I got a boyfriend who is my ex's friend! My ex has been tellin him stuff bout how I am as a girlfriend! Not to mention my ex's friends and my boy friend's friends are always flirtin and sweet talkin me!!!! My boyfriend hasn't said or done anything so I don't think he cares, but i could be wrong! My boyfriend is very protective when he needs to be and I feel safe with him. When he not around though I get worried and I think my ex is up to somethin because he has wanted us to split up since we got together! What does all this mean and What should I do?! I'm confused and worried. Should I just ignore this or confront my ex?!
2007-09-06 10:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by moon_cat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should confront him tell him to stop flirting with you tell him you broke up with me so why you feel the need to keep flirting with me tell him it's over and tell him to leave you and you bf alone . then tell your bf what he is doing . and about your concerns . if you feel safe with your bf dont worry about him splitting you guys up .but next time it is not a very good idea to go out with your ex's friend . a day after you broke up
i mean it could mess the boy up. BAD but i would be careful
2007-09-06 11:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're feeling insecure but you shouldn't! Stay away from your ex and hope your boyfriend and him don't spend too much time together. Don't talk about your ex to your boyfriend, either or he'll think you have something to hide. If your boyfriend asks you odd questions, tell him NOT to discuss you with your ex. Those two guys do not need to discuss you behind your back. It could ruin the whole relationship. Tell your boyfriend his friends are too flirty and to watch them - not you. Ask him WHY he needs to be friends with guys who are trying to ruin his relationship with you? That's disrespectful. Tell him to keep the boys in check or you'll get a new boyfriend.
2007-09-07 09:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all means that you are in for a nightmare relationship. Guys tend to hang together so eventually you will be the odd woman out. Too much familiarity is never good and your ex is sure to know how to get you mad at your new boyfriend if he chooses. As far as confronting your ex...it will just keep the bond he does not want to break get even stronger. If he can't be with you he seems destined to make you miserable or uncomfortable as long as he can.
2007-09-06 10:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas O 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would confront him,tell him that your happy now&to leave you alone!(Unless your not?)Then let your boyfriend know your not conftible with his friends flirting with you.But this could start trouble if your not ready for confrntaion then you might have to just put up with it till things blow over! Good luck hope it works out for you!
2007-09-06 10:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your boyfriend , tell him the reason that you broke up with your ex. And your boyfriend will understand everything, he won't take it for a big deal.
2007-09-06 10:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by cassoujb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should straighten things out with your x and explain to your boyfriend that if he has any doubts or questions, he should ask you and to not believe what others may say. Being honest is key to making the relationship work, dont leave any room for misunderstandings.
2007-09-06 10:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by armygirl86 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to your boyfriend about it! if he loves you and hes as protective as you say he is when he needs to be... well, if you think someone is harassing you, then he will protect you!
and if you think it bugs him when other guys flirt with you, just cudle up to your real boyfriend and say, sorry, im already taken, if you do that, you boyfriend will see this as a message, and tell the other guys to back off!!!
2007-09-06 10:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mario N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Concentrate on the relationship you are in now..
Ex is over, you are done with that..
Flirting boys are mere distractions,---- concentrate on your main purpose or break that off...
2007-09-06 10:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that your ex is trying to break up your relationship and is just jealous that you no longer fancy him .
2007-09-06 10:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should talk to ur bf about it. and if he doesnt do anything then tell ur x that u dont like him anymore and to stop talking to u like he is.
2007-09-06 10:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by aknightscheerleader 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋