Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

A couple a times and both times she said some really insulting and hurtful things about me, I argued with her but never said hurtful things about her to her (I could never have done this as she is one of my best friends, even if we were arguing) anyway I find it really hard now to not think of the things she said (trust me they were terribly hurtful!!) and think of her a close friend we have made up now and she apologised but I feel resentment and anger towards her still, these fights occured about 2 years ago... how can i get past this??? I dont want to have to bring it up to her again however .. ;0(

2007-09-06 14:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am really good friends with this guy, lets call him Bob.
He went to a different high school freshman year, but now transferred to my school. All throughout middle school and junior high, he has been like a dork. Idk, everyone made fun of him and all the popular people talk about him. I want to be his friend, but i don't want to be made fun of. I have low self esteem as it is. I know i hsouldnt care what the popular group of people say, but its hard to just brush it off your shoulder! i have to be in this school for another three years, and i want ot make the right choice. Today in spanish class some of the popular girls were laughing and talking about how weird he looked and stuff like that. I dont know what to do, i really really really need advice.

2007-09-06 14:44:52 · 2 answers · asked by jenni xo 3 in Friends

everyday, i always want to scream,but there's no where to go!! school started, and my math teacher pisses me off everyday since she's so impatient & she always nags me coz i dont know the answer!but give me a break!at least i tried,but she wants it to be perfect. homework's been driving me up the wall, & wen i get home, its more irratating since my brothers always ask me to help them on their homework, but i have to do mine, plus i have to do chores!! >.< love life? there's this one guy that's confusing me, but 4get it...im too stressed out for one.
im onlee in high skool, so how do i deal?!

2007-09-06 14:42:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What would you do if your S/O did nothing while his/her bro or sis told you off and disrespected you?

2007-09-06 14:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by prettybrowneyez915 1 in Family

So I hooked up with I guy I know at a party the other night and we pretty much did everything but have sex. I don't regret hooking up with him, i just regret letting things go a little too far way too fast and I don't want him to think I'm a wh*re. I think we're going to start dating and he would be my first boyfriend (I'm 20 and it's about damn time!) but I don't know if I can tell him I want to take things a little slower than the way we started out or if it's too late.
Any advice?

2007-09-06 14:40:15 · 17 answers · asked by c-lion 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that most females who consider a guy attractive will still want to be just friends.
Can it be because they really aren't attracted for some reason.
If I find a nice girl that I find attractive, I want to date them.
I give up... why?

2007-09-06 14:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

He said he is leaving me, but he is a preacher. Can I get alimony since he make more then me?

2007-09-06 14:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by lzbthsykes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I were married 3 months ago. We both have myspace, and I just recently found through a roommate of some guy she likes that they were together and they said they were sleeping together. I confronter her about it, pretty upset but not angry ... dissappointed. She admitted to being there, but nothing happened. Then we talked the next day and they layed together. I was still even more dissappointed, even though. she says she is confused and still has feelings, but its due to them never getting to date and she'd get over it. We talked and things seemed to get better, but then I had to go and ask for more info. Then I find out she brought over wedding cake a day or two after our wedding, and they really do believe they slept together and he was bragging about it. I totally want to work it through, but have no one to talk to and dont want her or my family to be upset with her ... but Im feeling like she just got married due to the size of the wedding. Any opinions appreciated.

2007-09-06 14:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by Danny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i was going out with a girl for 4 1/2 years, she was the love of my life (so far). we began to drift, and i kept trying to sort things out, but it eventually came to an end. i was gutted, so i began to talk to a close friend about it all only to find out he had been sleeping with her a month after we had split up. she told me she was sleeping with him because she was lonely. the other problem is by sleeping with her, he not only hurt me, it meant he was cheating on his partner. i dont want to be te one to tell his partner, i dont wan to be that guy. but they have both really hurt me! what should i do? any advice would be nice. i know its a long question so try to answer what you can!

2007-09-06 14:34:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanna know how its gonna feel when im in love....

2007-09-06 14:33:53 · 18 answers · asked by Madison 2 in Singles & Dating

This means he will pay for the dialysis, etc, and I will have to look after her and husband for a month. We have just recently been through very stressful times ourselves, with family and health issues. I can't beleive this, and our financial status is tight as well. It will be me that the day to day cooking and etc duties will fall on. What should I do and say? am I a ***** for not being more caring about his aunt's situation?

2007-09-06 14:32:44 · 5 answers · asked by happybaker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok soo what should i get 1 of my bestfriends 4 her birthday?? its in like 6 days what should i do??/

2007-09-06 14:28:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an RN and was divorced in 2001 and with 1 child in Michigan. The ordered child support payment to me was $303.00,I have missed some payments on it, because i lost my job,once i got money sent the payment directly to my ex wife and she gave me receipt . And when i moved to Texas and on some personal reason i started missing payment again, so my ex wife moved to texas too and went to the atty. general, and they increased my payment for $1,303 + $300 on back child support which i think is soo stiff, since i remarried on 2005 and my income is just barely sustaning me to survive and pay my bills (and bad credit from the divorce,since my wife decided not to return the van that we were still paying and she had it towed and she had some bills in michigan and still using my name on it)

..I moved to California with my new wife and decided that we may have a better life there because of higher pay, but it didn't work because of cost of living and some bills that keep incuring.

2007-09-06 14:28:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My co-worker and I really liked eachother! We've worked with eachother for 2 months now. With this said we became a lil intimate. [ I gave him oral ]
He would call me everynight for about an hour or so, but just recently he got fired and hasn't called me since! Did he lose interest?? I just need to kno why he stopped calling me.

2007-09-06 14:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by VeganChickk 1 in Weddings

2007-09-06 14:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by TJ 4 in Weddings

Be mature*
Seduction can be a wonderful thing, when done under the proper circumstances. There's an older man (meaning I'm quite younger... yes, I'm legal) that I've known for a couple months, he's in law enforcement. I met him at a type of luncheon for emergency personnel (I'm an EMT student). At that time, he was separated from his wife, and had been for quite some time. Since then, the divorce has been finalized. Considering that this man has much, much sex appeal, I've noticed it's not unusual for women around him to wink, smile or do little things like touch his arm. However I'm afraid he has no idea I'm interested, and the reason is more than likely because of my age, plus I tend to take my time with these types of things so it's not exactly out in the open.
When I say seduce, I don't technically mean straight to sex, but of course I do mean a sexual relationship... How can I go about doing this? I don't want to mess it up, so I'm just looking for some different perspectives.

2007-09-06 14:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by Unknown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got married but have now realised it was the biggest mistake i ever made! I'm stuck, i can't change it, believe me i have tried! He is awful, a selfish arrogant man who becomes worse by the day! He was not like it in the beginning, not at all, perhaps a few things that niggled me but we all have our problems! Things are getting worse, i'm being ground into the dirt on a mental and emotional level and i can't take this! He is living in my home that i worked hard to pay for, and he doesn't care for anything, his excuse is that his name isn't on anything therefore it has nothing to do with him! He doesn't mind using everything though, my car, my motorbike... I loved my life before, but now i can't see a way out! I am starting to hate him and how he treats me, if he has been horrible in any way, it is me that sleeps in the spare room or on the couch, he must always have his comforts! I hate it, i hate him! What do i do? He has no intention on going anywhere!

2007-09-06 14:18:16 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

across the street and I have caught her more than 3 times just watching my husband with a luring look and it bothered me not because he responded but because we live there with our family and if he wanted to because of her behavior she would carry on an affair with him right in my very close presence I have no respect for her and everytime I see her or she parks her veh in front of my house it annoys me and I tend to be mean to my husband and he says I dont spk to her and want nothing to do with her. How do I handle my anger.

2007-09-06 14:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was never not once ever been there 4 me when I needed him. And now am almost 17 and he is really sick and I don't care am I a evil ***** or what. He was always treated my mom like crap her my sister and some of my girl friends have been always there 4 me never him. I hate him so much he is really sick and wats to c me I dont want to even talk to him. Plus idk all I feel 4 him is hate. U know how little girls always want a husband like their dad not me I WILL NEVER MARRY ANYONE LIKE HIM EVER I WOULD DIE ALONE B4 I EVER MARRIED SOMEONE LIKE HIM. I never had anything from him and now he wats me will am not going to c him what do u think.Yes he raised me and was living with me but not really I dont have a father

2007-09-06 14:16:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-06 14:15:58 · 6 answers · asked by branlorlamb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I had a huge blowout 3 days ago. Actually he just went off about how sick and tired he is of being here with me and the kids. He said he was leaving but he keeps coming home. We have been talking about seperating lately so I have ever reason to think he is serious. It isn't about the money because we have an empty rental property he can move into and he has plenty of cash in his seperate account. He has apologized but when I asked him why he is still here he says, don't worry he is leaving. My question is whether this behavior seems normal? If he is going, why does he keep coming back looking sad? And is it too soon for me to be shopping around for a divorce attorney?

I never said I wanted him to leave but I am sick and tired of everytime he gets upset he threatens to leave. A person can only take so much. Other than his lack of control over his anger, we have no other issues.

The fight had nothing to do with me (as usual) he was upset about something at work but I am always his whipping post when he is upset.

2007-09-06 14:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by PharmNerd 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13 and I don't know where to take my girlfriend on friday. I really want to go somewhere with her, but I just can't figure out where. Could someone please give me a general idea of where would be good?

2007-09-06 14:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by Michael 2 in Singles & Dating

We are both in college. I still love him and he says he is still attracted to me, but he just cannot be in a relationship right now. He claims his feelings for me have changed. Its been a couple of weeks and I am trying to show him that we are good together. He still calls and wants to hang out with me. He kisses my forehead and has physical contact (ex: arm around me, playful pushing) and sometimes i catch him just looking at me. I want him back. I know that their is no other girl in his life. I love him. I would do anything for him and that is why I am giving him the space he asked for-but what am i supposed to do? I can't wait forever, but I want to. I want him. Please...someone help me. Tommorrow is friday and we are spending the evening together and we are saturday-at his suggestion. He says that maybe someday he will want to date me again, but he cant right now. What am i supposed to do? I want him. Please be nice to me-I know i sound pathetic, but im hurt. Thanks

2007-09-06 14:09:15 · 7 answers · asked by Kirsten A 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are on the vurge of divorce. We've been married for 4 years and have 2 small children. I just can't believe that at 21 I'm going through this. All these emotions are so overwhelming, almost to the point to where I start to feel a little numb. I don't want to be alone. I don't want a custody battle. He just doesn't love me anymore, and honestly I'm not sure I love him anymore either. He says that all I do is yell at him and treat him like a child. And all I can say is then don't act like one. He thinks I'm acting like his mother because I tell him to pick a dirty diaper off the floor that he cahnged! I shouldn't have to ask him to do that, who would just throw a dirty diaper in the middle of the floor? He does the same with his dirty clothes and his dinner plates, just leaves them on the floor, left over food and all. He says all I do is nag him and treat him like a child. Don't get me wrong I am by no means perfect but he only wants me to change. Anyone understand?

2007-09-06 14:08:57 · 15 answers · asked by Violet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Well. Today all of a sudden my firend
tells me she needs to not taslk to me becuase apperantly I' manipulating her feelings. Andshes been complaintning aobut my attitude lately.
I really dont want to loose her and htis is ruining our friendship gorup everything is so fustrating and i really need help.
Sjes kind of stubborn a lot of the tiems and i dotn know what to do help me please.

2007-09-06 14:06:55 · 1 answers · asked by TR 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did i do the right thing.

2007-09-06 14:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Littlebear 2 in Weddings

ok so this is just a quick question for anyone and everyone.. tell me if any of u ever feel like this... i live with my fiancee and its an hour and 30 mins away from my family. im going to stay with my family for about 4 days while my dad has surgery and im excited about going but at the same time im gonna have to leave my fiancee here. he has college and cannot miss any more days so he has to stay home. i want to see my family but at the same time when i get there i will just miss him and want to come home. i dont see my family much but i know this will be good for me. does anyone else ever get like this.

2007-09-06 14:03:53 · 2 answers · asked by jaden 1 in Family

I am going to ask the age old question.......How do I get my wife of 10 years interested in sex? When its good its good. Sometimes i get so frustrated though. I would like some opinions form married women why this happens and what to do to turn it around.

2007-09-06 14:01:23 · 22 answers · asked by Marshall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friendly aquaintance and she had a new baby and so I got her some baby outfits and I have been trying to give them to her for about a month now and she has rescheduled on me 4 times now, saying shes too tired for visitors. I work with her hubby and today I told him I would be back up to work later today after I got off work, to give him that stuff and he said ok and when I got there, he was already gone! I was pretty much so mad I was fuming and shaking... it just makes me sick how people are like that! And i cant take the stuff back because I took all the tags off and everything. I am going up there tomorrow morning to try again and after that, that is it! What do you think I should do? Have you ever been so frustrated w/ someone it made you sick to your stomach? Should I stop talking to her?

2007-09-06 14:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family

My sister and her boyfriend and there soon to be 3 kids live in NY with us. In September we are relocating to Georgia. We want them to go with us but they refuse to. How can we get them to move with us. Anything would be helpful. Answers or Advise.

2007-09-06 13:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by pinkprincess 2 in Family