I have Rs 1000 in my pocket and i want to run away from my home where me and my parents had a real bad fight..., i just hate them now....., so how to run away? any tips pls.. and where to go?? I am in India, so where shud i go? Pls.., its some serous problem.. help me i beg u.......
2007-09-06 03:33:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
take my word for it, things wont cool down. i have had the experience and running away from a problem is never a solution to it. think abt it...
true courage is staying where you are and facing what soever is face to face...........
a solution i cant give as i don't know what is the situation that you are under and how did all this crop up.......
and ya give it thought what will you with those 1000 bucks of yours, they are surely gonna be blown out within a matter of few days. then what?
at home there are your parents to provide you with there protection. once you are out no matter how strong you think you are , i assure you arnt that strong at this age to face the world.
if the fight started because of some of your own doings then i would say better......... lock yourself in a room turn off the lights and think, don't keep repeating in your mind that it was the fault of your parents, but instead look into it deeper..... what was the role that you played in all this mess compilation.....
and just think about your parents. what will they go through even if they come to know that you were gonna take up such actions, leave alone what they will go through when you actually do something so stupid...............
for pas 15 yrs your parents were with you, they would support you no matter what happened. they were always there for you if not a physical presence , surely in there hearts you were there always..........
ever had a gf if yes , then just imagine this situation she ditches you. what are your feeling ..... well now multiply it by a 100. imagine how it you would feel? thats the way your parents would feel is they even came to know that you had such thoughts...........
take my advice go to them cry if you wanna cry there is nothing to be ashamed of those are your parents out there....
cry and tell them of what you feel like . they will understand......
remember they may be already in tension over this incident you had , so they may not listen , there better judgment may be clouded, it is you who has to be patient , show them that now you are a grown up man ..............
2007-09-06 17:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by juleo t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away is never a good choice! So many things could happen to you on the road, and you'll make your parents really worried too. See, even taxis aren't safe now, what with sprays that drug you and whatnot...Maybe you should stay at your friend or your relative's place for a while? Until things cool down? Then go talk to your parents nicely; to resolve the problem? Remember whatever happens they're still your parents and they'll still love you.
2007-09-06 03:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by rhianova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have a mother? If you aren't comfortable talking with her about sex, try to have mom do it. If you are a single parent, then you will need to be the one to at least start the talks with her. You can tell her what you think from a male point of view. She probably doesn't want to ask you specifically about THE sex act, but wants to know how boys look at certain things. How should she behave in different situations. Tell her this is an awkward area for you, but that you will try to answer questions that she has as honestly as possible. Most girls don't ask their dads if they should do it or not. Be brave. Just do it. Talk with her.
2016-05-22 14:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run away!! That will only make your problems worse! All teens fight w/ their parents & think its the end of the world! It's not..
Can you go stay at a friend or family members house for a couple days until things cool down?
That would be best...
2007-09-06 03:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by luvmybabies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right son; do some running and some exercise to cool you down; when completely tired have a good shower and up to bed without any food; the next day you will feel good and you will know the importance of parents; at least your Rs 1000 will remain in your pocket!
2007-09-08 07:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by dayapin39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't commit a blunder of running away from home. Life is very hard and your Rs.1000/- wont help for more than a week. Try to pacify yourself and wait for an opportune moment when you are able to support yourself. Meanwhile you should concentrate on your studies and earn qualifications for leading a decent life.
2007-09-06 03:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by paresh g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you to drop this idea.
It’s something foolish you have decided. How long you can survive with those 1000 Rs?
Moreover it’s not as easy as you think to lead a life with out anyone to help you.
There are so many worst things happening in this world, if someone comes to know that you are helpless, they are even ready to steal your eyes, kidneys, and most valuable parts of your body. You would be left in footpath without out care.
Try to figure out where you went wrong? What made you get into a problem with your parents?
Parents are never wrong. They really love their kids, if not what? They are your parents, you love them, make them realize that you are worthy to them.
All you have to do is, make them feel proud of you. All your problems will be put to end. Believe me; you’ll enjoy your life with your parents a lot. I wish you a happy life with your family.
My dear, still if you are confused, please feel free to contact me.
Regards,
Vish
2007-09-06 09:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. You seem to be totally unaware of the wicked outside world. You will find your Rs. 1000 gone in minutes. Maybe even worse. Stay at home. Obey your parents. Whatever they do is with your best interests in mind.
2007-09-06 05:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do reconsider... running away will not solve your problems. I am sure most teenagers fight with their parents at one time or another. It is part of growing up.
You can try talking to other adults who are close to you, tell them your problems and concerns. Instead of running away maybe you can stay with some of your relatives and let things cool down first. But you should let your parents where you are always. You are still their son and they do care about you.
2007-09-06 03:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy M.D. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE with rana .
don't make that mistake for that u'll regret all ur life.
even if u run from house i'm 100% sure u'll come back. but trust me when u come back ur life will be terrible, how people around u talk will embarrass all ur life time.
2007-09-06 04:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋