should i tell my boyfriend im upset that he doesnt call me anymore?
but i dont want him to feel like he HAS to call me now, because i've bought it up
its like, i'd like him to bring me flowers, but i dont want them if i've had to request them...
what should i do?
2007-09-03 23:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get your best friend to bring it up casually when your not around. Make sure you "don't" know about it.
Will make him feel guilty in a good way! :D
Or write him a poem... XD
I like poems
2007-09-03 23:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Katie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you doing all the calling, because time apart is as important as time together... say you call 2-3 times a day ( not including texting or online) he may feel that what is the need to call you, when you will call him anyways. and really more then 2 at the verry most is more then enough. the flowers has to be his idea, you have to be subtle and drop hints instead of asking for them, they will have more meaning that way.
2007-09-03 23:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by mcheshster27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with him. It is important to have good communication in a relationship. Sometimes guys are dense. They get comfortable in their relationship and think they don't have to do any of the hard stuff like being romantic and attentive. Don't let him be complacent let him know what you need from him. Dont be afraid to let him know that you need to be reassured of your importance to him. If he gets all bent out of shape than maybe he isn't the guy for you. Either way Good Luck. I hope my answer helps. God Bless!
2007-09-03 23:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by KatyCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still see him everyday? If not, and he doesn't call then maybe he is not your bf anymore. Most men don't think about sending flowers....just because. Maybe you could sit down with him and tell him you would like for him to make you feel special every once in awhile.
2007-09-03 23:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is ask a neutral friend of yours and his to tell him. Just tell this friend what you are feeling and ask him or her to bring this subject up alone with your boyfriend. tell the friend not to make it a big deal infront of him though.
Or you could tell him yourself you must be open in a relationship.
2007-09-03 23:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to express ur feelings and tell him ur mind. You cant continue to be shy or be afraid of him. For a relationship to last there should a communication and understanding. Pls let him know ur feelings towards him.
2007-09-03 23:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by remitte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys will do that on there own bat some wont doesnt mean he doesnt like u that just the way he is
2007-09-03 23:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
each so often I informed them and it worked. each so often it did not. the two way, they appeared to understand me so plenty greater for it. The final time I informed a guy I enjoyed him nicely now we are engaged and having twins.
2016-11-14 03:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call you anymore is there a reason for this?? Is there really a relationship here???
2007-09-03 23:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, and maybe show him this question you posted.
if he really cares for you etc he'll take notice.
Hope that helps.
2007-09-03 23:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋