What is wrong with him? Husband acting weird?

Question

OK, here it goes. Sisters husband, has been acting odd of late. Not as "Hands on" as before, he used to rub her back and snuggle with her, kiss her just because. Now, she says that it has been 6 days since they made love, and usually they do every 2nd or third day. She is 37 weeks pregnant, and hasn't gained as much weight as she did with her first. She has even tried to entice him by wearing short nighties and no panties, and then she exposed her boobs, and placed them right in his face! He did not even get aroused! She has tried EVERYTHING and I have tried to suggest things to help her, but I don't know what to advise anymore.
PLease can you help? He does work long hours and can be gone from very early morning until really late at night. (6 am to 11 or 12 at night)
Thank you for any help you can give her. She is 41 and he is 38.

Addition,
She does give him oral, in fact SHE initiates most of their sex life. Thus the exposing herself to get him turned on.
Then she takes it from there.
But, and this is her worry, When she has done the usual show her bum and expose her boobs NO reaction!
ALSO, she DOES NOT remove the gown...she always keeps it on. She only lets out his 2 favorite parts and hides her giant belly!

Answer 1

he’s just stress out from work and wants to sleep. seriously, men don’t erect when they are tired. try asking your sis to help him relax by taking a warm bath together on a weekend, a good meal. and then show her boobs! he’s bound to come back!

Answer 2

Please don't take me as a jerk. I am just trying to give you the point of view from a man who has been through it. The man is exhausted. Give him a break. Your sister, thanks to his past raging hormones, now has present raging hormones. This happens to most pregnant women. Men, who are are generally given lots of extra hours with which to pay for the new child and enjoy the relief from a hormone laden pregnant wife, are tired. Too tired for sex. Too tired for much of anything but a can of beer and some TV. Give the poor guy a break! Pregnancy is hard on both parties. We may not get the hormones, but we get the brunt of yours. Yeah, we created the situation, or so we hope, but we need a break too. If you really want to help her out, get her a vibrator or more money so the guy doesn't have to work so hard. We are usually very glad to have sex with out pregnant wives, because they are usualy more into it, and more grateful for it.

Answer 3

There is something going on with him, but if your sister is 37 weeks pregnant, he may not want to hurt her or the baby--also, truthfully, a woman that big with child may not look all that enticing in a nightie.

They need to have some talks---some men get very tempted to look at other women when their wife is pregnant--try to find out what is going on with him before big problems set in.

Answer 4

She needs to sit down with her husband and find out exactly what the problem is. From what you have said, it is because he is working long hours and is simply just too tired. Think about it, after a female has a child she is simply knackered and doesnt have the energy to have sex-her body just wants to rest. You hear women posting questions on here all the time about it. hope this helps

Answer 5

I'd say he is probably worried about haveing a baby to take care of it's normal for men to freak a little tell her not to worry things should get back to normal after she has the baby just be there for her the best you can sounds like your being a great sister. Remember men have emotions too they just express them differently than women he's nervous that's all.

Answer 6

he's Controlling and punctiliously out of whack the way he appeared dissapointed which you introduced his stuff over, and then so happy to be sure you. It replaced into his thought to hold out and once you initiate having exciting he initiate's dissapointing you. you're getting divorced for a reason and you do no longer opt to be with somebody who does not love you. forget with regard to the calls and Texts, purely remind him by text textile, you're getting divorced and that's the way it is going to be. He won't like it while he calls you the two. i do no longer think of he's puzzled i think of he's a minipulative, needy Wanker and you need to do away with him. superb acquaintances? Puhlease. I watched my dad thrash my mom and the telephone up the wall while i replaced right into a baby, and my dad contradict her, and how she is the guy who payed for the motor vehicle he drove off in jointly as she replaced into pregnant at wintry climate with my brother. OH and how she payed off all his expenses, and how he took the money and how she has a level in 3 languages and labored in a financial employer 2 a protracted time and left residing house at sixteen. Oh and how she divorced him which i'm so pleased along with her for. Now do away with this fool

Answer 7

Maybe he needs some attention too. He is prolly feeling overwhelmed from the impending birth of another mouth to feed. He also is prolly worried about hurting her.

She should give him oral sex. This way he remembers that there's orgasms, he sees she will put his needs before her own, and he will have some form of stress relief where he doesn't have to exert much energy. (I am not being dirty, this is what I do for my hubby if he seems stressed out).

Answer 8

Relax! There is most likely nothing wrong. 37 weeks pregnant! 18 hour work days! HE IS 38!

Leave him alone. Marriage is not based on sex alone!

Answer 9

It could be that he is just so wore out from so much work....poor man then his wife wants him to stay up longer! Or it could be liek most men are, once the woman gets that close to having the baby they are too scared or weirded out to do anything.

Answer 10

What type of work does he do that requires him to work those type of hours. Someone may need to sneak-peak and find out whats going on. From the sound of it, he may have something going on, on the side.