Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

i'm 17 turning 18 on oct 23 and Andrew (my bf) is the same age but his bday is oct 27. we met in a chatroom and i met him with my parents in july. well, he asked me to marry him and i stupidly said yes and i'm "going to move in with him on oct 28". BUT, i'm pentacostal(christian) and he's not, i have a huge problem with that. i've came close to braking up with him so many times but i just got soft and stayed with him. i'm giving up a lot if i go there, i mean i'm getting my ged and i'm leaving my family for crying out loud, its just too much. see the thing is, he's in pa and i'm in or. i talked to him before about how i feel and he's like "i'm a christian but i just don't beleive some of it" i was like you either beleive it or you don't. and plus he just argues with me about everything, every aregu we have i turn out the be the bad one, i mean sometimes its my fault but not all the time. i've been seriously thinking about ending it but i just don't know what and how i should

2007-09-06 07:50:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi
I have this girl that is very good looking that we are only friends. We have sex and do other sexual stuff. but i had this date and she freaked out, bad. I talked to her later about it asking her if she wanted to be more than friends. She just told me i am just a good f'ck. whats up with that.
Anyone else been in this situation

2007-09-06 07:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Son coming though from Florida on way to Japan-Military

2007-09-06 07:48:40 · 16 answers · asked by regino37hx 1 in Weddings

seriously why do guys do such a thing? im only 15 and im starting to hate love! isnt there anyone out there thats true anymore? please give me some answers

2007-09-06 07:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husbands sister has 3 kids, all boys, and they are constantly breaking things and have not been taught how to clean up after themselves (the twins are 6 the baby is 3). They cause my stress level to double as soon as they visit. The kids are WILD, literally, jumping and screaming, and spilling stuff left and right. I do not have children of my own, but I have been around little ones my entire life, and I have NEVER ever dealt with kids who are this bad. And my sister-in-law is oblivious to the kids, she lets them do whatever they want (like play in her car, and the 3 year old even put it in reverse one time, but thats a WHOLE other story).
The trouble is, because I do not have kids, everybody assumes that I can babysit them. My father in law has volunteered my to babysit on numerous occasions. How can I tell them that her kids are wild and that I do not want to babysit them anymore? And that her kids stress me out? Because I'm the aunt does that mean I have to babysit?

2007-09-06 07:45:58 · 11 answers · asked by wifey2david 2 in Family

If both parties work should they share an account or have seperate accounts?

2007-09-06 07:44:06 · 34 answers · asked by mastermind delinquent 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not want a actual wedding. Just him and I exchanging vows. Is this wrong as in my family and his would not be included. His family is over here on the east coast with us and my family is on the west. they have not met him. But I am wanting to get married and then have a reception or a gathering after I finish basic and then A.I.T. Is this an acceptable thing if this is what he and I want?

2007-09-06 07:41:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A question for the guys. You meet a girl to whom you are instantly attracted (in every way) and she's also into you in the same way. But she wants to "take it slow", meaning she wants to first get to you know you really well, see if there's a friendship and potential for a relationship, before becoming physically involved with you. Any suggestions for how to do that and keep the spark going at the same time?

2007-09-06 07:39:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 07:39:36 · 25 answers · asked by dipndry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is 5000 miles away, in the military, we've been off and on for 2 years. This hurts so much. I just saw him in july, we had the best time, but i dont trust him. I have reasons not to trust him. No proof that he's cheated, but he has told me other lies. I am unconfortable with a friendship he has with a girl he's known all his life. she would leave messages on his myspace like, i love you, miss you to death, etc. Finally i guess he hadnt spoken to her in a while and she found out i visited. she left a message calling me a psycho b*tch stalker that basically flew out there to get laid. I have NEVER met this girl! That was a month ago, i have tried to forget it. He told me he wasnt speaking to her, but i found out 2day he is. He sent a pic of himself to me and a few others, she was listed. Y lie about it? We've had many trust issues, i feel like its my fault 4 being dramatic. Is it? Should i believe him? I already ended things, he's barely said anything. ive ended things b4 tho

2007-09-06 07:37:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 and she 23 (24 in month). We met through a mutual friend almost 2 years ago and have been together ever since. We both have had some LTR in the past. When we met each other we clicked and have had a wonderful time together. Little ups and downs but we both get a long very well and each do things on our own.

I know that she has commitment issues. We have talked about them a little bit in the past and this has caused some problems with her being able to express her emotions comfortably. But for the most part, we are fairly open in regards to how we feel about each other. We both love each others good and bad sides.

Recently in the last couple months, she first took a few days at her moms to "cool" off and she came back running to me. Then she decided to move out about 2 months ago. We slowed things down as she wanted to live on her own.

2007-09-06 07:36:15 · 1 answers · asked by michigan98gt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im finding it so hard , harder and harder every day to get away from my laptop . all my spare time is with this lately , any suggestions im addicted . maybe surfers anonymous meetings or something

2007-09-06 07:33:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 07:33:15 · 16 answers · asked by Cold In Canada 1 in Weddings

I have a 15 and 9 yr old.... I'm divorced and dating a wonderful guy who's 36 who doesn't have but wants children. Am I too old? If I decide to get pregnant it would be next year or when I am 40. .... honest and serious answers only pls!

2007-09-06 07:26:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am trying to make the world a happier place through my website/blog called spreadyoursmile.com and i need everyones help. basically it is just a collection of smiling faces that people have emailed me and i need a bunch more. i am trying to create a global epidemic of smiling faces, so please help me and the rest of the world out by emailing me your photos. you can either go directly to the site, spreadyoursmile.com or just email me at either spreadyoursmile@yahoo.com or spreadyoursmile@gmail.com and i will post them up on my site for the world to see. i do not profit in any way off of this and i have no sponsors or benefactors. the only thing i gain from it is the knowledge that i am making other people smile, so please help me out. thank you very much in advance!!

2007-09-06 07:26:19 · 1 answers · asked by spreadyoursmile.com 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OKay So I have this crush right I've liked him off and on for like the past 3 years.Beside being my crush were like really kool friends we hang out alot.And his mom and my mom are like really good friends they're like fam kinda.I never got the vibe that he liekd me until like the past couple weeks, they're crashing @ our house until they're house is finished. so the other night we were up late watching t.v and he's like massage my hand and i do wateva but then i stop massaging his hand and then he holds my hand full on like his fingers through my figners and we just kinda chill like that for a bit and then i finnaly get. up.....Omg I'am so confused. Does he like me is he playing what. What should my next move be?????

2007-09-06 07:26:00 · 2 answers · asked by boomer20girl 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a sister in law and weve bumped heads before.well she told me if i have any concerns to go straight to her and ask her.so i did and i get an email back with her cussing me out and than my brother in law too.than my husbands ex girlfriend cussing me out.all cause i wanted to know if she was talking behind my back.i just thought me and my sister in law was friends and than she goes to someone i hate and talks about me and when i ask her she blows up and gets the girl i hate to cuss me out too.i hate the fact that his ex is trying to have everyone against me.when i just asked a simple question now they said im a twoface.weird.so what should i do about his ignoring ex trying to mess up my family.whats wrong with?

2007-09-06 07:25:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just wondering what the point of this is? Is it to increase your confidence or to feed in to the media?

Those of you who do flaunt your bodies because you feel that you have a nice one, why do you do it?

Does it make you feel better about yourself, more superior? What is the point of it to you?

Just curious??

2007-09-06 07:24:33 · 4 answers · asked by Purple Vengeance 2 in Singles & Dating

I am white but she is black. I like her but I don't know what my family will say about us being together. I really like her though.

2007-09-06 07:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by graylangdon27576 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

To watch porno, or go to strip joints, if your wife doesn't know about it?

I mean if you masturbate to porno everyday and you have your favorite one,or pair of girlies getting each other off, and you only have sex with your wife maybe 1-2 times every two weeks?
Would do you think? Just curious?

2007-09-06 07:21:21 · 53 answers · asked by RadioChild 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the quick version : 11 years ago, while we were freshman in college, I hooked up with my friends ex one night. Nothing substantial happened and he nor I ever mentioned it again, and we didn't tell anyone else either, including my friend.

I don't know how it came up now, but my friend found out and is pissed and sent me a vicious email about how I lied and was never really a friend to her.

I'm not defending my actions, I was young and stupid. It was a mean thing to do, but it was 11 years ago....

Should I be punished for the sins of my youth? I've apologized to her in retrospect, I understand that she's hurt, but am I expecting too much that she just get over it?

Plus she's dragging our mutual friends into this and I'm afraid they're going to be forced to take sides, and since I'm clearly in the wrong, it won't be my side they're taking.

Apparently hooking up with someone when you're 18 can come back to haunt you....who knew? Karma's a *****.

2007-09-06 07:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by ndewald2004 2 in Friends

2007-09-06 07:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 07:13:52 · 6 answers · asked by molly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 1yr 5months+ wants to buy me an expensive gift and I turn it down. The thing is, i feel if i accept it, i owe him something. Or that he's keeping score and one day ask for something saying "remember when I got you this~". Or that if we break up, I'd feel like i owe it to him to get something in return. I have never accepted anything he wanted to buy me. It makes him sad, but I feel weird. I also don't accept things from others, just not him.

Is it wrong of me? Should I open up more and let people buy me gifts? Or am i right to not accept gifts?

Anyone else like that also? Advice?

2007-09-06 07:12:09 · 17 answers · asked by i.sere 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I have so many friends and family. We were having a discussion about who we wanted in our bridal/groom party. Traditionally ( or the norm) are people that are married or with children NOT asked to be apart of a wedding Party?

Also, are there other traditional rules I could follow to help minimize the amount of people I have in my wedding? --such as age.....

what age is too old or too young for a bridesmaid or groomsman?
Help

2007-09-06 07:05:49 · 19 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Weddings

ok, what is more important to you, a car or a girlfriend? which interests you more?

2007-09-06 07:04:14 · 24 answers · asked by wendy 3 in Singles & Dating

So, thanks to the history being saved on our computer, I have seen that my husband visits internet chat rooms. There are "adult profiles" saved in the history file, but when I confronted him about it he said that the profiles don't have to be viewed. If a girl sends them to him in a chat, even if he doesn't look at the profile, it will save it to the computer just because it was a received file. Is this true, or is he looking up profiles?

2007-09-06 07:02:24 · 17 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 07:01:06 · 28 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a question earlier about getting back with my girlfriend of 16 months. She said she misses me an dstill has my picture up and cries to it everynight, but she also said she was hanging out with this guy that was her "friend" who just happens to like her from previous years. I already found this out, but I was going to ask how she felt about him??? Does it matter if I ask the question over the phone or face to face. which would be better, since she still is a little hurt by me? face to face or phone?????

2007-09-06 07:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by Still_going 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I were talking about what our invitations would say if we were to get married....his parents are divorced and remarried, mine are still married if both his and my parents contributed equally what would the invitations say? my bfs dad(bob) was remarried to (kim) and his mom (kelly) was remarried to (george). kelly and george are more like his parents then his dad ever was so would it say something like bob and kelly would request the honor of your presence....or george and kelly? he doesnt want to leave his dad out of the wedding because its his only son but his stepdad is a huge part of his life? we arent getting married for a while so we have time to figure it all out I was just wondering what it would look like. Sorry it must be really confusing!

2007-09-06 06:59:29 · 21 answers · asked by curious 1 in Weddings