What do u feel are situations u can't find or read about enough in the romance/drama/fictional section?

Question

I want 2 write a book of romance/drama/fictional short stories w/ words of wisdom after each story & I know there is alot we go through everyday in our love lives. I want it to be based on finding or losing love, sex, family, marriage all of the things in those departments because that is where some may need the most wisdom. I have experienced alot in my life but I would like help in hearing what experiences u have witnessed or been through that u can't read about enough and would liked it touched on. Or something that u "didn't even know some1 could do" Gimme as much details as u can however in the end I will probably still twist it for dramatic effect. Thanks so much. Doesn't matter the age, gender, race or nothing of the situation or u cause we have more in common then we think. Thanks.

Answer 1

Just so you know hunnie a choice is in front of you, see we to often like to hold on to "romantic" love, its cute, its wonderful, its perfect, but its a darn fantasy. So much this ideal has caused us problems and disallowed the formation of what i'd like to call "true" love. Love that isn't based on the ideal that, the person your with is perfect nor can your love be, with work, compassion, passion, companianship, trust and of course understanding. To much people assume that just the phrase "I love you" does everything to convay the deepth of that love, IT DOESN"T, nor does flowers, sex, choclates, sweet words, or hungs. It takes blood, sweet, tears, pain, frustration, anger, and so many other things before it becomes something, well something beyond words, simple a powerful "BOND". But this can only happen when the two respect the friendship, and friendship is based on so mmmannnnnyyy more things then a simple romantic attraction. Your both usually on the same page, feel the same way about things, listen and care about the same things (atleast in best friends situations) and most of all share the same purpose, or close to the same purpose in life. Thats why my greatest experience with love wasn't someone I dated, wasn't someone I screwed one night, it was a wonderful friend I knew 5 years before hand, that I had talk to, related to, laffed with, and cried. And lets just say that when you spend enough time talking, relating and caring with someone, well it happens, and it was beyond what I could put into worlds. It wasn't fake, I couldn't breck it, and IT forced me to actual look at myself and say "Wow I'm worth a ****, I do matter, and love doesn't have to be just one way!!!" So I leave you with this chinesse proverb that I found out to be true before I actually found the quote, but it sums it up. Lol about 7 months after me and here went our ways, I started dating a cat, showed me again how flaw'd the dating and romance sence is..... but here you go

Friends can make great lovers, but great lovers rarly ever become friends


this I've found is the MAIN reason most relationships end, we all have LOVE, cats love, dogs love, even rats! (what do you think keeps them taking care of there kiddos? hormones, lol, not quite...) Its simply an emotion that excites us to feel, now what we feel is infinite now, thats were love really shines! But with that said, it never matters about the LOVE, its always, how we use it..... most of us its just a nice night, a few nice words, a screw, and I'll call you later..... or when your married, I'll see you in the morning.....

So the choice still remains, you could ether cater to the fantasy like everyone else, or show this people a story about true love, about love lost, found, lost again, found, and then lost to just be found again.... in the end I think thats what people search for in these stories more then a nice romantic sexcapade......