Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

I have been friends with my no current girlfriend for 5 years, we are now talking about engagement and moving in together. However she lives in a different state. She can't move to me because she is in collage to become a lawyer. I have thoughts and aspirations of just some day just packing up to move there on a whim. But I wouldn't have a job, a place to stay (but I probably could stay in her dorm), and we talk about everything very seriously. I know one day I will marry her, its just a waiting game.

So should I make the leap blindly or jut wait it out?

2007-09-06 04:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by piffingod 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Almost everybody in my family turned their back on my mother because of her ways. (lies, double crossing, gossip, just crazy) I am getting married soon and our guest list is near 200 with only family and our (bride and groom's) friends. She knows that nobody in the family will talk to her. She wants to invite the people from her church to come to the wedding. They are her only freinds because they haven't known her long enough. We have seen them before but do not hardly know them. I don't know what to do. I want everybody to be happy, but it is her fault nobody in the family talks to her.

2007-09-06 04:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by secretcuriosity04 1 in Weddings

Ok so I don't get along with my sister inlaws (6 of them) AT ALL! They don't like me and vice versa.
My husband has never stood up to them for me which makes me mad.. finally I just cut them loose (about a year ago). He said I don't have to go to any family things.
Well yesterday I went off on one SIL (just couldn't hold it in) not the right thing to do, but its done...and would rather not deal with anything (them) anymore. NOW, she is getting married later in the fall . My husband doesn't mention it to me at all, he is waiting to hear from me We have not made any plans, nor discussed it other than me saying so we're not going to talk about it...
Knowing they have been talking about me for years, knowing I will get bad attitude and smirks all night long... what should I do? What would you do?

2007-09-06 04:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by meme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I want 2 write a book of romance/drama/fictional short stories w/ words of wisdom after each story & I know there is alot we go through everyday in our love lives. I want it to be based on finding or losing love, sex, family, marriage all of the things in those departments because that is where some may need the most wisdom. I have experienced alot in my life but I would like help in hearing what experiences u have witnessed or been through that u can't read about enough and would liked it touched on. Or something that u "didn't even know some1 could do" Gimme as much details as u can however in the end I will probably still twist it for dramatic effect. Thanks so much. Doesn't matter the age, gender, race or nothing of the situation or u cause we have more in common then we think. Thanks.

2007-09-06 04:23:37 · 1 answers · asked by Miss. K 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance` and I have known each other for 9 years. From the time we met we were attracted to each other however we did not persue a serious relationship until 2 years later. We broke up after a few years and we have been back together for the last 2 1/2 years. I lived with him for the last 2 years but I really dont feel comfortable. It is an extended family no one treats me badly I just want us to be on our own. We are gonna get married next March so I just want to spend the last few months at home with my parents for 2 reasons. After i get married they are will hardly ever see me, i want my honeymoon to be special and not like another night with my husband. My fiance is upset i am really scared about how he is taking this. I still love him, more actually! Am i being unreasonable?

2007-09-06 04:22:39 · 2 answers · asked by KIZZY 1 in Family

Sometimes I feel like I have more NOT in common than common.... We have been married for 5 and a half years, no kids. I am in my late twenties and he is in his early thirties. Is this normal? I feel like we always, always have to compromise with the other because we tend to like different movies, music, etc. Does anyone else feel this way? It's even more so than that. I am more conservative, he is more liberal. I have a passion for volunteering and helping important causes, he could care less. I have a ton of energy, he is more easy going and calm. I go to church and have a certain moral compass, he does not. What does all of this mean? I am starting to wonder if we were truly meant to be together? I feel like when I express myself or am passionate about a cause, I'd like him to be passionate with me, even if it isn't a cause that is necessarily important to him. It is important to me. Sometimes I feel like we might be growing apart?

2007-09-06 04:22:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am european and not in India at the moment. For me it is not a problem. I look at his pictures very often and it is very difficult but i can easily wait to meet him again.

2007-09-06 04:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or does it mean you never loved, or weren't sure of love when you married, what does it mean and did you lose willingness to get help (counseling) or did you just grow apart and wife was less receptive to your needs. Please tell me ur thoughts.

2007-09-06 04:15:30 · 25 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I found it to be pretty common for a girl to be loud, but I have found along with screaming, scratching and biting are also in turn with that... and how many of you are hard scratchers... not favorable by the way, (have scar from that ish)...

ok the real question(s)
how common are these three attributes in a woman during sex??
what is your guilt in these actions??

2007-09-06 04:15:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother and Aunt haven't spoken since i was 11, now i'm 14. my mom now wants to get back in touch with her but i don't want them too. My cousin had a baby last year who my mother's never met. i like things how they are as i can go to see my aunt and cousins alone. it's my aun't party soon and my mom wants to come but i don't want her to. i know i sound selfish but i'm just used to things the way they are now. no nasty answers please but what should i do?

2007-09-06 04:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by summer-pink 1 in Family

And then my girlfriend got totally angry and quit me. I thought it should have been OK. How can I explain it to her?

2007-09-06 04:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

Y do u think so also? I just want to know a guy's thought process vs a girl's. HEre's the situation. I was at my hubbys' aunt's place, and he called. We talked a bit and me spending the night came up and I said I didn't have any clothes. He was like, what do u mean u haVe no clothes? Then I clarified that I don't any clean clothes to wear the next day. It came across to me that with the initial comment, he thought i was standing there nude, that's why he asked the follow up question. This happened once before too, but i don't remember the situation. serious answers please. trying to figure out minds here. thanks.

2007-09-06 04:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married very soon, to a wonderful, trustworthy girl. I have been married before and have 2-kids from that marriage. The girl I am marrying is 8-years younger than I am, and she has helped me to make very good changes in my life.

But, the trade off is that she is kinda controlling. Everything has to be on her terms. She will not waver an inch on money issues. She has helped me to be alot more responsible with finances, but it is to the point that I am afraid to even spend any money without worrying about repercussions. She works but, I bring in about 75% of our income.

She is just so stubborn about everything. Do I put up with it because things are better in my life now. Or, is this just a prelude to what the rest of my life is going to be like.

2007-09-06 04:13:17 · 33 answers · asked by looking for answers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iam in love with one guy who is 3yrs younger then me he also loves me a looot bt the problem is that after 5-6 yrs we want to marry each other &onother problem is that as he is 3yrs younger then me my parents will not agree 4 our relation&they will get hurt one side i dnt want to hurt my parents on the other hand we both cant live without each other so plz advice me whether i should continue this relationship with him or not

2007-09-06 04:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by bhuvaneswari i 2 in Friends

I am in Love with a man who was sentenced to 20 years in prison. Do you think it is possible for a relationship to make it through this time? I am 28 and he is 32. We have known eachother for 7 years total

2007-09-06 04:00:54 · 31 answers · asked by latin_reynasoy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-06 04:00:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was fixed after I had my son 7 years ago from a previous relationship. I also have a 17 year old and a 16 year old. This is my third husband he is 32 and I am 34. We have been together for two years now and our marriage is strong and I have never been more sure about this man then I have with anything else in my life. I was talking to him about it last night and he told me he would think about it because the cost of the reversal is costly. I don't want to pressure him but I am 34 and would like to do this soon. He said he never wanted a child until he met me so now I am confused as to if he really wants one or if maybe he is scared of the unknown?
Am I crazy for wanting another child? Should I just get over it and let it be done and be thankful for the children I already have or am I being selffish?
Your opinions and thoughts are appreciated.

2007-09-06 04:00:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-06 03:59:36 · 9 answers · asked by threecraws 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to write this letter to you. Hopefully it is something you will read with a smile, and keep along for a very long time.

I feel honoured to have known you, Jay. Ever since we began our friendship in 1995, I have felt deeply blessed to have someone so kind, caring, funny, generous and loving, to want to spend their time with me. I have never felt worthy of your friendship, but always treasured it close to my heart.

You have taught me a lot. Believe it or not, you are someone I have always aspired to be like. I see your courage, your devout loyalty to your friends and family, and above all, your unconditional ability to love. Perhaps this is why everyone I’ve ever spoken to has said “Jaime’s a lovely girl”, and its true.

I have loved that over the years, you were always the person I could turn to. I felt I was able to talk and share anything with you, we were that close. And that has meant the world to me.

What else can i write? Thankyou!

2007-09-06 03:59:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-06 03:58:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been dating this women for a while and i really like her and probably the other L word too, but who do you think should say I Love You first, the guy or girl? I realize it doesnt matter and i should just go wiht what i feel but...

2007-09-06 03:54:23 · 13 answers · asked by packman 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a problem . i can't find a girlfriend and each time i ask a girl out she refuses. it has been 5 years since i had a girlfriend. Is something wrong with me i don't know each time i see a boy and a girl toghether i feel so lonely and i wonder if the coming days will bring me my true love? Please help me.

2007-09-06 03:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People said he seemed interested in me:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6R.GFyxpEsf8G9u7Chy.3ty6IX?qid=20070904124348AA8vGv2
(thats my last qs)
He started the playful teasing thing again a couple of days ago but i ignored it because i was too shy since there was a ton of guys with him
and now he has ignored me and not even looked at me, and i feel terrible and i feel as if he hates me?
What should i do, i'm so shy, should i look at him lots to show i'm interested....(did he seem interested in the 1st place? -see qs link above)
Thanks

2007-09-06 03:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but this guy dont want to leave me, but i love me so much and he also love me too. pls help

2007-09-06 03:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by sweetg 1 in Singles & Dating

It can be something that happened, or something someone did.

2007-09-06 03:48:02 · 6 answers · asked by mistaken4sane 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wedding is in two days and I know this is nothing to really be stressing about, but I am! How am I supposed to know when to dance w/my Daddy, my Husband and so on...??

2007-09-06 03:47:21 · 10 answers · asked by love<33 2 in Weddings

I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man & living together for close to a year. He had to have back surgery 5 months ago after an accident and his recovery has been long and painful. He did not receive disability from the state or his company so we suffered financially. He lost his car, so we have had to share my car. He is back to work now but they are coming down really hard on him. His son is a typical teenager who says he hates him & is threatening to run away & drop out of school. The rest of his family can't be bothered. Because of all this our relationship has suffered. We fight a lot and nasty things have been said both ways. He's miserable and nothing seems to bring him out of it. He ends up taking it out on me & I resent it. He feels like a failure and I don't know what to say or do anymore. I love this man very much & I know that things can get better if we survive this difficult time, but I'm afraid that if we continue like this we'll never get there! Help!!

2007-09-06 03:47:19 · 3 answers · asked by LillyMac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If someone blows your mind, does that remove the experience from your short term memory or something?

2007-09-06 03:46:59 · 6 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Singles & Dating

just wondering....some like a cups some like d cups. i dont know? i get diff. signals/signs from every guy.

2007-09-06 03:42:10 · 11 answers · asked by greeneyes211 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 03:39:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating