i have a problem . i can't find a girlfriend and each time i ask a girl out she refuses. it has been 5 years since i had a girlfriend. Is something wrong with me i don't know each time i see a boy and a girl toghether i feel so lonely and i wonder if the coming days will bring me my true love? Please help me.
2007-09-06 03:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well start doing a hobby that you enjoy. Chances are their is some females out there like some if not all the same stuff that you do. Go slow. Don't rush any females that you find attractive get to know them first. No one likes being rushed to know every detail about someone on the first date or meeting! I find it annoying to get to know someone completely within the first meeting! If you do this, there won't be anything to look forward to next time! Also think back to when you had a girlfriend, how did you win her over to become your girlfriend? Some times change is not good, stick with what works for you! Take care of your body/hygiene Hair sloppy? Cut it! Too much hair? Remove it! Keep in mind Some people like hairy men (italian/sicillian are very hairy)(It takes some getting used to but I wouldn't trade my man because of it & he is sicillian!) Honestly just be yourself. I find that when you look too hard for love sometimes it passes you by, other times when your not looking it falls right into your lap! Just be patient! Also ask more than one girl out on a date (think like job interview you flood the market hoping to get a nibble) do the same with getting a girlfriend! Hang in there it will happen soon just be patient and don't get down on yourself!
2007-09-14 03:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel lonely. The time will come when also will have a gf.
Have patience.
Join some clubs,hobby classes,or vocational groups,etc. etc.
Have as much activity as possible. The more you keep yourself occupied, the less lonely you shall feel. The time may come when you shall have lot of friends around you.
I think you are an introvert and a shy person who doesn't want to initiate the dialog. Be more outgoing and interested in your
surroundings and your happiness shall have no limits.
2007-09-14 06:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by jillybilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to feel lonely, i know a bunch of people who have never had a bf or gf their whole lives....but the one main thing i see in all my friends is their character. Despite this, they enjoy life, have great friendships, successful careers, pursue hobbies and altho their love lives are in the back seat they always have a smile on their faces. So my advice to you is, love yourself, enjoy all that you have now & don't dwell on what's missing...once all is in place & the time is right..."the one" will come into your life. Trust me, i've seen this happen to friends over the years & i have experienced the same thing as well. When you have a glow inside you, you will attract love into your life. Good luck!
2007-09-06 11:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by cmc66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
David: Go visit places where you can find a big percentage of women. Say frequently go to have manicures and pedicures beauty parlors, supermarkets, females clothing stores looking for a gift, etc.
Try schools not looking at the subject but at the females percentage among the group.
2007-09-14 08:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could ask one of your friends to fix you up with a blind date. Go out as a group, so you aren't alone with her for the first date. Join some clubs, take classes at night. You might be able to meet someone new that way, and ask them out for coffee later.
2007-09-14 00:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down,your girl is on the way.You can't just pick love,like you can a rose.Try looking at the not so hot girls.Maybe your aim is to high.Go out and ask girls for a date,be active.Don't sit and look at couples,be one.Date all kinds of girls.
2007-09-14 06:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let love *** 2 u not go searching 4 love. try traveling around, mayb also ur asking the girl 2 soon? wait till ur pretty good friends or pretty close b4 u ask them. every1 has their soul mate, dont worry, ul find urs....
wish u the best of luck!
2007-09-14 09:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good thing takes time to come to everyone wait and see
2007-09-14 10:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, stay lookin' good, and be yourself. Soon someone will fall in love with you, but you have to be patient.
2007-09-06 11:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by HappyEquine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with yo u maybe you are currently"desperately" searching in all the wrong places.Just be patient all this lonliness will come to pass.
2007-09-14 07:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by khutso m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋