Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

so there's this boy that i met at the springs and well he started talking to me first and we after that we started to hangout with eachother and i started going to the springs just to chill with him. well i found out that he wanted to go out with me and he really liked me well when he "sorta'' asked me out he had a girlfriend and i had just got out of a relatioinship. well i kept going to the springs to chill until last weekend he was there and yeah we hanged out but the girl that he was going out with was there and he hangout with her but then hangout out with me. he likes go to her and then back to me then to her. i know he likes me and i told him that i liked him too. And before i left he said that he was going to call me but he never did. Yeah i kinda want to ask him out but i think it's kinda werid for a girl to ask out a boy. what do you think about that? What do i do.? i really like him? I really just want to be with him. Wat should i do?

2007-09-06 02:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Crystal B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 02:26:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I say or do to apology for not being there.

2007-09-06 02:23:30 · 21 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Weddings

Each day I wake up with doubts about my decision to keep my daughter here with me. She is 15 and lived with her father from age 10 to 15. She has started High School here with me in a different state and does not like it.

I feel bad because I could have gone back to my ex-husband, she would be happier and not complain so much. I have not lived up to anyone's expectations especially hers. She wanted me to take the steps to put the family back together.

I guess I have to remember my ex-husband's words saying the I am "inefficient, diseased (ambivalent) and and irresponsible mother." Then, I remember what a control freak he was and how bad my life would be.

He also keep telling me to close my bank account, empty out my storage and pack up everything and then come back. He says that his sister does not leave things in his parent's house and I should not also. I live in another state with my parents.

I wish that I could find a way to make things better for everyone.

2007-09-06 02:23:00 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been sick for last 3 days, my only daughters bridal shower is on September 8, 2007. I really want to go but I am so afraid I will pass the virus to her & husband to be & his family. My daughter is taking me on Friday to Iowa (I live in Minnesota) for this, so far I am not sick but I am so afraid I am going to get sick or pass the virus on. My daughter gets married on September 29 this could not have happened at the worst time! What would you do? Would you stay home or go? I am going to be extremly sad if I don't go but feel worse if I make others sick. Help!

2007-09-06 02:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by Dawn 2 in Weddings

wedding invitation card message

2007-09-06 02:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by SUMY J 1 in Weddings

Ok I’ve heard people say that looking at porn and creating online relationships are considered cheating but I was wondering about something that’s not so clear cut. Would you consider having a wet dream a form of cheating? I think it has the same merit as a person looking at porn except that they can actually get the same feeling as having sex with another person. With men you could have proof of this is they have a wet spot on the sheets with women it’s impossible to prove unless they tell you.

The reason I ask is because it goes in line with the reasons people think looking at porn is cheating. Your spouse isn’t giving serving your needs for whatever reason so you get gratification from somewhere else. Does anyone have any thoughts? I’m just curious.

2007-09-06 02:11:18 · 33 answers · asked by abstract_alao 4 in Marriage & Divorce

hire me?

2007-09-06 02:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by Lillie H 1 in Weddings

My daughter passed away after only 3 days and i am trying to think of some funeral songs. Any suggestions would be welcome.

2007-09-06 02:07:20 · 23 answers · asked by gundychick 2 in Family

My wife & I recently had a difference of opinion on the issue of her texting another man on her cell phone We finally agreed that she would stop texting the suspect and delete his number. Now she has began 2 text another guy that is an old friend of hers I dont care that they talk however yesterday there were approximately 116 incoming and 133 outgoing text on her phone I only account for 30 of these text later in the evening i grabbed her by her pocket, just playing with her and she jerked away from me and took her phone out of that pocket and deleted whatever msgs were on it. I had no idea the phone was in her pocket & wasnt reaching 4 it. Am I wrong 2 wonder what she is texting so much about and also I wonder if she is not texting the other guy she agreed to stop talking with? We had a good argument about it & she tells me she just doesnt want me to know what they r talking about. Who is disrespecting who in this relationship?

2007-09-06 02:05:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 02:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by Javi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my husband I have been fighting over MY career .. He wants me to work in an office, I've done that and the thought of doing it again makes me want to kill myself and I'm not joking or exagerating... I try telling him this and he ignores me and says I'll make good money. This even goes as far as him telling me not to go to college to be a nurse ....

I found two jobs I would like to do and I told him and all he did was carry on about how they were too far which its no further than he goes for work, its not in London, and he flat out told me no.

I don't see how my career is his choice ... I don't understand why he doesn't listen to anything I want. I never told him what to do with his career.

What should I do?

2007-09-06 02:02:00 · 10 answers · asked by Rhyannonn C 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Give your real answer

2007-09-06 02:01:13 · 16 answers · asked by renjitharts 1 in Friends

How much importance that having a sex in deciding your compatibility in choosing a life mate? Did you really have sex with your gf / bf before making sure of your life mate?

2007-09-06 01:57:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is married to a Super Beautiful Mail Order Bride from Russia and he is the happiest man in the neigborhood! And the funny part about this is he works at blockbuster video and is overweight. He talks about how good his sex life is and how she cooks and cleans for him. I was wondering what you people think about Mail Order Brides.

2007-09-06 01:56:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 01:55:56 · 24 answers · asked by Elizabeth Ann B 1 in Weddings

the truth. I do not suffer any mental health disorder in anyway. I do love and care about my children, But have the honesty to say I should have never married the man I did, I did not love him or like him. I hated his mannerisms and certainly did not want my children growing up with them. Any man who steals a childrens childhood is purely evil and should never ever be forgiven. My children have been brought up on a run down council house where my ex deserved to live but my children did not. I have a very nice life now, I am very happy. I dont think anythink of my ex or if he is with anyone. I am truly not interested. I do not want to know his buisness and I do not want him knowing mine. I would never ever be in the same room with him again under any circumstances. I have a lovely house abroad, I have a good job and lots of friends. I would never live with another man, because he could throw me out with no-where to go I would never let any man have that kind of power over me. ?

2007-09-06 01:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even when they love you and you do it the right way.And how should a man react to this?

2007-09-06 01:52:44 · 12 answers · asked by Dario M 1 in Singles & Dating

Seems like the most popular new fad is women peeing on men. What pleasure do women get from this?



* Please - If you have nothing real to add, just skip this question.

2007-09-06 01:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 01:50:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ago, I am slowly coming to terms with it, in my own way, but I need some space from my family to do so, they are constanly on my case, have tried telling them in the nicest possible way, I want to be left alone, but they are not listening, anyone else have this problem, can you advise me please.

2007-09-06 01:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Little miss naughty 5 in Family

Please help me how to get away from this relationship.I think im pregnant again and w/the same man who make me pregnant and dont want to take hold of the resposibility.I were into 3abortion before. Were in 2years of relationships and he betray, cheat,insult and beat me so many times everytime i discover that he have a new woman.I tried to go away from him for so many times but everytime i gain my confidence he will appear in my life and will tell me that he love me only and that he just want to play with the other girls. He even use the money that he ask from me to buy the food to bring the girl to the hotel.I catch him for 33 times already, but everytime im turning my back he will start calling me even in our housephone non-stop.I try to cahnge my handphone but he will call the housephne.Please,anyone,help! whats wrong?

2007-09-06 01:50:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you women think ? I'm a guy with look looking legs

2007-09-06 01:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a reseat form pc world and it was very rof so i ironed it and the hold thing just turned black and i don't know what to do and if my mum find out she is going to kill me so can someone tell me what to do

2007-09-06 01:43:27 · 20 answers · asked by Tangebaby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, here it goes. Sisters husband, has been acting odd of late. Not as "Hands on" as before, he used to rub her back and snuggle with her, kiss her just because. Now, she says that it has been 6 days since they made love, and usually they do every 2nd or third day. She is 37 weeks pregnant, and hasn't gained as much weight as she did with her first. She has even tried to entice him by wearing short nighties and no panties, and then she exposed her boobs, and placed them right in his face! He did not even get aroused! She has tried EVERYTHING and I have tried to suggest things to help her, but I don't know what to advise anymore.
PLease can you help? He does work long hours and can be gone from very early morning until really late at night. (6 am to 11 or 12 at night)
Thank you for any help you can give her. She is 41 and he is 38.

2007-09-06 01:39:31 · 19 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So here is the situation. My guy and I had separated after 13 years because of some emotional stuff going on. I couldn't take it and needed a break. Had to go to court and get a protection order. the day I got the PO I felt terrible like it was over and because of this reached out to him. Decided that I did still love him and maybe things were worth fixing. He came back to the house and has been there ever since even know we have a current protection order. (breaking the law). However as much as I love him and will always love him I don't think that I love him the way I need to love him. Something is dead. I do still think about this other man that entered my life during the course of all this. My family will back me with whatever I decide to do. they just want me to be happy. Im not sure if I feel content. Yesterday was my birthday and I wanted to go out with my family but he made me feel guilty about wanting to go without him. I do still need some time to myself once and awhile.

2007-09-06 01:35:18 · 1 answers · asked by Elizabeth P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you preefer a busy dwn stairs or a bald upstairs?

2007-09-06 01:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by katieloo 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my bf very much but sometimes im not really satisfied when we make love... sometimes i do fake it... sometimes i dont even come... what should i do?

2007-09-06 01:27:53 · 24 answers · asked by brazenlove 3 in Singles & Dating

... or any other quotes that may tear the heart
10 points best answer

2007-09-06 01:25:49 · 2 answers · asked by ariel (philippines) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This man stopped me on the train station; he was cute and asked me for directions. When i gave him directions, he said i was looking really smart and it lightened up my day. He then walked off without looking back, i have not been able to get him out of my head.

What were his intensions; was it to tease me or....?

2007-09-06 01:20:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce