I am white but she is black. I like her but I don't know what my family will say about us being together. I really like her though.
2007-09-06 07:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by graylangdon27576 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IYour happiness is about you and your decisions. if you live your life for your parents and to make everyone else happy - you are not an individual. If you like her - theres a reason. If you don't try - you'll always regret it. If your family loves you - they have to realize that your You and you need to do what makes you happy. Isn't that what family is about?
2007-09-06 07:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by debbiehelms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, older generations need to rethink their ways if they have a problem with this kind of thing.
If it gets serious let them know. I know a friend whos in pretty much the same situation, the family tend to accept whats inevitably going to happen.
2007-09-06 14:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by le_miserable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should colour matter?
if she has the personality and looks, which you think is eligable for you then go for it.
Sure parents are there to help guide your way through life. But you can't help who you fall for neither can they. Talk to you mom and dad about this hear what they have to say on it, although it will only be an opinion not an order. GO FOR IT.
2007-09-06 14:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
African American women are great to be married/commited to, and have nice large families. I think you would love being with her, so go ahead you have to be happy. Forget your familys thoughts on this. Live for yourself and please yourself, if not you will live in heartbreak and pain all your life.
The best wishes for the both of you.
2007-09-06 14:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really like her then your family would except the fact that she is another color....color doesn't matter only your happiness does...so I say go for it:)
2007-09-06 14:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Look we are all one race, the human race ! The heart matters most, not the color of a person.
2007-09-06 14:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What matters most is whether you can get beyond worrying about what other people think. If Not it won't work out.
2007-09-06 14:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared of what your family going to think then maybe you shouldn't ask her out
2007-09-06 14:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lady J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur familiy should be happy for u not dissapointed but if they are tell them how u feel about her.
2007-09-06 16:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pran-Pran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO matter if your black or white
2007-09-06 14:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋