How much importance that having a sex in deciding your compatibility in choosing a life mate? Did you really have sex with your gf / bf before making sure of your life mate?
2007-09-06 01:57:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its very important to have sex before marriage because you may have crap sex 4 ever
2007-09-06 02:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by the troll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...it's extremely important!!! Anyone that tells you that "sexual compatibility" isn't important?....needs to sit down with themselves and re-evaluate there own personal value system accordingly. Surely there are OTHER important issues that need to be evaluated too....but not being compatible sexually with your life-mate will eventually cause you HUGE mental dysfunctions and conflictions with one another otherwise. I say good open conversation in telling each other what you like and what you don't like will absolutely be some of the biggest keys to having a great honest open relationship with anybody really! I like sex in my relationships...it's just simply one integral part of a larger picture that needs to be created together....agreed? YIKES!!!
2007-09-06 02:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider sex to be very important b/c it can cause problems in the relationship. U can't spend the rest of ur life having bad sex cuz it'll just cause u to cheat and no one wants that. Just make wise decisions cause it's the rest of ur life.
2007-09-06 02:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im off no religeon and i dont believe in sex after marriage. sex is a way of stermining how you love someone u express it (love) in a sexual way and i dopnt think you should have sex to decide compatability. i think u can use sex for fun (one night stands) but if she wants to continue after kissing you i would say rue already pretty compatible.
2007-09-06 02:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by GG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOme people prefer to wait having sex until they're married, others like to practice before getting married........I wouldn't say to choose your life time partner....according to how good the sex was/is.
But.............to each and their own*
goodluck*
2007-09-06 02:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that would come into it.
dating is seeing how you get on. Sex life is part of that and how you express feeling to be with each other
2007-09-06 02:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the term "try the shoe on before you buy it?". But God says to wait until after you get married. Good luck.!
2007-09-06 02:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important, Think of it like buying a pair of shoes without trying threm on.
2007-09-06 02:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i do after marriage only
2007-09-06 02:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a load of ***#@%#! no offenice but thats not right
2007-09-06 02:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋