s a fact.
2007-09-03 17:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by msann601 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always discuss the possiblities of possible STD's you may have, before you engage in intercourse. That is disrespectful of you not to tell the woman that you have an STD. That would turn me off totally. I would stop everything and leave you.
More info on STD-genital herpes: http://www.cdc.gov/std/Herpes/STDFact-Herpes.htm#Whatis
2007-09-03 17:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make ANY sense to tell her you have herpes WHILE you're already having sex with her. In reality you should be saying " you're going to get herpes" since you are giving it to her. Cruel either way.......
2007-09-03 17:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by i sharpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya that's a really bad time to tell a girl you got herpes
2007-09-03 17:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
eewwe!!!!!!!!! definitely!!!!! that would be a big problem for the girl if she had a contacted with an infected person and it is too yuckky... common sense fro the guy to inform the girl of that. guys who would allow it to happen just want the girl to get infected too. It is the responsibility of both to know the health status of the partners entering into that. It si a bit serious to consider, having such kind of infection really requires one to be sanitary and that she must avoid having contact with anybody.
2007-09-03 17:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "your" was a mess up, too. It should be "you're". Looks like that herpes has made its way to your brain.
2007-09-03 17:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know that this question is 'after the fact'. I hope and pray that this is not something that you'd do. It is hurtful not only to the girl, but to you and what does it say about one's: C H A R A C T E R??????
2007-09-03 17:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I mean what if you didn't have any case of herpes and then while your having a intimate moment have your partner tell you that they have herpes...?
2007-09-03 17:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell a girl that you have herpes BEFORE you have sex with her! It is rather selfish of you not to tell her before.
2007-09-03 17:18:15 · answer #11 · answered by scorpio_girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋