Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

I recently, while putting some clothes away for my girl, found a small bottle of KY and 3 condoms (the ones you get in a three pack)...now we do not use a condom EVER when we have sex (yes, i know, you are saying DUMBASS)...but we don't. ...nonetheless...a little bit of the KY was used...it is in her bottom drawer next to her bed...is this something to be worried about...could they be from a long time ago and just forgot about them?....we have been together for 3 months and i see her everyday (meaning i see her everynight and weekends)...could she be saving them for OTHER sexual activities for us?...or do you think that they could have been for someone else...RECENTLY?...any thoughts...this is killing me...thanks guys!

...PS...she is on birth control...

2007-09-06 03:36:47 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged, and we are beginning to think about the registry. The problem is that I've lived on my own for over 4 years and have most of the things people usually register for. Also, my family tends to look at what's on your registry and then buy it elsewhere if they can find a good deal. So our idea is to register for a few things we need and hope for $$. But I do want to be sure that the store we register at has a good return policy. Ideally cash back with little hassle. Thanks!

2007-09-06 03:35:13 · 22 answers · asked by cincykt 2 in Weddings

I have Rs 1000 in my pocket and i want to run away from my home where me and my parents had a real bad fight..., i just hate them now....., so how to run away? any tips pls.. and where to go?? I am in India, so where shud i go? Pls.., its some serous problem.. help me i beg u.......

2007-09-06 03:33:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for birthday, valentine etc ....... anniversaries.

2007-09-06 03:32:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This coming Sat will be our 17th wedding anniversary, and I am not excited about it. The last couple of years life and interests have change between us and I consider it to be a normal part of marriage, but as I sit here and think about it, I don't have the same interest in being married. I don't hate or dislike my wife but I don't enjoy or look forward to things the way I use to. What would your advise be, have you gone through this in your marriage?

2007-09-06 03:28:55 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-06 03:28:42 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my "friend" are in a 9 month non-relationship. He told me from the begining he didnt want a GF and when things become GF/BF things get weird. I was in total agreement I am just getting over a divorce I have 2 children who have never seen me with anyone but thier father. I am not comfortable bringing anyone into my home around them yet. This guy has been there for me when I need him. When I had a death in my family he never left my side. We can talk for hours we make each other laugh and we spend alot of time together.
The problem is no matter what we are disscussing he always ends it with "and thats why I dont want a GF". He says things like dont get attached dont fall in love. So even though I am not ready either these statements put me on the defense. I am constantly asking if hes tired of me yet, or reminding him we have no commitment he can move on whenever he wants. He says I push him away. I think my feelings r getting hurt here and the best thing to do is walk away.

2007-09-06 03:25:55 · 19 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of family out of state that im not inviting to our wedding, but I would like to send them an announcement after were married. Any examples of what to say????

2007-09-06 03:24:10 · 13 answers · asked by Apryl H 1 in Weddings

2007-09-06 03:17:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm so confused.. I love 2 men and I'm not sure who I want to be with. How do I make that decision? There are numerous circumstances (I can't get into) that are interferring with my decision. I think the biggest thing is fear. I'm afraid of losing one for the other.

2007-09-06 03:06:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i can' t do that face to face so plz help me frends i am really confused what should i say her so she gets impressed

2007-09-06 03:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that I have been talking to for a few weeks now. He says he really like me. He calls me all the time and is really attentive. Whilst I am enjoying the attention, I dont want him to get comfortable too quickly and to start thinking that he has me?

Any ideas on how to keep him working hard to get my affections and time etc I dont want to just give in to him I want to see if he reallys is serious.
I dont want to play games but what should I do?

Any ideas???

2007-09-06 03:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a little confused on how this tool is to be used. My "HUSBAND" goes into the single and dating and is giving advice on threesomes. I thought that this was a place where you get and give advice on subjects that pertain to you?

2007-09-06 02:59:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies whats a nice song for my bridal waltz and one for walking down the isle???? Ty

2007-09-06 02:58:52 · 10 answers · asked by stars7s 2 in Weddings

i would think most men love it but many are so upset about it. is it because your not a part of it or are you really just against breaking those ancient laws of the land?

how would it feel to you if it were your wife/girlfriend who admitted to being attracted to women?

2007-09-06 02:52:39 · 21 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 02:49:27 · 3 answers · asked by Gracie H 1 in Family

filed a devorce in 2003 in baltimore maryland , and i need to know the results

2007-09-06 02:47:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Scenario: You have 2 kids from a previous marriage, your partner has none, but always wanted them. There are no guarantees that your partner is infertile, but chances are higher than normal. Originally, you and your partner had planned to have a child together.

2007-09-06 02:47:34 · 34 answers · asked by Tempestt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just proposed to my girlfriend last thursday and i found out this morning that my 1 month old daughter could be some other guys.

2007-09-06 02:46:51 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do we prefer young or older women/men?? I walked into a spa yesterday and this gorgeous little blonde was yapping like a lap dog on her cell phone, very loud, every other word was "like" drove me nuts and all I had a choice to do was to sit there and listen to it. WOW guys how can you handle that? I couldn't imagine the chatter and wondered who would have the patience for her. The immaturity is scarey, and we have all been there I know, well maybe not that bad, but curious if because of this reason younger guys prefer (attractive) older women? Women how bout you? Do you prefer sophisticated sexy older men or younger hot guys?

2007-09-06 02:42:38 · 24 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I accidentally left my phone home but another man called me. My man saw this and know the other man. So he asked me why was this person calling me. AAAAAAHHHHHHHH I don't know what to say.

2007-09-06 02:40:11 · 27 answers · asked by chezeryl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 42 and my girlfriend is 28. I have an extremely strong sex drive. She would be fine with once a week, but I want more at least three times a week. She has a history of sexual abuse in her past, so I giver her space. She sinces it's a problem. I am not going to cheat on her she means the world to me. I am not into masturbation...

2007-09-06 02:38:23 · 17 answers · asked by rtp0105 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend created this monster that i am today..lol..he spoiled me soooooo much in the beginning(i.e.running errands,doing things around the house etc) .and now he's slowly starting to ease away from the things he had no problem doing in the beginning..Is it fair??am i asking too much??

2007-09-06 02:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by jus_me 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing this girl for about 2 months and everything was great. Then yesterday she wrote me an email saying how I was so perfect in every aspect of a relationship, the best person she has ever dated, but she's holding herself back from letting go of her feelings for fear of getting hurt like she has been so many times before. She says she doesnt want to lose me, and I have been supportive, however now my feelings are on the defensive because I also don't wanna get hurt. What does she mean, or hope to achieve by all of this, and what can I do differently when I seem to be doing everything right. Is it possible she can't handle a true gentlemen?

2007-09-06 02:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 02:37:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 02:35:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 02:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by bigboobymememe 2 in Family

I have a husband of 14months, and I love him very much, but he drive me crazy, and there are times I dont want to be around him, I have to pick up after him, tell him over over and over again, what I need from him to help me out. We have two beautiful children, and yet I think I have three.
Every time I talk to him, he says huh? I cant hear you. SO then I am repeating myself over and over. I have become this person I hate. When I was a single mom, I knew I had to do things myself, being married I thought things would change. I have told him I am unhappy with the help he gives me. He says all I do is ***** and nag. So what else is there to do? Please help me...

2007-09-06 02:30:31 · 8 answers · asked by Shelly G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 02:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by Jon-Jay M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. I'm Gong Chan and i am a student. I Have this seatmate at my school service named Dominic. He is from Italy and had Transferred from our school. When i'm in my School Bus... he always stares at me. I hate being stared at by, like a long minutes. How can i tell him? he is even talking to me, and i have the urge that we can be good friends... but that's okay for me only for one reason, We don't have a lot in common, im a freshman and he's a sophomore and we are like the opposites of each other.... Please help me!

2007-09-06 02:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by gong chan 1 in Friends