I don't mind if they think one-night-stands is wrong, I only get offended when they start insulting and pass hurtful close-minded remarks at those who believe differently.
If our society is really modern and free, then why can't people be more open-minded and stop judging & insulting those who have casual sex?
2007-09-03 22:17:50 · 8 answers · asked by jazzman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i heard you were really tom cruise incognito, is that true???
(i mean, you have him (yourself?) as your avatar, but you could be tricking people into thinking you're a fan...)
2007-09-03 22:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking about your sex life with other people in the first place. I don't think anyone really cares or wants to hear it. BTW you having casual sex doesn't make you more appealing as a man. People are probably judgemental about casual sex because of all the STD's and marriages that are destroyed by easy access to sex. If you ever marry one of these days, do you really want to marry a woman who has slept with more people she can count on her fingers and the same goes with you.
2007-09-04 05:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by marie s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious-our society, modern and free????????
It is one of the most judgemental and repressed societies on the planet! And "immoral"-what about all the closet moralists that have to act out in corners and bathrooms because they are so afraid of the repercussions of following their bliss. This is NOT an open-minded society at all. Other countries laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. Like when Clinton and Monica was just a huge media event. In other countries who would care as long as his politics are good for the country. etc. etc.
2007-09-04 05:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Salsa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
casual sex is fine as long as both parties are aware it's casual. I also think that people (I mean men!) should stop bragging about casual sex to their buddies. It's not that big of a deal as long as no one make it a big deal.
2007-09-04 05:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were raised in a society where casual sex isn't accepted u usually find it hard to digest like i do , but i think we should just see that some people r raised differently and these things r accepted in their culture. i usually try to think from their prospective and i can see from where they r comming and it helps me not to judge.
2007-09-04 05:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by sab 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt just men who brag about it...but to answer the main question, i dont know. Ive been called all kinds of things to because its just fun for me. And i make it clear that this is as far as it goes. But there still ends up being drama
2007-09-04 05:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are envious and dont want to admit it to themselves.
The US society is actually pretty prudish and close-minded in comparison to Europe.
2007-09-04 05:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i totally agree with u though. sex is jsut pleasure. i dont think its anything special. we all have bodies, whether it be fat, thin, short or tall. its all tha same. i think sex is simply a pleasure thing, nd if ur stupid babies comes out of it. i dont think theres anything or 'immoral' about having casual sex simply for tha enjoyment of it.
2007-09-04 05:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ebony F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋