2007-09-06 03:28:42 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes! but you got to get to know that peron to see if that love is going to stay
2007-09-06 03:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never believed in it before it happened to me. I believe that love at first sight exist. Its not just about the physical appearance, but the way the person makes your heart feel when your eyes meet. The eyes are actually more powerful than the rest of the body... After that, its a matter of getting to know eachother and find out how far this love can take you... I dont think that love has a limit... Even after years, a person could either fall in love all over again, or fall even more in love in many different ways, for various reasons.
2007-09-06 03:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by mariluv505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely dont believe.... people who say that they believe in love at the first sight are loving the person for their beauty. love is something that grows with time. love in friendship is acceptable as you know the characters of that particular person. A 40 yr old lady can also look like a very young girl . by seeing her and getting attracted towards her can a college boy propose to her??? love at first sight is absolutely wrong and purely based on beauty..... Remember, external beauty is short lived....
2007-09-06 03:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by jyotsika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I believe in attraction at first sight, but actual love is something you develop for a person as you get to know them...it's about chemistry, values, outlook on life, and alot of other things that have nothing at all to do with looks.
2007-09-06 03:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do believe in love at first sight, i feel that there is some chemistry between two people which takes over, butterfly in stomach, tht first unforgetable smile, god it has to be love when u r sure tht the person u r seein u with whom u can live ur rest of ur life with. but lol to be exact sure meet the person spend the time together and then eventually u can say ur gut feelin was right or not. if it was right thn love at first sight do exist.
2007-09-06 03:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by hafsarr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I definitely believe in attraction at first sight. Love is something that develops over time.
2007-09-06 03:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Marie Catherine 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is possible and some have met and married for life. These that do are rare however. Love at first sight in most cases is infatuation. Love isn't instant and grows with time. It is possible, but not likely.
2007-09-06 03:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I believe lust at first sight. i believe sometimes you subconsciously find something familiar in another person's physical appearance or demeanor and felt instant attraction. But, love is more about trust, loyalty and self sacrifice, which a 15 second glance can't possibly accomplish.
2007-09-06 03:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I believe in "I see something very interesting that I wanna see more of" at first sight. People don't even know each other and soooo many things can determine whether people are matched for being mates. To jump in and say, "i love you" is impulsive and frankly indicates really, really poor personal boundaries. I would say to someone doing that, "what is it about you that needs to have INSTANT LOVE versus taking the time to get to know someone's character, values, morals, beliefs, dreams, moods, habits, plans, goals, child-rearing ideas, parenting styles, sexual practices/drive, see how they are when they're mad, sad, stressed, in crisis, etc.. the list goes on and on and on and on and on. Why would someone forego getting to know ALL of that, for the satisfaction of insta-luv? Because they are not secure in themselves. They don't know themselves very well and are operating under a belief system that another person can fill them up, instead of already being full and taking the time to explore another human being. "Well geez, she sure as hell took all the fun outta THAT, didn't she?" ..hehe.. ..no love at first sight. Sleep with em and get it over with, and then get on to the business of getting to really KNOW him. Say to yourself, "I am worth protecting in this way."
2007-09-06 03:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Yvette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I do believe in instant attraction that turns into love. That is what happened with my and my husband, we have been together for 5 years, married for 3. We have a 14 month old, and another due in 8 days.
2007-09-06 03:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha ;) it was my first question here!
as it for me - yes, i do beleive in this stuff... whatever they say that it is just physical attraction & nothing more...but, without a physical attraction u can not start a simple relationship wih a partner coz at first look u can not identify this person's other talents like: smartness, sense of humour, understanding & etc...
well, it happened to me just 2 years ago...i participated at the seminar in another city, so there was a guy who caught my eye, u may not find him handsome, but he was very stylish indian man with good manners...so, it was just 5-day seminar, we both had just a courtesy conversation, nothing more, but....there was such a fascinating eye-contact!!!
i am sure that this attraction was mutual. so i went back & just new only his name & where he works that's it! and this year he came with a b-trip to our city, can u imagine?! and again i felt that fascinating feeling that i've nevere experienced before & i realized that it was love at first sight!
and again circumstance did not allow us to communicate properly-just 5-minutes courtesy conversation, but if u could see his eyes!
i still can't get him out of my mind...and i am sure that he is my fate, but why my fate is so shy ????? ;) paradox....
2007-09-06 03:54:47 · answer #11 · answered by miraclelight777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋