What is up with my girlfriend Please Read?

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jaye3rd89
S What is up with my girlfriend? (PLEAE READ) Need Help?
Ok I’ very concerned about me and my gf. I haven’t talked to her a lot for the past 3 days.Now i'm not counting saturday because she was out of town. But yesterday and today was wierd. I only talked for like 10 mintues each day. Almost everytime I asked her something whether it was just asking what she do today or something like that, it would seem like she have an attitude about it. This has been happening for a lil while.Then when I asked her about today, then she says she is irritated that she can’t talk to me on the phone. ( Her phones at home are messed up)

Please Help Me

Answer 1

give her space - when she is ready, she will tell you what is on her mind and everything will be fine - the worst thing you can do is push the envelope and get her pissed at you for no reason

Answer 2

Maybe she feels like I do, I don't "visit" on the phone. I want to know what a person is calling about and then after 10 minutes, I get off the phone. If a guy wants to spend some time with me, then make some kind of date so we can look at each other, face to face, as we talk. I want to see the expression on his face and look into his eyes. I don't text either; e-mail is for long distance communication. I hope she wasn't rude to you tho, maybe that was a misunderstanding.

Answer 3

Hey! Jaye3rd89,

No worries, really! She just needs your support & understanding...It sounds like there are outside circumstances getting in the way right now...That does happen. Tell her you know it's a little frustrating right now, but it's temporary & you get it...Ask her what she needs to help her feel better. The key is honestly LISTEN to what she tells you & do it! It will all pass in time & you'll be laughing & goofing around soon, but these are the times you need to be a man, by being patient & stronger than her! The payoff is awesome so go for it!

Answer 4

If she says that's why she's irritated, then take her word for it. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. :)
If she continues to act this way, then I'd find another way of communicating.
If it goes on for a long time, then I would let her know my concerns if I were you.
Someone being constantly irritable after a while is never a good sign..... but for now, just relax about it and as I said above, take her at her word.

Good luck! ;)

Answer 5

see i had a same gf last year she use to go out of station without tellin me,,...and much more seeee ...wat u have to do is to make her feel that ur not too possesive abt her talk to her generally and thn tell her urself tht she might be busy so u could call her some other time....dont make her feel tht u r tryin to control her life thats wat u must hv done in past ...so do as i say u will have her back slowlly and gradually trust me

Answer 6

there is 2 possibilities.
1. she's cheating on you.
2. her ex boyfreind has contacted her

let her blowe of her steam for a couple of more days then see how she is.

Answer 7

I suggest that you have a talk with her in person and let her know of your concerns.

Answer 8

Sorry to break this blockbusting news to you chief, but she don't LIKE you anymore!
You're young, move on and don't be so naive on the next one.
(There are plenty out there)

Answer 9

i have no idea.. girls are so unpredictable..
my bf sometimes doesnt understand me.. i get like that to.. but my bf lives with me..i get irratated.. maybe give her time.. or just ask her whats wrong before its too late

Answer 10

Sorry dude, I think she has sailed on. Peace