I think he might have serious bedroom issues - he can only come(it wont let me say the other spelling) if we do it a certain way and he says he cant feel it when I orgasm which is totally weird because I can come so hard that I push him out of me. I have to ask for sex and last time he laughed at me, but we did have sex. you can read more at http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkvnbjGRtsNT2R7S9x4.I8zsy6IX?qid=20070903203011AARmGl5 if you want - im really trying to figure out if its me or a problem with him and if I should bail now. . .
2007-09-03 17:10:45 · 17 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calm down ladies dont get your grandma panties in a bunch - im not the other woman to him - im 35 hes 24. my name refers to being hit on by a lot of married men because Im smokin' sexy with a body built for sin
2007-09-03 17:22:19 · update #1
certain way - from behind
2007-09-03 17:23:13 · update #2
^Is he taking any medication and/or does he have a condition like diabetes which can cause a low libido, try talking to him, he could also be depressed about something he's not ready to talk about.
Maybe he should have a physical by a "real" doctor and then you can play doctor with him. I hate to say it but there is a chance he's cheating, I hope not. Good luck, I hope this helped.
2007-09-03 17:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, before you give me a thumbs down, read on. It is you, from a certain point of view, you are boring to him. He's had you everywhich way he could already right? So for him, there's nothing more to explore. Also the psychology of it is against you. You are older than him. Sadly, to someone as young as him, you are something to be conquered. So actually let me clarify, it's the situation, in which you play a pivotal role. I'm sure you're an attractive woman, it's just that you chose the wrong guy. It happens the other way around too, sort of. A younger woman dates an older man, sucks out all his money then stops having sex with him. Just move on, it will be better for the both of you, he can go on living his "wild young days" and you can clear your head and chalk this up as "something to avoid."
2007-09-03 17:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, ok, you sound really intense woman!! maybe just relax a bit and let the guy have some space to 'feel' you out again, hey? Take the pedal off the metal, put it in cruise control, so you can get more out of him. But you gotta make him hungry girl. if you keep feeding him roast every night, he will be full and bored 4 weeks over!! let him starve for a while, then feed him sum more din din's. He is 24 so understand it at his level. Let him take the lead now ok.
2007-09-03 17:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by dot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Is it just about sex for you? If so, I would bail. If it is about the whole relationship then he obviously needs help, because sex is still a very important part of it all. Maybe he should see a therapist of some description, maybe he is gay and is in denial. If you love each other work through it, if not get out.
2007-09-03 17:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by the man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your priorities are WAY out of line.
Slow down, Momma! Nothing will make a guy's Willy droop quicker than what YOU'RE saying.
Try being patient and let him be the aggressor for a change.......At this point it'll probably take time for that to happen but if you're not happy with it now, what have you got to lose?.......By the way, sex never wins the guy in the long run. The personality does.
2007-09-03 17:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ow. well they're possibly could be something wrong with him he's too embarrassed to tell you if not then it sounds like he's cheating on you. maybe afraid of passing something onto you. it's just a possibility. im just thinking of things it could be. but it defiantly sounds like he's hiding something. i'd be pissed if that happened to me. getting all hot and heavy and then he just turns over and go's to bed. i live with my boyfriend and his parents too so i know how you feel in the situation. i hope you find out what you wanna know. good luck!
2016-04-03 02:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low libido. You're gonna have to spice it up. Pump him full of some viagra, take him to a sex club, let him screw another woman while u watch, you screw some other guy while he watches. Soon he'll be the one pleading for more while you're the one crying about being sore and tired.
2007-09-03 17:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by troybuddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you guys need some serious counseling. He appears to have some issues, and if they are not addressed and taken care off, it is going to get worst. If you care for him and you think that he cares for you, you should do something about this issue.
2007-09-03 17:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what the "certain way" is that makes him come. This could be important.
2007-09-03 17:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by Skinny Minnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur sex drive is overloaded
2007-09-03 17:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋