Girlfriend help!! My GF who i love very much says she loves me, but hasnt been feeling the butterflies?

Question

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months. She means everything to me and i really love her and she loves me too. But recently we've been having some problems. She sasy she hasnt been feeling the butterflies in her stomach lately. I do the same things as i used to. So can someone give me some adivice on making her feel the butterflies again? and also give me some small sweet things i can do for her to make her happy
thanx in advance

Answer 1

Tell her to chill out. The honeymoon stage doesn't last forever! It is normal to feel this way when you're finally getting a good groove on in a relationship.

I am assuming from the nature of your question that you guys are still very young and new at relationships. You have just entered the next stage in yours, and she's got to realize that the buzz will wear off in any relationship. This is make it or break it time--now you'll be able to tell if you two are truly serious about each other, and not just in the initial stages of infatuation.

Just because you aren't in the honeymoon stage anymore doesn't mean that your relationship is dead or boring. Make sure you still go on dates and have quality time together. But know that relationships are very hard work, and will not always be puppies and rainbows. Once you experience a few heavy situations, you'll know if it was meant to be.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Rueben, sad fact of live is that it sounds like the honeymoon stage is over in your relationship. It happens in each and every relationship so please don't feel all alone. But these same feelings that were present when the relationship first began can and will reappear now and again but just not be constant as before. Whatever you did to turn this woman onto you and allow her to fall in love with continue to do this. Too often also after we have reached our goal and conquest of getting the opposite sex interested in us then all of a sudden we change. This is actually a very big turn off so try and be yourself. Also some of the things that you used to do in the beginning of your relationship, try and recreate them now and again. Even if it is something as simple as going for a nice nature walk and holding hands and talking deeply to one and other, like in the beginning. Things will be fine as long as you realize that this is the norm and do not attempt to go overboard to try and bring back the butterflies unnaturally. Be grateful that your lady was honest enough to let you know how she feels and let her know as often as possible of how grateful you are to have been the one she has selected as her partner, how proud you are of her and give her the odd little unexpected kiss. Best of luck to you both.

Answer 3

Spice things up my man, routines and habbits are killers, people get so used to each other and so comfortable that they lose that drive they had when they first spotted that person. Cook her dinner, take her on a weekend trip, anything besides what you've been doing and let her know that you care greatly for her. And maybe the butterflies are not because of that, maybe she sees you to much-not saying that to be a dick but space is always a good thing. If you think that might be it, over the next few days spend less time then usual and see if that does the trick. Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

Give her something new. Change your tactic. Like, if ur a slow kisser, going in slow, try faster. or if ur always kissing in parks, try the movies or somewhere public. make her feel adventurous yet safe with you.