Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

Im a really outgoing person & im a pretty nice person as well. I've always been pretty popular and I have alottt of friends from where I lived, but I just recenlty moved. I've been living here for about 2 months and I had to move cause my dad got a better job. Its in the same state to just instead of living in north Florida, I live in south Florida now & I'm having a really tough time making freinds

This year I am a freshman, (im 14 yrs old btw) so I entered high school not knowing anyone which was extremley difficult.
Im finding thats its alot easier to be friends with the guys, cause alot of the guys like me.. but none of the girls have been as freindly to me, & I dont know why cause i've been very nice.

I've been alone alot, & it feels so wierd for me cause I'm not used to that at. I try to talk to people but they usualy brush me off...it really hurts

If anyone could give me any advice I'd appreciate it alot :)


this is my myspace-
http://www.myspace.com/gabriellayah

2007-09-06 10:26:08 · 21 answers · asked by Katia Spyhalski 2 in Friends

2007-09-06 10:26:07 · 12 answers · asked by lrios1229 1 in Weddings

2007-09-06 10:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

People said he seemed interested in me:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6R.GFyxpEsf8G9u7Chy.3ty6IX?qid=20070904124348AA8vGv2
(thats my last qs)
He started the playful teasing thing again a couple of days ago but i ignored it because i was too shy since there was a ton of guys with him
and now he has ignored me and not even looked at me, and i feel terrible and i feel as if he hates me?
What should i do, i'm so shy, should i look at him lots to show i'm interested....(did he seem interested in the 1st place? -see qs link above)
Thanks


ps. i really don't think he's doing the ignoring thing deliberately, he's not a player, he's a genuinely nice guy, he's not shy, and i think he has just stopped showing interest because i don't seem interested and he thinks i find it annoying when he teases...what do you think?
What can i do, im such an idiot!

2007-09-06 10:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is the simplified version of the question. If you want more detail see this link in additional details. It doesn't have any answers even though I said that the extra details don't have to be read.

2007-09-06 10:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

This person won't know me from Eve and I feel like an idiot but want to get to know them. I am not a stalker - it's family whom I've never known.

2007-09-06 10:02:15 · 1 answers · asked by Ann 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got a boyfriend who is my ex's friend! My ex has been tellin him stuff bout how I am as a girlfriend! Not to mention my ex's friends and my boy friend's friends are always flirtin and sweet talkin me!!!! My boyfriend hasn't said or done anything so I don't think he cares, but i could be wrong! My boyfriend is very protective when he needs to be and I feel safe with him. When he not around though I get worried and I think my ex is up to somethin because he has wanted us to split up since we got together! What does all this mean and What should I do?! I'm confused and worried. Should I just ignore this or confront my ex?!

2007-09-06 10:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by moon_cat 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out how to contact my fathers child. He's now 20 years old and we've never met or talked. Would you contact him?

2007-09-06 10:00:03 · 16 answers · asked by Ann 2 in Family

Your honor, this is not who I said better or worse to! This is clearly a breech of contract!

2007-09-06 09:59:54 · 17 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do? he thinks i don't get anything done around the house. he pays for all the bills out of his trust money. he has no job i have no job. he makes enough to where i can stay home with our son. i try getting things done but i get side tracked. i don't want a divorce. this man is my soul mate. but he also drinks beer. so what should i do? i love him with all my heart and could never imagine spending the rest of my life with someone else. he does love me i know that and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. it's just he gets upset if he thinks i have done something wrong. please let me know what you all think. thanks

2007-09-06 09:59:54 · 12 answers · asked by queenhughes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its our 2nd wedding anniversary on monday and i have no idea what to buy him as a pressie, we've been having a bit of a rough time lately so i really want it too be something special, we're already going out for dinner but i want him too know how much I love him still (we've actually been together nine yrs)
Thanks in advance xx

2007-09-06 09:59:22 · 12 answers · asked by kooki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my bf for 9mths now and since the begining of our relationship he has always been complaining about the lack of money he has to offer his self , me and his son. When I try to give him advice such as budget your money , quit bad habits, get a second job. He always ends up making these excuses and feels sorry for himself. I am so fustrated with him i don't know what else to do! We live together and it seems like I bring home more of the income then he does and i pay majority of the bills. Though he makes more than me. Whenever I do have extra money , he always knows how to make me feel guilty to buy him things. He hasn't bought me anything and I never have asked him either. 'Cause I am independent and don't need him to take care of me. But, how do i get him to meet me half way and how much longer should i stick around to see if he will help me out or is it just hopeless? I need an honest and to the point opinion. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-09-06 09:53:26 · 22 answers · asked by tiffany d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he works a lot which i don't have a prob with but when he gets home hes tired or we gotta get this done or do that. or someone is stopping over or the phone is ringing. drives me nuts cuz i love him but i don't think he'll ever understand what i mean by quality time. how do i get it through his head?

2007-09-06 09:52:09 · 1 answers · asked by Holly M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are 12 years together, 8 married, 2 kids below 6 years old. A year ago I found out that he is having an affair. I got crazy. I found out that he is cheating on me ALL these years (2-3 affairs) and many girlfriends around. I did the same thing for revenge but he only is suspicious about it. After 6 months in the same house as strangers we tried to get closer again. Now almost 6 months together again as a couple I found out that he continues to have the same affair. He doesn't want a divorce, he promises he will stop but I dont believe him. Should I stay or go? Do we have hopes?

2007-09-06 09:51:43 · 63 answers · asked by Etta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's what I did: I took my date and shoved her against a table and hit her very hard on the back, made fun of my friends, called them retarded losers, threw some of their stuff away, pushed them down, wrote nasty notes to them, made them flunk a quiz, cussed them out, pulled a girl's bra, spanked girls on the butts, called several friends of mine sexual slurs, started rumors about them, sent horrible messages to friends of mine on myspace, hit a cripple and took their stuff, I got two girls into a cat fight, got a friend of mine in trouble. And because of all that, many won't talk to me no more, no one wants to go to lunch with me, many deleted me off their friends list on myspace, people are afraid of me now. And here's why I think I acted like this: I didn't get invited to a party, high stress from 3 friends dying this year, my uncle and another friend are dying, work is horrible and I get cussed out by customers,a girl tried to get me to go out with her to get her boy jealous.

2007-09-06 09:51:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it really hard for men to date women with kids? And Why???? Please explain!

2007-09-06 09:49:36 · 32 answers · asked by HottShorty78 2 in Singles & Dating

I have to work tomorrow and he is meeting me after work for dinner and a concert. What should I wear, how should I do my hair...etc.

Help!

2007-09-06 09:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive heard it is french!

2007-09-06 09:45:09 · 1 answers · asked by SEAN D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anytime I hear of domestic violent it is usually a man against a women. All we ever hear is that he hit, shot, or beat her. We never ask the question what triggered this behaver. Someone said what different does it made, A man should never hit a woman. Have we considered that verbal abuse can and does causes different people to just lose it. Why isn't the verbal abuser ever told to just walk away? What makes them think there is no consequences for their action?

If we zero in on verbal abuse, it might be possible to stop the violent. What say you.

2007-09-06 09:44:18 · 10 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to please you sexually

2007-09-06 09:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So my bf and I had been together 9 months, everything was going great (well at least it seemed like it was). So a week ago we had a little fight because he said that I am not very good at keeping a conversation. So 2 days ago we start talking again and I try to keep the conversation going. out of no where he said that i was boring. After he told me that i was shocked because he had never said such a mean thing. Then he texted me "i cant be your boyfriend anymore" i call him to see why... his answer was "i just cant." what does this mean? do you think he is hidding something?

what should i do? i really liked him

2007-09-06 09:43:31 · 1 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, I'm married, and things aren't all rosy. I don't look 4 people online! Anyway, this 1 dude and I got along really well. OK, now he has a crush on me. Now what?? He knows I'm married!
Well, my friend is livid! He won't even tt me anymore! He tells me to stay away...but this guy and I cleared the air, no pressure, just friends. I'm working out my marriage.
What should I do?

2007-09-06 09:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a fondness toward Asian females: I think they are beautiful.

2007-09-06 09:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by r r 1 in Singles & Dating

In porn movies or shows that it shows a lot of naked women and hardly any men?

2007-09-06 09:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think a relationship between a woman who is more highly educated than her partner will work in the long run? It's not that her partner is unintelligent but it's a different kind of intelligence.

2007-09-06 09:39:52 · 27 answers · asked by Brain Tickler 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im seventeen and this is so incredibly annoying. i just started dating someone, but even just guys that are friends arent allowed. all of my friends can have people of the opposite sex in their rooms. i just think its so dumb because..and ive told them..that we will just go to someone elses house..and i ask them wouldnt they rather have us here in OUR house so they at least know what were doing/ not drinking/ getting in trouble? i really dont get it and its embarrasing. even with just the door open would be ok. they are treating me like a baby and im going to college next year. do they think ill never have guys over there? i really dont understand them. i told them they are going to miss out on meeting my friends and whenever i do have boys over i have to make up dumb excuses s to why we have to stay downstairs PLEASEEEE give me some advice as to some things i could say that would help me change this rule! thank you!!!!!

2007-09-06 09:39:44 · 35 answers · asked by pennylane 1 in Singles & Dating

Married over 20 years. All of a sudden my wife says she enrolled in dance lessons. We never go out dancing. She is doing this on her own. Never asked me. What am I to make of this?

2007-09-06 09:37:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if ur 18 year old daughter-who isn't living at home, told u that she was never going to be nice or speak to ur new wife and her child.... what would u do?

2007-09-06 09:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 09:35:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I finally got the courage to walk out a month ago from my husband, who was verbally and physically abusive. I think I feel like this because the abuse didn't happen all the time, but when he would get mad.

I just didn't want to be in that type of relationship at all at any level, and it took me 3 years to even see that. But now I miss him. Terribly! I'm not about to go back to him, but I feel really sad about the whole situation. I still love him, but love is not enough sometimes.

He's since moved out, and I'm moving out of our place into my families until I save money to move into my own place.

Why do I feel like this? Please tell me this will pass and I'll be a better person for staying away!

In the mean time he keeps calling me acting like nothing is wrong and talking as if it's a phase and we'll be back together some day. How do I just come out with it and tell him that this is probably permanent even though he's in anger management/abusive classes and counseling?

2007-09-06 09:34:49 · 17 answers · asked by Jazy 2 in Marriage & Divorce