stating among other things that they had had an affair, and cited specific dates, location, and with whom, and you knew your wife to be the kind of person for whom this wouldn't be unthinkable, what would your reaction be? what would your reaction be if you were a naturally jealous, somewhat controlling person? i'm not going to be sending such an e-mail, and i didn't have the affair, just to be straightforward, but i know of a similar "situation". this e-mail would've had a name and additional unflattering info as well, so it wouldn't be anonymous either.
2007-09-03 18:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Something similar happened to me....My husband received an email from my supposed "lover" saying that he was the father of my child that I was carrying at the time....and mentioned things about my life and his life that would lead anyone to believe that the letter was for real....but my husband knew that the person that wrote the email was his ex wife...she was jealous of me and upset that they weren't together and that I was carrying his baby. We knew it was her....because only 3 people had his email address...His ex, myself and his boss! Geeeeee.....don't need to be a rocket scientist to figure out that one.
2007-09-03 18:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd print it out for later, when you might need it! I wouldn't do anything physical. You can download a program that whenever somebody types anything on your computer, you can read every word they write. (You can't read what the other person writes, unless they write an email and your spouse responds to the same email.) You can find out a LOT that way. Then use it to your advantage. Good luck!
2007-09-04 01:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Crossfire Kelly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would not make me jealous as i trust my lady unconditionally --- in fact this has happened and i did not believe the story even with a wealth of details --- and you know what it was a malicious lie
2007-09-04 01:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly if i was the husband i would be furious of the infedelity. but i think i would be more mad if someone (im assuming a friend) knew and was holding out on me.
2007-09-04 01:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by jnbarner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat the living crap out of the person who sent my wife the email.
2007-09-04 01:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you need to find out if it is really true. You know your wife better than anyone, if you don't believe she would then someone is lieing and 2nd you need to find out who? and 3rd why?
2007-09-04 02:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by teddy_bear_says_os 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be glad they are coming home to you. I'd worry about if theres more than one person in your bed
2007-09-04 01:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by acot_anthonym 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little complicated,but i wouldn't like it.
2007-09-04 01:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had to know her e_mail adress i would think from your typing she. cheating my honest opion?
2007-09-04 01:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him...and cry A LOT.
2007-09-04 01:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋