across the street and I have caught her more than 3 times just watching my husband with a luring look and it bothered me not because he responded but because we live there with our family and if he wanted to because of her behavior she would carry on an affair with him right in my very close presence I have no respect for her and everytime I see her or she parks her veh in front of my house it annoys me and I tend to be mean to my husband and he says I dont spk to her and want nothing to do with her. How do I handle my anger.
2007-09-06 14:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
confront her, in a respectable way of course, and tell her what you have been noticing what she is doing and to please stop it. make her feel guilty, if that's even possible, and then go to your hubby and tell him to tell her to stop it and that he is neither attracted to her nor intersted... to her face, while you are right there with him. i'm not saying your hubby is at fault, mind you. i just feel if another woman is flirting with a married man and he sees its making his wife upset sometimes it takes a real man to fix the situation and make it right for the sake of the woman he loves. so by your husband taking you to this other woman's house and confronting her by letting her know he's not interested in her nor ever was and ever will be it will, hopefully, emabrrass the crap out of her as well as get her to get the point and back off. then see, after a while, what happens. good luck. :)
2007-09-06 14:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Leicha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your husband about it? Depending on your personality, some would approach the neighbor without hesitation. I'm very sorry, I can definitely see your frustrations. Try questioning your husband out it. Work it out between the both of you, so that if the neighbor takes it a step further, he'll know how to handle it. This situation shouldn't be taken lightly. Good luck.
2007-09-06 21:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should speak to a counselor about your anger. You've no reason to get angry at your husband because of someone else's behavior. Forget the woman...either you trust your husband, or you don't. If he's the man you hope he is then the neighbor woman will never be an issue...
2007-09-06 21:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her you need to worry about, it's your
husband, because you say he responded. If your
husband is caring and loving and honest and
faithful and committed to you and only you then
he will ignore her and you will have nothing to
worry about. HOWEVER if your husband still
reacts to her watches, then you need to talk to
your husband as after all he is the one that is
married, not your neighbor from the way you
describe her. Good luck.
2007-09-06 23:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well peter,
I think you have to remember that there are loose women every where and your man wants only what you have. If I were you I would give him a big fat kiss every time I even think she is looking. I would strut my stuff in the hottest (and modest) Outfits! Also DO NOT avoid eye contact, look at her in the eyes back if you are in clear view. Let her know with a look that you know she is looking way too hard. Check her butt!!!
2007-09-06 21:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by The thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, why is your screen name "peter"?
Second, you have to determine whether or not your spouse is trustworthy. It takes two to tango, so it doesn't matter what the neighbor wants - if your husband doesn't want to play then nothing's going to happen.
Why are you taking it out on your husband when he has nothing to do with it? That's just screwy.
2007-09-06 21:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes that makes sense,
Be mean to your husband because some other woman is looking at him..
That make perfect sense.
2007-09-06 21:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nandina your comment made me laugh!!!
well Peter is probably a both sex name i'm guessing, man that is so funny!!
uhh suggest moving
2007-09-06 22:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gay Peter women never bother with gays unless they are trying to convert..
2007-09-06 21:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Gerald 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to fu*k off... and ask your hubby to tell her he isn not interested .. she might lay off .. but then again women like this are brainless
2007-09-06 21:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋