He said I don't want to lose our friendship but once you stop the extra benifits he stops calling, and stops hanging out with you.
2007-09-03 16:53:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men are only in it for one thing...On the otherhand, there are those who truely mean what they say. You should take things one step at a time and never move so quickly. If you want to be clever...I suggest making him work for it. Give him little at a time rather than giving all of what you have to offer.
I would personally stop calling him. If a guy never means what he saz, he is weak. He will manipulate women, use them, and then toss them. Rather than playing with his games you should toss him before he walks all over you.
2007-09-03 16:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by blackberry028 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guys tell women they want to be friends for one of two reasons. They are either trying to get their foot in the door so they can eventually sleep with them OR they are trying to have an easy way out of a relationship they no longer think is satisfying to them.
That's the truth.
2007-09-03 23:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Candidus 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello;
Sounds like this guy is using you for one thing and one thing only. Don't let him (or anyone for that matter) take advantage of you.
Sex is not what you should base a long-term relationship on - it will never last.
"Good guys" exist and you will find one - just be sure that you do not lose your self esteem or self respect along the way.
You are worthy of a "good guy" - don't believe differently for one minute!
Hope this helps.
2007-09-04 00:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by rumbledrum 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Saying that he wants to remain friends is a guy's way of breaking up with you as gently and painlessly (for him) as possible. In his mind, he thinks that a promise -- however empty it may be -- of remaining friends resolves him of all guilt over the breakup and keeps him from hurting our feelings too badly.
2007-09-03 23:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply put, he wants more than a friendship and more out of you.
2007-09-04 13:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by super_nmaster2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys lie all the time. He just wanted to get rid of you in a nice way, so you would not male a bother of yourself.
2007-09-03 23:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not a friend. Someday maybe you can be friends, but for now look forward there's alot of fish in the sea.
2007-09-03 23:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all bullshit. There're other fish in the sea, why should he stay and waste his time on an investment he knows isn't going to work out?
2007-09-03 23:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because he did not want serious relationship with you just a booty call. I have learned that most guys don't give hoot about a friendship with a girl they want booty now that the booty is gone so is he
2007-09-03 23:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer H 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just remember this for the future. A guy is not your friend if he expects "benefits". Don't undervalue yourself. Demand respect and don't let yourself get used.
2007-09-03 23:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by 354gr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋