People said he seemed interested in me:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6R.GFyxpEsf8G9u7Chy.3ty6IX?qid=20070904124348AA8vGv2
(thats my last qs)
He started the playful teasing thing again a couple of days ago but i ignored it because i was too shy since there was a ton of guys with him
and now he has ignored me and not even looked at me, and i feel terrible and i feel as if he hates me?
What should i do, i'm so shy, should i look at him lots to show i'm interested....(did he seem interested in the 1st place? -see qs link above)
Thanks
2007-09-06 03:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's really not the player type, and i don't think he's doing it on purpose, i think he just feels i find it annoying when he teases? but i dont! i'm just shy....... he's such a nice guy.
2007-09-06 03:58:24 · update #1
Question is do you like this guy? I think you do. Let me introduce myself, I am formershyguy. I know it is hard to defeat shyness, but once you overcome you feel better about yourself. He may have felt that you snubbed him and now is ignoring you to defeat his awkwardness. Or on the other hand he was just trying to play cool guy with his buds and now is showing some of his shyness. Take him by surprise and just go up and talk to him. I am not sure of your age, but as you grow older you notice that what other people think is not of any importance. I am a Christian and I am not worried about pleasing anyone but God. Just remember, practice makes perfect.....defeat being shy.
2007-09-06 04:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by nettech45662 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm shy around guys too but you have to realize that they are still human. They can feel rejected just like you. It sounds like he was showing interest in you but that he didn't get much of a reaction and decided to retreat before he could be hurt. Obviously he likes you enough to make funny faces at you so ask him if he wants to grab a coffee or something of that nature, it doesn't have to be a girl/guy thing, just something to release the tension to see what could happen.
2007-09-06 11:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id say he probably was. Try and start over it over again,but (i very shy too so i know its hard) try to make a move.
2007-09-06 10:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by packman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't hate the player, hate the game.
2007-09-06 10:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by LUCASM 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is just a smart player. he knows how to push your buttons. he has you right where he wants you.
2007-09-06 10:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both misreading each other. try to talk to him.
2007-09-06 11:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Michael H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on his lose
2007-09-06 10:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋