Last Fri night I went out with a couple of my friends. This group of guys approached us and started talking to us. One guy from the group named "ryan" kept making eye contact w/me and he finally got up and sat next to me. We had a great conversation and found that we had a lot in common including being in the same field of work. He asked for my number jokingly saying "for business purposes only" and then he bought me a drink. His friends decided to leave and he even stayed behind to talk to me longer. He didn't seem to be overly intoxicated or anything and I didn't drink too much that night either. When we left he said goodbye to my other friends and then pulled me aside and gave me a hug. He then said that we should hang out tomorrow night after his friend's graduation party. I said sure and then he kissed my hand and said goodnight. I haven't heard from him since. Do you think he will still call? I really thought he was into me.........
2007-09-03 17:37:09 · 11 answers · asked by Candance K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his balance is empty.
2007-09-03 17:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Zacky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for the call and try to stop thinking about it. He probably is a cute one you could see yourself with him. Bf material .
If he lost it or has cold feet. He will come around bar again or get in contact with you through other means. Track you down through work etc.
Dare I tell you what I learned from my years in the harsh dating world. Some "good"guys are hoping to make out and /or score . Yes it is true. They may not be the slime balls all over you (we recognize them right away)but these are the "nice" but not looking for "anything" serious guys.
He got your number before you left and realized you were not so into him to kiss him etc during that embrace. Showing you were a good girl looking for a good guy for a relationship. He might be the boy hoping for the bad girl good time-friends with benefits kinda gal.
Either way do not wait for that call. He can find you if he is on the same page as you
It sounds like you have no problem attracting guys. So this one not calling will soon be a memory...
Good luck
2007-09-04 00:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still may. Guys are weird that way, they try to play it cool. I'm sure the graduation party got out of hand and then it was too late to call or whatever. I would go back to the same place on Friday and see if he shows up again. You can tell then what's what.
Hey, me and Peggy S. thing alike!
2007-09-04 00:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he went to a party. He probably didn't get drunk in front of you because he wanted to impress you, but I'll bet he got tanked at the party and passed out. If you don't hear from him in a couple of days call him out of the blue and ask if he had a nice time when he went to the grad party.
2007-09-04 00:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by scarletxvi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just never know with guys. Sometimes they don't call right away because they think that they will look too desperate. He could have even lost your phone number. Try going to the same place next Friday, and if he lost the number, he will be there looking for you to get it again.
2007-09-04 00:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm call him. What the heck u got to lose. The standard of a man calling a women days are over. You both have to make the move sometimes. Go For it
2007-09-04 00:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get past it and go on with your life. he is passing on a great person. and if he can't keep his word about the small stuff it won't be good on the big stuff like being faithfull.
2007-09-04 00:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have lost your number. but if he put it in his cell phone he probably just decided that he wasn't comfortable to call you. he obviously thought you were cute, who knows what happened. don't wait for his call.
2007-09-04 00:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him time i mean he mite be loaded w/ work and if he doesnt i mean you werent dating so just find a new guy
2007-09-04 00:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by stunner' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we tend to do that sometimes. Or perhaps his wife didn't approve.
2007-09-04 00:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him time. If he doesn't call, what did you actually lose?
2007-09-04 00:40:30 · answer #11 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋