I've already had sex but I've decided that I want to wait to be married. It's so hard to say no when it's right there in front of you, how can I resist temptation?
2007-09-03 23:47:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really can't figure out what it is you are trying to prove by that. it wont count for diddly after your divorce. odds of that are twice that of staying together.
2007-09-03 23:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ..i believe in God..an although i am not a great example of a good christian(sex before marriage, children before marriage- this is all just with 1 person and thats my patner of 2 yrs)
I know God is faithful..and although you might say.."well you had sex before marriage ..and praying about it to stop temptation didnt work..then why should i do that?"
well ..just incase that is what you were asking..thats just an other example of me not being a good christian.. because i never prayed against it.
But i know you can..and i know if you ..God will give you the strength...but the person who has to keep that strength.. and use it in a good way is you..and if you forget about, ignore it ..or just decide you'll give up and have sex..thats your fault..and its not cause God didnt want to help you..is because he did help you..but you did not follow through..
the other option you have is to be stuck in your house and never go out so you dont have the chance to get tempted...
i dont think your a horrible person for having sex before marriage.. i do think its a good thing you want to stop..and i wish you the best ..but if you give up..dont feel bad..you're only human.
2007-09-04 07:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either don't resist temptation (but practice safe sex!), or masturbate. Marriage includes a sexual relationship but you can have a healthy sexual relationship without needing to be married.
2007-09-04 06:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No need to resist, if have opportunity go head and enjoy. Before marriage if you can manage its the best, your fiance would be delighted on your ability (need not confession if you are faithful after marriage).
Just be careful from STD and use good birth control philosophy.
2007-09-04 07:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG, why stop there's so much to learn and to give
marriage really has nothing to do with this. I would hope by the time you get married that you would have experience to give your partner
2007-09-04 06:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by timestamps 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let me answer ur question with a question... why do you want to wait??? it would be better off to just be safe and go into marriage experienced and a better idea of what you want in a partner.
2007-09-04 06:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by impaiduplayed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Feel the force Luke, simply said just dont expose your Lite-Saber.
2007-09-04 07:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to abstain you will, but some how, I think you will forget and let nature take its course.
2007-09-04 07:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
remember these words from me:
your a lovely bloke. i wish there were more guys like you out there.
your going to make a girl very happy one day
2007-09-04 06:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
finding a like minded soul would make it easier dont you think??? its up to you... and if the person your with or want to be with doesnt want to wait then Id say find someone else....
2007-09-04 19:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by ashar/97 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋