I'm like Ariel the Mermaid. Except that while he says he likes being just my friend...I'd like to date him. I know I can't exactly change his mind...but...I've tried everything to get this guy to like me. No guy has ever liked me and said so actually. I really like this guy, how can I get him to see me as more than just his friend?
I have tried to get over this guy, so please, don't say to ignore him and get over him. No matter what, my mind keeps going back to him.
2007-09-03 19:05:26 · 11 answers · asked by alicia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes, I've told him I like him.
2007-09-03 19:10:33 · update #1
Just be yourself, dont try to be needy or rush things Men hate that crap, you wil run him off fast. Just be yourself and have fun with him the rest fall into place on its own, you can of course flirt and do the usual stuff. Look nicer every day that you are going to see him, where low cut tops show a little cleavage let him get the idea of where its going and see if he bites.
2007-09-03 19:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey- if he doesn't like you back, you are just hurting your poor heart... you can't make him like you.
I suppose, if you want to, you can just keep on being his friend. Maybe someday he will see you as someone he can love. But know this- it may be a long time. And while you suffer with unrequited love, you are missing out on the opportunity to meet someone who DOES love you back.
You deserve to be loved in the same way that you yourself love. Hold out for that person, my friend, and have a rich and rewarding relationship...
good luck.
2007-09-03 19:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dress more feminine around him. Be flirty and girly. for some reaxon guys seems to like that stuff. Also, acting a little bit helpless, and very confident in yourself helps too.
2007-09-03 19:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to STOP IT! He said no! By not listening to him, you are going to build resentment.
One of two things will happen here: 1) he will start taking advantage of your feelings and using you, because you won't GO AWAY or 2) he will start getting really, really resentful and stop communicating with you, which will be even more difficult.
You don't need time, you don't need more make up, you don't need to talk to him even more! You NEED to move on with your life and start trying to find someone who will love you without your begging or forcing them!
HE
DOESN'T
WANT
TO
DATE
YOU!!
Move on before you get really hurt by him dating some woman and pushing her into your face to get rid of you! Soon, he won't even want your friendship... ugh
2007-09-03 19:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him:"I love u, do u love me too? Please give me a chance to love u and dating with u...If after that u feel i'm not ur girl then u can tell me by early so that i can stop loving u... Please at least try to accept my love..."
If he still no respond, is mean he is the most stupid guy at this world...
Good luck, hope can hear ur good news soon...
Cheers...
2007-09-03 19:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a hard one.. if he just wants to be your friend.. that might mean that your not really his type... i hate to say that your just gonna be a friend to him .. you really cant do anything about it unless he for some reason changes his mind and sees you more then just a friend..
2007-09-03 19:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt with him but dont show a major interest in him.
2007-09-03 19:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why not just tell him straight you like him?
might turn things around, you never know
2007-09-03 19:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by baby gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you must give some present to him to show that you really like him very much, don't give up, try and try. gud luck to you....
2007-09-03 20:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by ez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take some time...but have you told him how you have felt about him...maybe that will do the trick...
2007-09-03 19:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by oraple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋