My fiance` and I have known each other for 9 years. From the time we met we were attracted to each other however we did not persue a serious relationship until 2 years later. We broke up after a few years and we have been back together for the last 2 1/2 years. I lived with him for the last 2 years but I really dont feel comfortable. It is an extended family no one treats me badly I just want us to be on our own. We are gonna get married next March so I just want to spend the last few months at home with my parents for 2 reasons. After i get married they are will hardly ever see me, i want my honeymoon to be special and not like another night with my husband. My fiance is upset i am really scared about how he is taking this. I still love him, more actually! Am i being unreasonable?
2007-09-06 04:22:39 · 2 answers · asked by KIZZY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unreasonable was when you lived with this man for 9 years. You two are married without the license. It seems like you were divorced for 4 1/2 years and married for 4 1/2 years.
Consumating the relationship is the same as marriage. Breaking up the relationship is the same as divorce.
Whether you think you are or not, you are a married woman.
2007-09-06 04:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all!
my boyfriend gets all huffy when i
want to spend maybe 2-3 days at home.
you have a family, other than him.
he needs to understand that.
he gets to be with them everyday,
unlike you.
you arent being unreasonable what so ever,
i say you go ahead and stay with your family.
he obviously loves you, because y'all are getting married,
he's just going to have to get over it.
2007-09-06 11:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by terin_blake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋