Why is it that most females who consider a guy attractive will still want to be just friends.
Can it be because they really aren't attracted for some reason.
If I find a nice girl that I find attractive, I want to date them.
I give up... why?
2007-09-06 14:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For me, its because I don't feel that I am ready for a relationship with that person yet. Girls want to make sure they have the right man because they don't want to be hurt emotionally or physically. Plus, I do it because I want to see if they are persistant. Whenever a boy asks me out, I always say "Lets be friends first". That way, I can see how much he likes me and if we communicate not just on an intimate level, but on a best friend level as well.
2007-09-06 14:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Cheesecake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean that you want to have sex with them. Women aren't like that. Women want an emotional/mental connection as well. Some men, no matter how attractive just can't deliver anything better than a pretty face.
2007-09-06 21:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse some girls don't get along with other girls..
for me and some of my friends we just want a guy thats always going to be there for us a best friend ...every girl wants that one guy friend thats always gonna be there ...also don't give up you just haven't found that one girl that ready for a realtionship ...don't worry she'll find you.
2007-09-06 21:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by lilariath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess no matter what you do, if a girl sees you as a friend since day one, it will always remains that way.
Sometimes you can do your best, help her out with stuff and more, trying to show your feelings for her, care for her, you can do everything in the world for her but it will still not change the way see sees you, just a friend.
I know how it feels, it sucks but i guess that reality is harsh.
2007-09-06 21:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my case if a guy is more attractive than i "rate" myself then i just wont even think of him as more, like i wont even put the idea to my head.. i purposefully dont want a guy that i know that i cant have. maybe if you're super goodlooking she might feel the same way. or she just might really not like you like that.
2007-09-06 21:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because unlike guys we dont just date for looks, i know that i dont date a guy based on looks. it all has to do with a guys personality and how you act around us. or we just got out of a relationship and arent ready to start a new one.
i hope this helps =]
2007-09-06 21:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by laur07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋