I came to a point in my life where i dont know what to do anymore. Life used be so easy i had everything going for me. I was a good student, i had friends n family that i loved. But the few month has been hell for me. I drop out of high school. I got kick out of my parents house ( i drop out of HS after i got kicked out). But getting kick out of my parents house wasnt the worst think that could happen to me. Yes i had my ups n downs but i always made it. I mean i wasnt complted alone i had my two greatest friends ever who i lived with till last month. We help each other in every were we could. But last month thought it would be better for us to move back with our parents since we all didnt have jobs and no money. But i think that was the big mistake i more missrable here then i was living on my own. Idk actually where i'm going with this. I guess I think to much about the what "if's" if i should have it done stuff different how would have my life been then.
2007-09-03 22:10:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry but i thought no one would reasy this, i need to write down how i was feeling sorry if it dosent make much sense .Oh yea i'm back in school im doin this program.
2007-09-03 22:17:25 · update #1
Well welcome to the real world--EVERYBODY finds life gets more difficult as they grow older. The way we handle it is dictated by our maturity level. We prioritize our lives and make plans for the future. We concentrate on the present--do our daily stuff and work at having a future by getting educated and altering our behavior. That is maturity---it is an honesty issue--I mean be honest with ourselves and deciding to DO THE RIGHT THINGS. You can get tough and finish high school--you can rebuild the family relationship--you can make this all better by taking responsibility for your actions and working hard at getting back on track. Millions of kids have made mistakes--we learn from our mistakes--you learned how hard it is to be out on your own--can't do it without a good paying job so you can have a place to live and food to eat and a car and money to pay the bills every month. Sure you had friends to help you--but you can't rely on them forever--should be out and taking care of yourself. Sounds to me like you are ready to admit a few mistakes and that you are ready to try again. You can't get in trouble if you do THE RIGHT THING...all the time. Avoid trouble and people who cause trouble--embrace your family and have some respect for what they are trying to do...this is all a maturity issue. if you still don't get the message --then you are not mature yet and have a lot to learn and your family will be harder on you than before. Millions have turned their lives around and YOU can do it to--one day at a time. Relax, smile and good luck
2007-09-03 22:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, going back to school was a very good thing. i know you may hate it, but without that diploma, no one has a chance today. not if you want to try and have a good start. for young person, that's the best insurance to back you up.
try not to dwell to much on the if's, it will drive you crazy. just make up yr mind what you want. and the steps you have to take to get there. it's like a map almost. one step at a time. it may not all be easy. but you can do it i'm sure. trust me your not alone. probably almost every person on the face of this earth has felt exactly the same as you.
good luck to you, Star !
2007-09-03 22:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i realy don't know what you are going through but i can guess because my sister did the same thing you did..
she dropped high school and ran away with a guy, there things didn't go as planned.
she got her first boy but sadly he passed away, now she has a girl.
after that she got divorced and came home. things were not that good for her at home though she was loved, no one treated her bad but she always argued with my mum.
a year later she got married by another guy and now she is living hell. yesterday we took her out of the hospital after she took 40 tablets to kill herself.
*don't try it!*
what im getting to is that life is cruel and you have to take a step at a time, don't do things without thinking of the future first..
cross the bridge as it comes, at least you have gone back to school that way after school you can get a job and move out. eveything has its time so don't worry just be calm and wait for the right time.
also remember this, everything happens for a reason, only God knows the reason. try to look at the bright side of things and you will live happy, concentrate in your studies, at least do this for yourself and your future...
if you need more advise or someone to talk to you can send me an email ok?
tc
2007-09-03 22:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by baby gal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ican see your piont. you were out on your own how you made it not sure with no job. but you are now living with parents again they are all back in their homes. well that is good cause you can't be on your own yet. but i would just tend to make it happen work hard at school get th education adn then leave. its best to leave wtih some sort of good ness for the parents after all they raised you take care.
2007-09-07 17:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey wonny, you are just going through stuff that we have all gone through, I have been on my own since I was 17, I had plenty of those times that you are talkingabout as alot of YA folks have Im sure. Just hang in there and hang tough. You can make it, just don't give up, keep fighting and take it one at a time, you will come up on top! Good Luck!
2007-09-03 22:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by EddieX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say this, your parents are horrible for kicking you out. I mean, no matter how badly you behave, you are still their daughter, you should NOT do that. You should try calling a hotline and asking for advice. I don't think dropping out of high school was a great choice actually. Try asking your teachers for help. Or otherwise, if you really need the money, try working at McDonalds. lol! wait... where ARE you typing this anyway?
2007-09-03 22:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
we have our ups and down in life... it just so happens urs came and u must face this as it is real... do u like to go back to things that were before??? being happy??? if so.. then i think moving back to ur parents is a start... tell them that u made a big mistake... u took ur life forgranted and things went worst... admit it to them andsay the magic word... "ur sorry..." and i think parents will realize that u are sincere and wud take u back... but things will be different... and they will be a bit linient and there wud be rules to follow... so if i were u.. i wud take that and follow...
2007-09-03 22:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... Things will get better once you try and work things out with your parents... TRY. Also you need to get back into school or get your GED. Don't be sad about it, stop throwing yourself pity parties and think about moving forward and how you can better your life. Email me if you'd like to talk... we all need someone sometimes.
2007-09-03 22:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
what ifs? pointless. work the present not the past. salvage something, you have to get a education to get somewhere.
2007-09-03 22:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u hav to apoligize to ur parents.be calm and relax.remember God r the most important thing.and...b happy! :D
2007-09-03 22:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Nurul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋