the truth. I do not suffer any mental health disorder in anyway. I do love and care about my children, But have the honesty to say I should have never married the man I did, I did not love him or like him. I hated his mannerisms and certainly did not want my children growing up with them. Any man who steals a childrens childhood is purely evil and should never ever be forgiven. My children have been brought up on a run down council house where my ex deserved to live but my children did not. I have a very nice life now, I am very happy. I dont think anythink of my ex or if he is with anyone. I am truly not interested. I do not want to know his buisness and I do not want him knowing mine. I would never ever be in the same room with him again under any circumstances. I have a lovely house abroad, I have a good job and lots of friends. I would never live with another man, because he could throw me out with no-where to go I would never let any man have that kind of power over me. ?
2007-09-06 01:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK? What was the question here?
Learn to love and trust again... that's all I am saying. You're missing out on a huge part of life and teaching your children to be like you. It's good to be smart about your choices and look out for yourself, but you also have to be willing to give and be willing to love. You're not an island, you know?
2007-09-06 02:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong to be sad or feel bitter. What's important is to know why r u sad and what make u sad? Is there anything u can do to change it? Or embrace it?
Sadness, happiness is what make life "life".
Don't dwell in the past, live for the "present" and certainly have some time to dream bout the future. Life are meant to be enjoyed but of course there should be some effort to make it so. That's what i tell myself & tries to keep that in mind.
Between....
there's nothing wrong to love again. not all men are bad but not all men are worth loving either.
Men or women, we should be independent at all time. Even married, i think our society should change. Think about it. It's risky business for a woman and even a whole family to depend on one man only for survival. What happen if anything happen to this man. Everyone should be raised to be able to be self-independent & maintain that self-independent regardless of ur age,gender...even when u r already a granny.
Did u ever seen those homeless old man/woman kicked out by their children, straying round the town, begging for money?
2007-09-06 03:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by authenticmiao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy for you that you chose to better your life and your childrens lives by leaving this man. You have that right not to live with another man....but a lil suggestion for you...Not All Men are the same as him* Remember that~
If people are thinking you're sad or bitter and you're saying it could not be farther from the truth........then perhaps you need to re adjust the perception you're showing the world.....and instead of looking at a "sad" face....perhaps turn that frown to a smile* , become more confident in yourself...and that will speak volumes when people approach you.
BEST WISHES*
2007-09-06 02:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Fiona
You have done right for yourself and well done. However please do not tar all men with the same brush. You have moved on and have a new life. If you don't want to find love again then so be it. Perhaps I see things from the other side having suffered a similar fate but not to your extent. I would give anything to find someone to share a loving and fruitful relationship with. We are all equals and nobody can have power over us
2007-09-06 02:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chianti Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so why'd you have children with this guy??? Fair eoungh you don't like him now, I can relate to that I have an ex husband but at the end of the day he's your childrens father that YOU chose to bare with him. Do you your children have contact with their father?? Just because you don't want anything to do with him doesn't mean you can force this on your kids. I don't think your bitter I just think you made some wrong choices, which we all do, but not being adult about dealing with that!
2007-09-06 02:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot can be read into your continued use of the phrase, "MY children". Clearly you don't seem to think that the father has any rights at all.
2007-09-06 05:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure i understand the question. however it dose sound to me like you are bitter.
you also seemed to have tared all men with the same brush. we are all different you know. unfortunatly for you your going to die a sad and lonely woman and i pity you.
learn to trust!
2007-09-06 02:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are bitter. See a psychiatrist.
2007-09-06 02:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by swinger_32839 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the question is?
2007-09-06 03:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by linz78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋