2007-09-06 04:00:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they both flirt with each other ,she diches me all the time in front of my husband.i have talked to him about it ,just yesterday as a matter .i told him it was hurtful to me and our family .This morning he did it again, by answering a phone call from there with good morning sunshine .This just before he left for a job away from home .
2007-09-06 04:27:06 · update #1
they both flirt with each other ,she diches me all the time in front of my husband.i have talked to him about it ,just yesterday as a matter .i told him it was hurtful to me and our family .This morning he did it again, by answering a phone call from there with good morning sunshine .This just before he left for a job away from home .
2007-09-06 04:33:06 · update #2
Call Captain Slap A Ho!
2007-09-06 04:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Give him more sex. That answer applies to many many situations. When in Doubt give it up. For example: My husband watches too much football My husband won't let be buy ??? I burned dinner... He is flirting... my husband just got home from work... I can't sleep... If you follow my advice you will stay married and he will be the luckyest guy around. He would also be as loyal as a puppy. But what do I know, im just a guy...maybe you should listen to the bitter angry women instead. jesting asside there is no place in marriage for bitterness and revenge. Flirting to get back at him will only drive your marriage to devorce.
2016-03-18 01:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through this right now and I just want to scream. All he is going to do is say that he is not doing it; lying. But, I think that it is time to set a goal to move on. I dont think this is something that I want to argue or talk about because if he would flirt around our home then I can only suspect that he is really doing it away from the house. What a shame..
2015-07-13 18:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... you can either flirt w/ her husband/boyfriend or you can flirt w/ one of the other male neighbors...but that would probably backfire, he will accuse you of something going on... or, you can tell him how it makes you feel like you are not his wife but just someone who cleans the house and cooks... and if he does not stop after you tell him how you feel, you can always leave... flirting, is cheating's cousin... this is emotional abuse... emotional cheating... and cause for a divorce! good luck... he should be flirting w/ you, not her... in the old days, flirting was used to get yourself a man/woman... now, it's used to get some hanky panky on the side =(... lol @ just a grandma's answer! haha! or venture on to say something about his herpe's, lmao hahaha... and as far as bishop says, if he's in love w/ you, he would not flirt w/ her... and he should be calling you beautiful...not someone else... =(...
2007-09-06 04:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if your husband would never cheat on you, it's still hurtful to the wife when her husband flirts with a neighbor, co-worker, sister, whatever. Tell him it's hurting you and that he make think it's "harmless" because he's not sleeping with her, but it is not harmless.
Some woman don't mind if their man flirts, but you're not one of those women. Don't try to be cool about it when you're not. You're you, and he should respect your feelings.
2007-09-06 04:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Arggg 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Next time your around a hot guy, let it fly, and see how he likes it.
or
Kick him in the groin and no intimacy.
Also, it depends on how blatant the flirting is. If he's always saying things like, "good morning beautiful" and sappy cralp like that, that's a jerk move.
Kat G's answer is great.
2007-09-06 04:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either find out if it's the neighbors fault of his. Sometimes you may be mistaking friendliness over flirting. If she's the problem I suggest you find a neighbor who knows how to keep her hands to herself. If it's your husband..tell him what the deal is. If he doesn't stop it then you will. (by that you will leave)
2007-09-06 04:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have a cup of coffee with your neighbor, complain as women do about your husband. How he refused to go to the doctor to find out about his really vile gas, wonder out loud if its related to his hemorrhoids. Say its a shame he is afraid to get them fixed, they quite pain him at times.
After that little discussion, you husband can flirt all he wants, you neighbor will not be interested.
2007-09-06 04:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that this is not just hurtful, but it is cheating. I would not be surprised if he has already cheated. The fact that he would flirt so blatantly, means that he does not respect you.
I would tell him that if he continues the flirting you will file for divorce.
Take care,
Troy
2007-09-06 05:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock him out and tell him to go get it out of his system, that I was embarrassed and hurt. That I didn't want to see him until he decided he could stop flirting with anyone.
2007-09-06 04:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rein 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband just a natural flirt or are you just naturally jealous? Best course of action would be to talk to him, not yell, but talk. Let him know it makes you uncomfortable.
2007-09-06 04:13:57 · answer #11 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋