Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

I was going to send my husband a vase of roses with baby breath hoping he will forgive me. He's mad because I went to dinner with another man when he was out of town but it's been 3 long days since he's come back and he still won't talk to me. It's driving me nuts! I was hoping he would be over it by now. Usually when we have a fight we usually kiss and make up in like a hour. I tried putting lingerie to seduce him but he just looked at me and walked away! I was hoping maybe giving him rosese will help so do they have the same effect on women as they do on men?

2007-09-06 13:56:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 13:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any ideas on what I should do? A little bit about me, I've been married for 4 years, just started college 2 weeks ago, SAHM to 2 wonderful boys one is almost 3 and the other 15 months. Things have slowly gotten worse over the years. He has been very controlling since the beginning, I wish I had seen the signs. On Monday he head butted me right in the nose, "because he was upset", and "having a bad day". I didn't bleed but it hurt really bad, and was a little swollen for the rest of the day. I for some reason can't get over it. I got to thinking if he did it in a bar they would press charges. Ok let me back up. I've been a little quiet lately, so he knew something was wrong. Finally after he found out it wasn't school he said... is it because I head butted you? I said yeah i'm a little upset about it. Well then he mocked me about it. And after I said that about pressing charges about it then he tried to tell me he didn't. This sucks I just wish I knew what to do.

2007-09-06 13:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by justall4ofus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend suggested a three-way. I said 'yes'. She jumped up and ran out the door. It's been a week now since I've seen her.

2007-09-06 13:49:37 · 9 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months. She means everything to me and i really love her and she loves me too. But recently we've been having some problems. She sasy she hasnt been feeling the butterflies in her stomach lately. I do the same things as i used to. So can someone give me some adivice on making her feel the butterflies again? and also give me some small sweet things i can do for her to make her happy
thanx in advance

2007-09-06 13:48:54 · 4 answers · asked by Sup 2 in Singles & Dating

but I busted him having cyber sex on some site called www.redlightdistrict.com. He had told me that it wasnt me and that his sex drive was just low and now I find this out. I am devastated and feel like he is cheating. Ive polled my friends and all the women feel its cheating and only half the men do. Should I dump his *** - ask him about it - I am hurt and confused because I was trying to be understanding because someone had told me his diabetes or depression could affect his sex drive, but now I just dont know what to think. I have bent over backwards to do thoughtful things for this guy and I just feel like this is so selfish. For example I gave him a bl*w job which he didnt complain about but then when i asked him to return the favor by using my vibrator on me he said he was too tired!!!! My girlfriends said I should have kicked him out of bed and out of my life right then and there. I dont undestand why he has been so selfish when I have been so selfless. Should I dump him

2007-09-06 13:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you get fed up and break it off yourself or do you play psychological warfare until THEY break it off?

2007-09-06 13:43:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi.. so im a jr and this guy just moved to my school from far away and he is a senior. He is absolutly the hottest guy I've ever seen! haha... but anyway... He is kinda falling in with the popular croud cause hes on soccer and stuff like that with them, but he is totally a nice guy. So today I finally got up the courage to say.. "Hi.. sorry, but I dont remember your name" (even though I did haha) and he said "Oh I'm Tilman and I said "Ok, I'm Taylor." He said "Its nice to meet you taylor" and thats the only interaction so far.. I know.. completely lame and I sound like a freak.. but what I'm asking is for how to talk to him.. or go up to him w/o him thinking 'Why the heck is she just randomly coming up to talk to me' ... so yeah... PS - people think I'm shy, but I'm not too shy just kinda quiet at times ... so ANY HELP PLEASE!!!

:)

2007-09-06 13:43:19 · 1 answers · asked by Taytay 3 in Singles & Dating

What is this obsession with sex? Are you all just so mind-numbingly bored, or is it the in thing and you have to do it to fit in? Girls getting pregnant at 12 and 13? I was still watching cartoons and playing board games at 12 and 13 and I had no idea what "the pill" was. From what I read, I don't think 90% of you do either. Can some of you please answer this?

2007-09-06 13:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Soon they plan of getting married this year. My sister is doubtful if it would be a healthy marriage since they will be responsible of the 5 kids from his previous relationship. The man and my sis are in their 30s...right time for marriage but is he the right one for her?....i think my sis has to sacrifiice so much of herself for the man if they will marry soon.

2007-09-06 13:41:36 · 14 answers · asked by ying 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi guys. My daughter just turned 18 on Sept. 1st.

Since then, she's been...

1. ditching school any time she wants, claiming that "I'm 18, I can call myself off if I want"... she hasn't even done that... she just doesn't show up sometimes. She's already over her truency limit. (and school JUST started) And she doesn't believe that if there's a truency problem, the parents get in big trouble for it.

2. just walking out the door without telling us where she's going. Or coming home any time she wants to. And not answering the cell phone we just got her when I call, sometimes.

3. Last week, she claimed that her stomache hurt too much to go to school. So I called her off (reluctantly). And with that, I told her that if she isn't going to school that day, she has to stay home and not go out with her friends or have anyone over. (that's ALWAYS been my rule). But she left anyway, later on.

4. claims that I'm acting like a 2 year old when I remind her of the rules.

2007-09-06 13:40:31 · 31 answers · asked by ṼξŋØლǿԱ§ 5 in Family

I love a man who can cook me a 5 course meal but maybe that's me since i am in the culinary profession!

2007-09-06 13:39:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with him so i was trying to hint to him that i like him, so i asked him who he liked & he likes sum other girl!! it broke my heart.....wut can ido?

2007-09-06 13:39:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a wedding in a state park and the closest hotel is about 45 minutes away and only has 10 rooms! Would it be bad to ask my close family/friends to camp in tents or campers to attend my wedding. How do I write that into an invitation?

2007-09-06 13:37:47 · 19 answers · asked by Krysta 1 in Weddings

I am saying my mother-in-law but it also includes my father-in-law.....ARRGH they make me so mad! I don't even know where to start so I will just list the things that annoy me
1-for our wedding she invited more people for herself than my entire side and my husbands friends combined. she turned it into her own party
2- my husband is interviewing for new jobs and when he doesn't get one she says he most have done something wrong, not anything supportive and she doesn't just assume another canidate is more qualyfied.
3- she is insisting that we buy a house, we can only afford it in a town that we really DO NOT want to live in and they have bad schools
4- talks about our money, as if she is part of our marriage, tells us what to do with it, when she has no idea about that type of stuff
5-thinks she knows everything about everything.....she knows nothing about nothing

2007-09-06 13:36:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What if it's a person you don't know from school? But my friend knows him. Turn on or turn off if I told him he was cute?

2007-09-06 13:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by girl! 2 in Singles & Dating

im so sad and ive been crying for the last 2 hrs. what should i do help!!!!

2007-09-06 13:33:55 · 7 answers · asked by asdfghjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend/fiancee to death. We both wanna get married and we're not technically engaged but we pretty much are. But anyways, sometimes he gets upset with me and I don't know what to do about it. It's the same stuff everytime but I have no idea what to change to make it better. We both understand the same thing always happens, but we keep ending up in the same place. Any suggestions?

2007-09-06 13:32:05 · 2 answers · asked by love_sb4ever 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just heard about it this week ... I have never heard of it before in my life. What is it? Is it fun, boring, something guys do, or girls?

2007-09-06 13:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Nicky_Nolstorm 1 in Singles & Dating

That is, acting as mediator between the two opposing partners to:

1)Save money
2)Make for a more amiable divorce
3)Keep the nastiness out of court

My husband and I are currently separated. We've been married for 17 yrs and have three kids. This lawyer, who had agreed to do this, is a mutual classmate from college days. So we both know her, but I for one haven't seen her since those days. We were not friends in college but we were civil. Her roommate on the other hand used, to date my husband before I did. I don't know if this lawyer is in touch with her friend.

She approached my husband about this mediator thing. She would act as lawyer for both of us. Should I trust her? Do you this is a good solution and has anyone ever done this before?

My husband has a lot of ghosts in the closet that he may not want to expose in court. He knows I have no income so maybe playing that against me as well. He has an arrest record for hitting me and he has a serious addiction to porn.

2007-09-06 13:29:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 13:24:44 · 21 answers · asked by JAY 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i are getting married on their family property in Sisters, Oregon, right near Bend, Oregon and b/c it will be a tent wedding (basically will need to be built from scratch) and b/c I live in California, was hoping to find a great wedding or event planner in the area that could help. Would love any recommendations!

2007-09-06 13:19:16 · 1 answers · asked by Luck of the Irish 1 in Weddings

for not being at a birthday party from like 7 pm to 11pm?

i dont wanna go.
but she invited me.
i wanna go to this other place called JumpTown.

whats a good excuse?

i thought about saying "my cousin is having a birthday party too but she lives liek 2 hours away. so we have to leave early and my mom doesnt want me staying out late."


is that good? or should i do a diff one?

2007-09-06 13:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to date again?
I want to date again?
i want to date again i got hurt by my b/f by cheating on me and leqaving me hang onbut it was a year ago i should be over it i want to date but i am so afraid of dayting ilike this guy but i am scared and i am afraid of kids from school making fun of me cause ever one makes fun of this guy ilike

2007-09-06 13:17:49 · 6 answers · asked by bratshitclown 1 in Singles & Dating

for girls: iam dating this guy, that when ever i call him over the phone and his around people i feel he treats me totally diferent, should i feel upset?
for guys: why is it that you guys act diferent OVER THE PHONE when ever your G/F calls you??

2007-09-06 13:15:18 · 27 answers · asked by alessa 1 in Singles & Dating

He's always "right" in any discussions or arguments. He tends to blame me for things and won't stop going over how I messed up even if it was an accident. He doesn't consider my feelings. I really don't think he realises how he comes across. I haven't blown up at him or anything. I don't know how to get my point across, and, my patience is wearing thin. I love him enough 2 stay, help!

2007-09-06 13:12:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 13:05:54 · 8 answers · asked by dan t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...Besides after marriage. Why did you change it and how did it go over with friends and family?

2007-09-06 13:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

believe it or not, it may sounds stupid but it's the truth. for example, i've seen most of unattractive guys at school hangin' out with beautiful girls and friends as well. it's kinda get me mad at all, 'cause how come?. instead, i;ve seen good looking ones whose outfit is hot, but they go out on their own, they seem not to have girl-friends around to do that tho...i consider myself a pretty one and i still don't have any pretty girl-friends :( i just hang out alone...

2007-09-06 12:52:34 · 4 answers · asked by allan b 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone out there ever feel like they are being left behind when it comes to their mate?

I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids. I take care of the house, the bills, the yard and the cars. I volunteer at school, carpool and do all the shopping. My husband works full time, and he does work hard. Yet he gets to go the movies during the day, he goes golfing, fancy lunches every day, and travels to the best places on retreats and get to see and do amazing things.

I use to work, so I've seen both sides. But after 8 years of staying home taking care of the kids - I (sometimes) feel like the world is moving on without me. Hell, I didn't even know what YouTube was until about a month ago. I have a cell phone they used in the dinosuar age, while my husband knows about all the latest things, and has the newest and coolest of gadgets.

Ahh, I do love my life but sometimes I feel like I'm being left behind. Does anyone else ever feel the same way?

2007-09-06 12:52:25 · 6 answers · asked by jt 3 in Marriage & Divorce