but I busted him having cyber sex on some site called www.redlightdistrict.com. He had told me that it wasnt me and that his sex drive was just low and now I find this out. I am devastated and feel like he is cheating. Ive polled my friends and all the women feel its cheating and only half the men do. Should I dump his *** - ask him about it - I am hurt and confused because I was trying to be understanding because someone had told me his diabetes or depression could affect his sex drive, but now I just dont know what to think. I have bent over backwards to do thoughtful things for this guy and I just feel like this is so selfish. For example I gave him a bl*w job which he didnt complain about but then when i asked him to return the favor by using my vibrator on me he said he was too tired!!!! My girlfriends said I should have kicked him out of bed and out of my life right then and there. I dont undestand why he has been so selfish when I have been so selfless. Should I dump him
2007-09-06 13:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this question. Do you love him? Do you trust him? Is he the man for your future? you seem like a woman with desires your boyfriend is not filling. Now you got to communicate that to him. And cybersex is just another porno flick, shall we say. Some guys rather play with themselves at times. It happens. But if he's not taking care of your needs i suggest you discuss it thoroughly before you make a decision.
2007-09-06 19:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Curiousone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any kids with this guy, send him packing before his breakfast gets cold. He's a lame loser.
If you do have kids with him, think hard about kicking him out any way. Is this the role model you want your kids to grow up and emulate?
Whatever you do, set your standards way higher for the next guy, or you'll just end up with the same sort of thing over and over and over...
2007-09-06 20:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he's either really depressed about something,or he is cheating.i recommend talking to him about it again.tell him that if he really cares about you,he'll tell you what's really going on.threaten to break up with him if he doesn't start talking to you about what he's feeling.part of a relationship is being able to communicate with one another and let the other know what you're feeling.it's abnormal what he's doing.most guys would kill to have you.diabetes and depression may be a factor..but you'll never know until you ask him straight up.if you try to talk to him and figure out what's wrong and things don't change,leave his ***.
best of luck..
2007-09-06 20:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by cuteycourt719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. If you care this much about sex and you think that's all that matters then you shouldn't be in a relationship. Obviously you're not being selfless if you want to dump him just for not having sex with you.
2007-09-06 20:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by pxdxaxdx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him go it sounds like he is getting it from someone else not just on the site haveing cyber sex but sounds like he is in real life to let him go he is a dog.
2007-09-06 20:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start why is he having cybersex if he has you pound. He is just an idoit and you need to dump him and find someone who will treat you good and make you come and come. Want to chat more just IM me anytime .
2007-09-06 20:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! He sound's like a confused a$$hole.....
2007-09-06 20:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Like a Cat. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an asshole.
2007-09-06 20:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh thats messed up....on your part
2007-09-06 20:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋